High-inhib is ruining my life (not just dating)

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I've been high-inhib my entire life. It’s a disease that’s been ruining my existence.

I’ve been talking to a girl since February. We’ve done the nudes, the flirting, everything. But because I’m a coward who is afraid of "what might happen," I stayed trapped in a texting loop for months. Guess what happened? The momentum died. She’s fading me, and she’s probably already found a man who isn’t afraid to act.

This isn't just about women. It’s a systemic failure in my character:

I wanted to start content creation? Fear of judgment stopped me.

I wanted to start boxing and train my body? I just sat there.

I’ve been a mental slave since my ex broke me last year.

I’ve been acting like a beta, waiting for permission to live my life while the world moves on. I’m done. I finally stopped being a coward and sent a direct, non-negotiable invite for a date on the 29th. No questions, no "what do you think," just the plan.

If you’re a high-inhib loser sitting on your hands because you’re scared of rejection, wake up. Nobody cares about your feelings. You either take the lead and dominate your reality, or you get left behind.

Stop overthinking and start acting. It’s that simple.
 
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I used to be this way bhai, stopped caring after being heartbroken one too many times, cant let it spike my cortisol
 
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When I started smoking weed it lowered my inhib, but fucked up my brain too
 
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