Hahacrazy
Iron
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- Apr 23, 2026
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I fucked up a few nights ago. I was about to have sex with an ltb. She brought me to her dorm. We did lots of hot foreplay but I was too anxious and desensitized to get hard. I ended up leaving without having sex. The same thing happened to me a few years ago when I lost my virginity to an sl. Idk how to fix this. I’m trying noporn and nofap. I have a sex drive but when it’s time to do the deed, I just can’t. When I start getting an erection, my foreskin opens up a bit and i feel discomfort/pain. That contributes to it too. I’m thinking about avoiding pursuing women...I kind of don’t want to though because I still have a sex drive/libido. All those years of adolescent inceldom-induced porn/fapping has ruined me. I just keep worrying that this will repeat the next time because this usually happens when I get physical with a girl. This girl still wants me to go to her dorm again. Can I fix this?