HOW ARE MEN OF THIS GENERATION SUPPOSED TO MEET WOMEN?

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Dating apps are a flakefest for anyone that's sub Chad (98% of men). I had success in the past but now am lucky to even get a date with a MTB.

Bars/Clubs are starting to die in America as women have 100s of options at the swipe of a finger. Why would they go to a club? I even talked with a club promoter that said nightlife is dying.

Most men don't have a social circle full of attractive women after graduating college

How are men of our generation supposed to date and meet women? I had a lot of success with nightgame and dating apps a year ago but recently its become terrible. 90% of girls from apps ghost or flake me and I am forced to date MTBs and jestermax for them.

Forget slaying, meeting a nice girl and having an LTR is so basic like its something our fathers and grandfathers never had to post on forums about. They would meet a girl in their friend group, church, school and have a happy LTR with her. Now it feels every girl is a "career girl" with a 1000 options, 50 bodycount, and will drop you at the click of a finger if she wakes up in a bad mood that day. 99% of girls I met on dates said they don't know how to cook, their main focus is their career, and they had negative views of traditional gender roles.

What will happened to this generation? The fact that we are even discussing this on forums, analyzing it says a lot about the world we live in today.


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Incel
 
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Onlya incel think like that
 
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Another shit thread by op
 
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5 tags is max
 
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Modern women’s aren’t worthy of my love
 
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This thread is for finding solutions not pointless arguments with forum members
How was that an argument?, only the first 5 users you tag actually get tagged, the rest dont get alerted.
 
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Grrrrr i am so mad

How dare He to break the rules like that

Lets all grab basheball bats and bash his skull in two
Its not a rule only the first 5 actually get tagged
 
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Either meet one and marry her before you’re 20

OR

Bounce around the same used up sluts in your friend group until everyone settles

OR

be top 1% Chad and get app / cold approach girls
 
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Have you tried going outside and talking to other humans?
 
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The answer is pretty simple, you dont
 
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OP are you in USA? I think the more we talk about this it's important people post their country because I have a feeling it can be vastly different in the West vs other areas of the world and we talk past each other cause some guys wil be like hurr durr it's EZ i never get flaked on I have girls always giving me IOIs and it's like you find out they are in some 3rd world shithole or something non applicable to like NY or CA


OLD has always been a flakefest and the tinder experiments from even 5 years ago are not relevant. I would argue they've never been relevant because getting matches and INITIAL attention isn't the problem, it always comes down to actually setting a date up which is where the flaking or ghosting comes from



IRL more and more I think women just go out to fish for attention not ever actually looking to meet with a guy. The more and more I talk and overhear conversations as a bar worker the more I realize women just get paid money from men more and more just to like interact with them. Women literally go out to bars to talk to men and have these men like venmo or google pay them hundreds of dollars the following week. Like it blew my mind to talk to a group of 4 women the other night where they say men will flirt with them at the club get info and then send them money as a way to try to hook up with them and the women will just string them along with no intention of doing anything

plus so many women are selling feet pics and sexy pics to guys they meet IRL like its a VERY COMMON thing. EXREMELY common to the point I'd say at least half of women by age 21 have made money by selling a pic or doing some (non sex) favor for a man. Like just accompany him to some function. Men are jestermaxxing by just GIVING women money in hopes of getting something.

I don't even get many IOIS in the last few months and even when I do get some where women are the ones that approach and tell me I am hot and get their contact info it really never goes anywhere, she was just out one night having fun, and the next day it's like her life restarts and the previous night didn't happen



I don't have a solution or really even tips to give, this generation just isn't having a lot of sex. I met this like 6'5'' Gl mixed dude at the bar last night, he was really cool dude and we chatted a bit about women and he agreed with me and the girl he was trying to get with through the night was some chubby mexican bitch who he mogged so bad but I guess that's where his options are.
 
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OP are you in USA? I think the more we talk about this it's important people post their country because I have a feeling it can be vastly different in the West vs other areas of the world and we talk past each other cause some guys wil be like hurr durr it's EZ i never get flaked on I have girls always giving me IOIs and it's like you find out they are in some 3rd world shithole or something non applicable to like NY or CA


OLD has always been a flakefest and the tinder experiments from even 5 years ago are not relevant. I would argue they've never been relevant because getting matches and INITIAL attention isn't the problem, it always comes down to actually setting a date up which is where the flaking or ghosting comes from



IRL more and more I think women just go out to fish for attention not ever actually looking to meet with a guy. The more and more I talk and overhear conversations as a bar worker the more I realize women just get paid money from men more and more just to like interact with them. Women literally go out to bars to talk to men and have these men like venmo or google pay them hundreds of dollars the following week. Like it blew my mind to talk to a group of 4 women the other night where they say men will flirt with them at the club get info and then send them money as a way to try to hook up with them and the women will just string them along with no intention of doing anything

plus so many women are selling feet pics and sexy pics to guys they meet IRL like its a VERY COMMON thing. EXREMELY common to the point I'd say at least half of women by age 21 have made money by selling a pic or doing some (non sex) favor for a man. Like just accompany him to some function. Men are jestermaxxing by just GIVING women money in hopes of getting something.

I don't even get many IOIS in the last few months and even when I do get some where women are the ones that approach and tell me I am hot and get their contact info it really never goes anywhere, she was just out one night having fun, and the next day it's like her life restarts and the previous night didn't happen



I don't have a solution or really even tips to give, this generation just isn't having a lot of sex. I met this like 6'5'' Gl mixed dude at the bar last night, he was really cool dude and we chatted a bit about women and he agreed with me and the girl he was trying to get with through the night was some chubby mexican bitch who he mogged so bad but I guess that's where his options are.
I live in a big city in the USA bro
 
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OP are you in USA? I think the more we talk about this it's important people post their country because I have a feeling it can be vastly different in the West vs other areas of the world and we talk past each other cause some guys wil be like hurr durr it's EZ i never get flaked on I have girls always giving me IOIs and it's like you find out they are in some 3rd world shithole or something non applicable to like NY or CA


OLD has always been a flakefest and the tinder experiments from even 5 years ago are not relevant. I would argue they've never been relevant because getting matches and INITIAL attention isn't the problem, it always comes down to actually setting a date up which is where the flaking or ghosting comes from



IRL more and more I think women just go out to fish for attention not ever actually looking to meet with a guy. The more and more I talk and overhear conversations as a bar worker the more I realize women just get paid money from men more and more just to like interact with them. Women literally go out to bars to talk to men and have these men like venmo or google pay them hundreds of dollars the following week. Like it blew my mind to talk to a group of 4 women the other night where they say men will flirt with them at the club get info and then send them money as a way to try to hook up with them and the women will just string them along with no intention of doing anything

plus so many women are selling feet pics and sexy pics to guys they meet IRL like its a VERY COMMON thing. EXREMELY common to the point I'd say at least half of women by age 21 have made money by selling a pic or doing some (non sex) favor for a man. Like just accompany him to some function. Men are jestermaxxing by just GIVING women money in hopes of getting something.

I don't even get many IOIS in the last few months and even when I do get some where women are the ones that approach and tell me I am hot and get their contact info it really never goes anywhere, she was just out one night having fun, and the next day it's like her life restarts and the previous night didn't happen



I don't have a solution or really even tips to give, this generation just isn't having a lot of sex. I met this like 6'5'' Gl mixed dude at the bar last night, he was really cool dude and we chatted a bit about women and he agreed with me and the girl he was trying to get with through the night was some chubby mexican bitch who he mogged so bad but I guess that's where his options are.
100% agree with everything you said. Living in a big city in the US is hard mode. And yeah 90% of women that compliment, match me on apps, etc it goes nowhere they end up ghosting at some point in the convo or flaking. I have to go below my looks level to consistently get dates at this point which doesn’t even feel worth it.
 
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Dating apps are a flakefest for anyone that's sub Chad (98% of men). I had success in the past but now am lucky to even get a date with a MTB.

Bars/Clubs are starting to die in America as women have 100s of options at the swipe of a finger. Why would they go to a club? I even talked with a club promoter that said nightlife is dying.

Most men don't have a social circle full of attractive women after graduating college

How are men of our generation supposed to date and meet women? I had a lot of success with nightgame and dating apps a year ago but recently its become terrible. 90% of girls from apps ghost or flake me and I am forced to date MTBs and jestermax for them.

Forget slaying, meeting a nice girl and having an LTR is so basic like its something our fathers and grandfathers never had to post on forums about. They would meet a girl in their friend group, church, school and have a happy LTR with her. Now it feels every girl is a "career girl" with a 1000 options, 50 bodycount, and will drop you at the click of a finger if she wakes up in a bad mood that day. 99% of girls I met on dates said they don't know how to cook, their main focus is their career, and they had negative views of traditional gender roles.

What will happened to this generation? The fact that we are even discussing this on forums, analyzing it says a lot about the world we live in today.


@Amnesia @cvzvvc @ercan @Heatmiser @autistic_tendencies @Foreverbrad @Swarthy Knight @edodalic29 @Edgarpill @Whatever @Prettyboy @thereallegend
If there isn't more than a dozen ladies flocking to u every second of the day cope rope its so ovER gkys rt this second
 
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If there isn't more than a dozen ladies flocking to u every second of the day cope rope its so ovER gkys rt this second
I was texting 10-20 girls daily a few years back now I can count the amount of phone numbers I have on one hand
 
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I was texting 10-20 girls daily a few years back now I can count the amount of phone numbers I have on one hand
real it's over for even chads chads are now chadcels now gigachads only pull low tier beckys looks inflation is real. Girls will ghost cl all the time for gigachad
 
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bc they have access to gigachad they can give a big "fu" to cl's and low-tier chads
 
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all bc of Tinder/Bumble/Hinge smh
 
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Gym. Or hope at college you find one, keep her, marry and move in together after college. Thats my game plan.
 
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Gym. Or hope at college you find one, keep her, marry and move in together after college. Thats my game plan.
College is much easier bc college men are low SMV and have no game. But once you graduate and move to a big city it’s hard mode as you are competing with celebrities and millionaires.

However I did get much more IOIs in my bodybuilding days so I am bulkiny and focused on gymaxx again now
 
Gym. Or hope at college you find one, keep her, marry and move in together after college. Thats my game plan.
If you can find Virgin HTB in college it could be worth settling down. For me I craved the excitement of slaying so never had LTR in my life I thought I could focus LTR in my 30s
 
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Do your male friends not know any women who they can introduce you to? Are they all incels
guy with the ER pfp criticizes male friends for being possible incels. Lmaooo
 
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We are left with one option and thats just try to become top 1% and have them approach us . US is a canon event , every girl i met is a slut and a whore , we are genuinely fucked , go through cycles where you just focus on looksmax then focus on approaching / meeting women , increase ur options as much as u can then when you have options just pick the hqnp and be done .

For now dont approach them , fuck them , looksmax to chad , get some $ & fashionmaxx , then have them come to u or just approach relentlessly
 
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Dating apps are a flakefest for anyone that's sub Chad (98% of men). I had success in the past but now am lucky to even get a date with a MTB.

Bars/Clubs are starting to die in America as women have 100s of options at the swipe of a finger. Why would they go to a club? I even talked with a club promoter that said nightlife is dying.

Most men don't have a social circle full of attractive women after graduating college

How are men of our generation supposed to date and meet women? I had a lot of success with nightgame and dating apps a year ago but recently its become terrible. 90% of girls from apps ghost or flake me and I am forced to date MTBs and jestermax for them.

Forget slaying, meeting a nice girl and having an LTR is so basic like its something our fathers and grandfathers never had to post on forums about. They would meet a girl in their friend group, church, school and have a happy LTR with her. Now it feels every girl is a "career girl" with a 1000 options, 50 bodycount, and will drop you at the click of a finger if she wakes up in a bad mood that day. 99% of girls I met on dates said they don't know how to cook, their main focus is their career, and they had negative views of traditional gender roles.

What will happened to this generation? The fact that we are even discussing this on forums, analyzing it says a lot about the world we live in today.


@Amnesia @cvzvvc @ercan @Heatmiser @autistic_tendencies @Foreverbrad @Swarthy Knight @edodalic29 @Edgarpill @Whatever @Prettyboy @thereallegend
Aging populations suck too, one could say that you can go to stores or places in public but my town's median age is 53 or 54 so there's few young women, and fewer decent+ looking ones.

I guess you live as an incel and let the birth rate crash to zero and allow the population to be 83% comprised of people over the age of 55.

Dating is dead.
 
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Geomaxxing might be the only viable option at this point. Not to some shithole gook country but to some other developed/semi developed European or South American country.
 
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100% agree with everything you said. Living in a big city in the US is hard mode. And yeah 90% of women that compliment, match me on apps, etc it goes nowhere they end up ghosting at some point in the convo or flaking. I have to go below my looks level to consistently get dates at this point which doesn’t even feel worth it.
Have you read my blackpill levels thread. Large cities are blackpill level 4/5
 
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Geomaxxing might be the only viable option at this point. Not to some shithole gook country but to some other developed/semi developed European or South American country.
These options aren't guaranteed or sustainable, the men there could all of a sudden start be very unwelcoming and antagonistically discriminatory.
 
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The men, they would begin to see foreigners as trying to take their women, as if they were being invaded.
Who cares. It's a cuck or get cucked world. Even if you were slaying in your home country haters gonna hate regardless.

Also you obvs don't have to live there, just snag some hoes and bring them abroad back to your home country. Unless you're an old subhuman flaunting your wealth the chances of her using you for a green card is relatively lower than ppl make it out to seem.
 
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its only possible if you are CL
 
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They don't, that's why there is a loneliness and incel epidemic.
 
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OP are you in USA? I think the more we talk about this it's important people post their country because I have a feeling it can be vastly different in the West vs other areas of the world and we talk past each other cause some guys wil be like hurr durr it's EZ i never get flaked on I have girls always giving me IOIs and it's like you find out they are in some 3rd world shithole or something non applicable to like NY or CA


OLD has always been a flakefest and the tinder experiments from even 5 years ago are not relevant. I would argue they've never been relevant because getting matches and INITIAL attention isn't the problem, it always comes down to actually setting a date up which is where the flaking or ghosting comes from



IRL more and more I think women just go out to fish for attention not ever actually looking to meet with a guy. The more and more I talk and overhear conversations as a bar worker the more I realize women just get paid money from men more and more just to like interact with them. Women literally go out to bars to talk to men and have these men like venmo or google pay them hundreds of dollars the following week. Like it blew my mind to talk to a group of 4 women the other night where they say men will flirt with them at the club get info and then send them money as a way to try to hook up with them and the women will just string them along with no intention of doing anything

plus so many women are selling feet pics and sexy pics to guys they meet IRL like its a VERY COMMON thing. EXREMELY common to the point I'd say at least half of women by age 21 have made money by selling a pic or doing some (non sex) favor for a man. Like just accompany him to some function. Men are jestermaxxing by just GIVING women money in hopes of getting something.

I don't even get many IOIS in the last few months and even when I do get some where women are the ones that approach and tell me I am hot and get their contact info it really never goes anywhere, she was just out one night having fun, and the next day it's like her life restarts and the previous night didn't happen



I don't have a solution or really even tips to give, this generation just isn't having a lot of sex. I met this like 6'5'' Gl mixed dude at the bar last night, he was really cool dude and we chatted a bit about women and he agreed with me and the girl he was trying to get with through the night was some chubby mexican bitch who he mogged so bad but I guess that's where his options are.
This is heavily dependant of area. You are describing an hyper competitive and shallow environment focused on validation. This is not a real definition of the west but like you said it depends of the zone.

And competing with rich men, models, athletes again is not only dependant of your city but the area of the city. Is not the same to live and go out in a huge metropolis in the richest districts than the suburban area (not necessarily poor or low class).

We can't define the whole world with precision in a single paragraph.
 
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We are left with one option and thats just try to become top 1% and have them approach us . US is a canon event , every girl i met is a slut and a whore , we are genuinely fucked , go through cycles where you just focus on looksmax then focus on approaching / meeting women , increase ur options as much as u can then when you have options just pick the hqnp and be done .

For now dont approach them , fuck them , looksmax to chad , get some $ & fashionmaxx , then have them come to u or just approach relentlessly
gigachad nowadays
 
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Dating apps unironically. But thats fucked and I will never participate
 
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