HOW ARE MEN OF THIS GENERATION SUPPOSED TO MEET WOMEN?

[looks>books]

if most are wrong ones, can you call the entire group right them?

Not everyone who says they are Christian are actually Christian, they must show it through their actions.

 

[klamus]

I honestly Have no idea. I think things Will start to heal after its evident that The game was over for zoomers. So about 20 years. The Price Will Be one Lost generation. Its just over For men that are now in breeding age. Things Will Be easier For men in 2040s but it won't matters For us because it Will Be over For us.

 

[bimaxmaxxer]

Swallow the Jesus pill

oh yeah, like Jordan Peterson's daughter has swallowed something else right after her divorce in romania. Just become a christian bro.

 

[PTOSIS]

They meet online, this is why looks and knowing how to take good photos are so important nowadays.

 

[theonlymoez]

When I was on tinder/bumble, I would use photos of high appeal guys who looked very very similar to me.

And since they were all from insta, all of their pics were already extremely high appeal and nt

I’ve never used my own pics on dating apps. I never wanted the feeling of someone swiping left on me and get negative feedback loop/reinforcement.

It was the best of both worlds. Having consistent sex without the negative feedback loop of getting rejected or when I would get flaked I never took it personally bc I would just blame the guy who’s pics I was using.

I’ve noticed people, even when they’re successful on dating apps have this exhausted tone when they’re talking about them. And it’s literally the built up negative feedback loop from feeling rejected and not good enough. I’m glad I realized it when I started this whole online dating thing. Sure saved me a lot of mental energy

 

[ascension124]

When I was on tinder/bumble, I would use photos of high appeal guys who looked very very similar to me.

And since they were all from insta, all of their pics were already extremely high appeal and nt

I’ve never used my own pics on dating apps. I never wanted the feeling of someone swiping left on me and get negative feedback loop/reinforcement.

It was the best of both worlds. Having consistent sex without the negative feedback loop of getting rejected or when I would get flaked I never took it personally bc I would just blame the guy who’s pics I was using.

I’ve noticed people, even when they’re successful on dating apps have this exhausted tone when they’re talking about them. And it’s literally the built up negative feedback loop from feeling rejected and not good enough. I’m glad I realized it when I started this whole online dating thing. Sure saved me a lot of mental energy

Isn’t this catfishing wtf? Did you never get called out IRL?

 

[curryascenderr]

Dnr, ascension is the only answee

 

[Maxim]

When I was on tinder/bumble, I would use photos of high appeal guys who looked very very similar to me.

And since they were all from insta, all of their pics were already extremely high appeal and nt

I’ve never used my own pics on dating apps. I never wanted the feeling of someone swiping left on me and get negative feedback loop/reinforcement.

It was the best of both worlds. Having consistent sex without the negative feedback loop of getting rejected or when I would get flaked I never took it personally bc I would just blame the guy who’s pics I was using.

I’ve noticed people, even when they’re successful on dating apps have this exhausted tone when they’re talking about them. And it’s literally the built up negative feedback loop from feeling rejected and not good enough. I’m glad I realized it when I started this whole online dating thing. Sure saved me a lot of mental energy

Damn I used to do this too, back in the day. Extremely high IQ and low inhibition. Half the time when meeting up they would automatically notice and leave while the other half would still find appeal in the real me and slay. I even put autistic hobbies so they knew what to expect. remember one girl even had a LTR with me since she liked my eyes, but she initially came to meet the catfish me with different eyes. I would still get rejected half the time, so the mental burnout came from embarrassment. But it was worth it since sex came where I know they would of rejected me with my real pics.

How did you deal with when they started to notice? We're you that similar looking to the model?

 

[ascension124]

Damn I used to do this too, back in the day. Extremely high IQ and low inhibition. Half the time when meeting up they would automatically notice and leave while the other half would still find appeal in the real me and slay. I even put autistic hobbies so they knew what to expect. remember one girl even had a LTR with me since she liked my eyes. I would still get rejected half the time, so the mental burnout came from embarrassment. But it was worth it since sex came where I know they would of rejected me with my real pics.

How did you deal with when they started to notice? We're you that similar looking to the model?

Hey can I dm you? This is insane tbh

 

[ascension124]

When I was on tinder/bumble, I would use photos of high appeal guys who looked very very similar to me.

And since they were all from insta, all of their pics were already extremely high appeal and nt

I’ve never used my own pics on dating apps. I never wanted the feeling of someone swiping left on me and get negative feedback loop/reinforcement.

It was the best of both worlds. Having consistent sex without the negative feedback loop of getting rejected or when I would get flaked I never took it personally bc I would just blame the guy who’s pics I was using.

I’ve noticed people, even when they’re successful on dating apps have this exhausted tone when they’re talking about them. And it’s literally the built up negative feedback loop from feeling rejected and not good enough. I’m glad I realized it when I started this whole online dating thing. Sure saved me a lot of mental energy

@Heatmiser @edodalic29 @Foreverbrad Thoughts?

 

[ascension124]

The only person I met this year was this same girl that hooked up with me exactly 10 years ago on tinder/bumble, nostalgia rizz

I feel like more women are returning to a tried-and-done connection and giving their past partner another shot because the current dating market is so bad and unpredictable, theres just too much risk they are sub-chad and she must be thinking at least some security is in the established. I heard the current dating generation never even meets up, so theres some realness in the past and proven vs charting into the unknown abyss. Dunno, could be lots of women nearing 30s are still single and childless too for sake of their careers.

Another one of my female friends uses facebook dating or some obscure dating app like boo or mutual. The reasoning is they see more LTR potential in these, but the truth is i think she is just nearing that time to settle for a provider who will love her and has enough pump and dumped. This avenue can be a leg up as another possible in. The dating scene is just too scattered now adays, you may as well play your cards to your interest instead of systematically

Majority of women nearing 30 are single and focused on their "careers"

 

[looks>books]

oh yeah, like Jordan Peterson's daughter has swallowed something else right after her divorce in romania. Just become a christian bro.

Not everyone who says they are Christian are actually Christian, they must show it through their actions

 

[_xClarityyyy]

"career" = of or posting thirst traps on ig

Dating apps are a flakefest for anyone that's sub Chad (98% of men). I had success in the past but now am lucky to even get a date with a MTB.

Bars/Clubs are starting to die in America as women have 100s of options at the swipe of a finger. Why would they go to a club? I even talked with a club promoter that said nightlife is dying.

Most men don't have a social circle full of attractive women after graduating college

How are men of our generation supposed to date and meet women? I had a lot of success with nightgame and dating apps a year ago but recently its become terrible. 90% of girls from apps ghost or flake me and I am forced to date MTBs and jestermax for them.

Forget slaying, meeting a nice girl and having an LTR is so basic like its something our fathers and grandfathers never had to post on forums about. They would meet a girl in their friend group, church, school and have a happy LTR with her. Now it feels every girl is a "career girl" with a 1000 options, 50 bodycount, and will drop you at the click of a finger if she wakes up in a bad mood that day. 99% of girls I met on dates said they don't know how to cook, their main focus is their career, and they had negative views of traditional gender roles.

What will happened to this generation? The fact that we are even discussing this on forums, analyzing it says a lot about the world we live in today.

@Amnesia @cvzvvc @ercan @Heatmiser @autistic_tendencies @Foreverbrad @Swarthy Knight @edodalic29 @Edgarpill @Whatever @Prettyboy @thereallegend

 

[Deleted member 59811]

Dating apps are a flakefest for anyone that's sub Chad (98% of men). I had success in the past but now am lucky to even get a date with a MTB.

Bars/Clubs are starting to die in America as women have 100s of options at the swipe of a finger. Why would they go to a club? I even talked with a club promoter that said nightlife is dying.

Most men don't have a social circle full of attractive women after graduating college

How are men of our generation supposed to date and meet women? I had a lot of success with nightgame and dating apps a year ago but recently its become terrible. 90% of girls from apps ghost or flake me and I am forced to date MTBs and jestermax for them.

Forget slaying, meeting a nice girl and having an LTR is so basic like its something our fathers and grandfathers never had to post on forums about. They would meet a girl in their friend group, church, school and have a happy LTR with her. Now it feels every girl is a "career girl" with a 1000 options, 50 bodycount, and will drop you at the click of a finger if she wakes up in a bad mood that day. 99% of girls I met on dates said they don't know how to cook, their main focus is their career, and they had negative views of traditional gender roles.

What will happened to this generation? The fact that we are even discussing this on forums, analyzing it says a lot about the world we live in today.

@Amnesia @cvzvvc @ercan @Heatmiser @autistic_tendencies @Foreverbrad @Swarthy Knight @edodalic29 @Edgarpill @Whatever @Prettyboy @thereallegend

Keep coping meanwhile htn clavicular got 100+ lays at 18 jfl

 

[ascension124]

Keep coping meanwhile htn clavicular got 100+ lays at 18 jfl

I have 196 its not about laycount

 

[Deleted member 59811]

I have 196 its not about laycount

Then you can definetly meet them jfl

 

[ascension124]

Then you can definetly meet them jfl

Nah my point with this thread is not about not being able to meet women at all - My point is that the dating market has become much harder for men in recent times due to the saturation of dating apps and women using them less becoming more flakey etc. I am still going on 2 dates a week or so but I have to run more volume, I get flaked way more than in the past etc. Also the fact that most women in the West are not feminine and have very high standards for men

 

[looks>books]

Nah my point with this thread is not about not being able to meet women at all - My point is that the dating market has become much harder for men in recent times due to the saturation of dating apps and women using them less becoming more flakey etc. I am still going on 2 dates a week or so but I have to run more volume, I get flaked way more than in the past etc. Also the fact that most women in the West are not feminine and have very high standards for men

Tinder and dating apps ruined all dating in the west.

Beckys can pick and choose from thousands and think they are stacylite for sleeping with top chad once but she doesnt know shes shared and was never wife material, Chad will never marry her. She will grow old and single with many failed relationships.

Girls egos- inflated

Guys egos/chances- worse than they ever have been even in the history of man kind. Basically every ones htn and under have been bumped down a level, chadlite-> higher got bumped up

Ltn-> sub

Chadlite->Chad
Chad-> whatever they want to be, they own everything and anything

 

[Deleted member 99892]

obviously dating apps and social media are the only way

 

[tnvrencind]

Grrrrr i am so mad

How dare He to break the rules like that

Lets all grab basheball bats and bash his skull in two

nigger

 

[Redblue0]

Cold approach 100 women you like. Guaranteed multiple dates. It’s a numbers game

 

[tnvrencind]

Cold approach 100 women you like. Guaranteed multiple dates. It’s a numbers game

one of those will see you doing it and call the cops and acuse you of harassing woman

 

[looks2]

Dating apps are a flakefest for anyone that's sub Chad (98% of men). I had success in the past but now am lucky to even get a date with a MTB.

Bars/Clubs are starting to die in America as women have 100s of options at the swipe of a finger. Why would they go to a club? I even talked with a club promoter that said nightlife is dying.

Most men don't have a social circle full of attractive women after graduating college

How are men of our generation supposed to date and meet women? I had a lot of success with nightgame and dating apps a year ago but recently its become terrible. 90% of girls from apps ghost or flake me and I am forced to date MTBs and jestermax for them.

Forget slaying, meeting a nice girl and having an LTR is so basic like its something our fathers and grandfathers never had to post on forums about. They would meet a girl in their friend group, church, school and have a happy LTR with her. Now it feels every girl is a "career girl" with a 1000 options, 50 bodycount, and will drop you at the click of a finger if she wakes up in a bad mood that day. 99% of girls I met on dates said they don't know how to cook, their main focus is their career, and they had negative views of traditional gender roles.

What will happened to this generation? The fact that we are even discussing this on forums, analyzing it says a lot about the world we live in today.

@Amnesia @cvzvvc @ercan @Heatmiser @autistic_tendencies @Foreverbrad @Swarthy Knight @edodalic29 @Edgarpill @Whatever @Prettyboy @thereallegend

Be neurotypical and good looking. If you not nt just be good looking lol. Last gf I got cold approached me because she saw me on the school news and most of my relationships have started from something like this. (I was never high psl but I was appeal maxxed)

 

[Redblue0]

one of those will see you doing it and call the cops and acuse you of harassing woman

If you approach like a retard then perhaps yes, be polite and there shouldn’t be any issue

 

[theonlymoez]

Damn I used to do this too, back in the day. Extremely high IQ and low inhibition. Half the time when meeting up they would automatically notice and leave while the other half would still find appeal in the real me and slay. I even put autistic hobbies so they knew what to expect. remember one girl even had a LTR with me since she liked my eyes, but she initially came to meet the catfish me with different eyes. I would still get rejected half the time, so the mental burnout came from embarrassment. But it was worth it since sex came where I know they would of rejected me with my real pics.

How did you deal with when they started to notice? We're you that similar looking to the model?

Well since the pics were nt, they were always involving some activity. Like playing a guitar where you can only see the 3/4th angle. Or if it was a frontal pic it was from a distance etc.

Girls essentially want a profile that meets the looks threshold and nt threshold. I also had 2 pics of some festival where my catfish guy was having fun for preselection and to lower their guard of showing up straight to my place.

My text game was essentially: “Red wine or white white”

Her response: …………

My reply: “You can help me split a bottle of _____ wine at my place. Send me your number. I hate texting here (referring to the app)

Also my bio said I was a bartender which adds to preselection.

I was never rejected. The only time I was even close to getting caught for catfishing was after this already tipsy girl and I were full on making out and I pulled her to my room. We got a moment to just talk bc I had ordered DoorDash and she was laughing and saying “wait in this picture you look different.” And then I said we can go ask my roommate bc that’s literally me. Basically turned her comment into a joke about how silly she was. She laughed it off and then I made her grab DoorDash from the delivery guy with just my hoodie on but naked otherwise. I dismisssed her as silly and played it off and literally didn’t care and she was one of my best lays ever. She thanked me at the door when she left. And said she wanted to bring her German Shepard over to stay with me.

I used this method for the whole summer of 2019. I had so many girls just coming over to my place that I would put on Snapchat that my chad friends would start asking me to help them with their text game on tinder/bumble.

I helped my 6’4 Asian roommate out aswell. He went from getting nothing to couple girls a week. To the point where me and him started arguing over who had the room for the particular night.

I had in 2019 and still confident have perfected the online dating game. Amnesia when he was struggling back in 2019 reached out to me on my old account here and I gave him my text game and he blew up his lay count the following year. So it wasn’t just the perfect pictures that I used but text game and having my own place, car and near perfect logistics.

 

[ascension124]

Well since the pics were nt, they were always involving some activity. Like playing a guitar where you can only see the 3/4th angle. Or if it was a frontal pic it was from a distance etc.

Girls essentially want a profile that meets the looks threshold and nt threshold. I also had 2 pics of some festival where my catfish guy was having fun for preselection and to lower their guard of showing up straight to my place.

My text game was essentially: “Red wine or white white”

Her response: …………

My reply: “You can help me split a bottle of _____ wine at my place. Send me your number. I hate texting here (referring to the app)

Also my bio said I was a bartender which adds to preselection.

I was never rejected. The only time I was even close to getting caught for catfishing was after this already tipsy girl and I were full on making out and I pulled her to my room. We got a moment to just talk bc I had ordered DoorDash and she was laughing and saying “wait in this picture you look different.” And then I said we can go ask my roommate bc that’s literally me. Basically turned her comment into a joke about how silly she was. She laughed it off and then I made her grab DoorDash from the delivery guy with just my hoodie on but naked otherwise. I dismisssed her as silly and played it off and literally didn’t care and she was one of my best lays ever. She thanked me at the door when she left. And said she wanted to bring her German Shepard over to stay with me.

I used this method for the whole summer of 2019. I had so many girls just coming over to my place that I would put on Snapchat that my chad friends would start asking me to help them with their text game on tinder/bumble.

I helped my 6’4 Asian roommate out aswell. He went from getting nothing to couple girls a week. To the point where me and him started arguing over who had the room for the particular night.

I had in 2019 and still confident have perfected the online dating game. Amnesia when he was struggling back in 2019 reached out to me on my old account here and I gave him my text game and he blew up his lay count the following year. So it wasn’t just the perfect pictures that I used but text game and having my own place, car and near perfect logistics.

Does that still work anymore?

 

[theonlymoez]

Does that still work anymore?

Not sure man I ended up getting a gf with this method back in 2019 so I’ve been out of the game since.

The only thing I can tell you is to use guys who look very very similar to you and the pics should be such that they are from angles where it’s not straight ahead frontals.

This is a picture i can use bc I look like him. But more than the face it’s about the NT mog. A depressed loser girl laying in her bed who has equally loser index on her tinder full of losers with selfies. Now imagine she comes across this picture. It’s an instant right swipe bc this picture absolutely NT and life mogs the Chadlites/chads in her tinder deck who have nothing but unremarkable autistic selfies and some dog pic lmao.

HTN NT pics on tinder and bumble are top tier. This is a level where you’re not too good looking to be called a catfish but perfectly within the fuckboy HTN frat boy territory where she can assume that you would be a good non judgmental fun person to sleep with. Add that you’re a bartender in your bio and have your own place and it’s a bullet proof method as long as you can maintain your looks. This method is only for HTNS + tho. I know I can never ever compete with these pics even tho I look extremely similar bc these pics are influencer level pics. So I don’t try. I just use them as it’s me. Bc no one besides the person whose pic it is can tell whether it’s me or not.

Also my texting game would maintain the same feeling within these girls, that I’m better than them and my IRL personality is also very push pull, tease, etc. These subtle things have to be in sync for this method to work. You will start to have fun to a point where you wouldn’t believe. Having consistent lays without ever feeling personal rejection is the pinnacle of dating life as a man. Even when you get into a relationship you wont have a need to impress your girl or become needy. So the method and your ability to use it anytime helps with relationships aswell.

 

[Maxim]

Not sure man I ended up getting a gf with this method back in 2019 so I’ve been out of the game since.

The only thing I can tell you is to use guys who look very very similar to you and the pics should be such that they are from angles where it’s not straight ahead frontals.

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This is a picture i can use bc I look like him. But more than the face it’s about the NT mog. A depressed loser girl laying in her bed who has equally loser index on her tinder full of losers with selfies. Now imagine she comes across this picture. It’s an instant right swipe bc this picture absolutely NT and life mogs the Chadlites/chads in her tinder deck who have nothing but unremarkable autistic selfies and some dog pic lmao.

HTN NT pics on tinder and bumble are top tier. This is a level where you’re not too good looking to be called a catfish but perfectly within the fuckboy HTN frat boy territory where she can assume that you would be a good non judgmental fun person to sleep with. Add that you’re a bartender in your bio and have your own place and it’s a bullet proof method as long as you can maintain your looks. This method is only for HTNS + tho. I know I can never ever compete with these pics even tho I look extremely similar bc these pics are influencer level pics. So I don’t try. I just use them as it’s me. Bc no one besides the person whose pic it is can tell whether it’s me or not.

Also my texting game would maintain the same feeling within these girls, that I’m better than them and my IRL personality is also very push pull, tease, etc. These subtle things have to be in sync for this method to work. You will start to have fun to a point where you wouldn’t believe. Having consistent lays without ever feeling personal rejection is the pinnacle of dating life as a man. Even when you get into a relationship you wont have a need to impress your girl or become needy. So the method and your ability to use it anytime helps with relationships aswell.

So legit, jfl at the "just go through 200 rejections and stop caring phase" cope. That same level of ego death is what caused me to drop out of dating and ultimately society as a whole, including even being too ashamed to be around my family.

It's gonna take a whole lot of positive feedback to get my sense of self worth and value back, but I thank you for this guide. I've been doing a similar method, but without the NT-ness part. My chadfish still had autistic indoor photos only so I thought it better matched my personality and aura when they would ultimately meet me.

 

[theonlymoez]

So legit, jfl at the "just go through 200 rejections and stop caring phase" cope. That same level of ego death is what caused me to drop out of dating and ultimately society as a whole, including even being too ashamed to be around my family.

It's gonna take a whole lot of positive feedback to get my sense of self worth and value back, but I thank you for this guide. I've been doing a similar method, but without the NT-ness part. My chadfish still had autistic indoor photos only so I thought it better matched my personality and aura when they would ultimately meet me.

Yeah if I had a son jumping into the online dating scene, the very first thing I would make him do is make a chadfish to see how many girls ultimately flake and ghost on chads. People just put themselves down not knowing what OP said in this thread is a universal thing happening to even the Chaddiest of chads. Also another one where you make a profile as a girl to see the completion near you.

The second thing would be to go on the instagram explore page and study all the HTNs and Chadlites and why some of their pics go mega viral. It’s more than just looks. Their pics are extremely NT.

Third would be to reach HTN+ level in looks and find very good lookalike to fraud on tinder/bumble. Use this to build positive feedback loop from 18-25.

On the side keep getting money, bettering your looks and start taking pics just like the viral guys on explore page. Start building an arsenal of these pics. Also take inverted selfies everyday, atleast 10-20 in different setting and angles to study in which light and angle your face looks the most photogenic

Figure out your logistics. Get your own car and house as soon as possible. Do NT things like bartending or whatnot.

Get a second phone and finally start experimenting with some of your top tier explore level pics on 2nd bumble/tinder

By now your text game should also be bulletproof and basically repetitive.

 

[ascension124]

Yeah if I had a son jumping into the online dating scene, the very first thing I would make him do is make a chadfish to see how many girls ultimately flake and ghost on chads. People just put themselves down not knowing what OP said in this thread is a universal thing happening to even the Chaddiest of chads. Also another one where you make a profile as a girl to see the completion near you.

The second thing would be to go on the instagram explore page and study all the HTNs and Chadlites and why some of their pics go mega viral. It’s more than just looks. Their pics are extremely NT.

Third would be to reach HTN+ level in looks and find very good lookalike to fraud on tinder/bumble. Use this to build positive feedback loop from 18-25.

On the side keep getting money, bettering your looks and start taking pics just like the viral guys on explore page. Start building an arsenal of these pics. Also take inverted selfies everyday, atleast 10-20 in different setting and angles to study in which light and angle your face looks the most photogenic

Figure out your logistics. Get your own car and house as soon as possible. Do NT things like bartending or whatnot.

Get a second phone and finally start experimenting with some of your top tier explore level pics on 2nd bumble/tinder

By now your text game should also be bulletproof and basically repetitive.

You really think even Chads get flaked on? Im unable to accept this I keep thinking something is wrong with me

 

[ChimpBall]

I meet girls off going to club and approaching, but I live in Sweden. Its ideal imo since alcohol makes girls more low inhib and down to hookup. Arent americans like super NT? Is cold approach seen as weird/autistic there?

 

[ascension124]

I meet girls off going to club and approaching, but I live in Sweden. Its ideal imo since alcohol makes girls more low inhib and down to hookup. Arent americans like super NT? Is cold approach seen as weird/autistic there?

You’re in easy mode

 

[TheMaxxer333]

Be Chad

 

[ascension124]

Bump

 

[benchcrab]

Become a vegas local

 

[asianltn]

Dating apps are a flakefest for anyone that's sub Chad (98% of men). I had success in the past but now am lucky to even get a date with a MTB.

Bars/Clubs are starting to die in America as women have 100s of options at the swipe of a finger. Why would they go to a club? I even talked with a club promoter that said nightlife is dying.

Most men don't have a social circle full of attractive women after graduating college

How are men of our generation supposed to date and meet women? I had a lot of success with nightgame and dating apps a year ago but recently its become terrible. 90% of girls from apps ghost or flake me and I am forced to date MTBs and jestermax for them.

Forget slaying, meeting a nice girl and having an LTR is so basic like its something our fathers and grandfathers never had to post on forums about. They would meet a girl in their friend group, church, school and have a happy LTR with her. Now it feels every girl is a "career girl" with a 1000 options, 50 bodycount, and will drop you at the click of a finger if she wakes up in a bad mood that day. 99% of girls I met on dates said they don't know how to cook, their main focus is their career, and they had negative views of traditional gender roles.

What will happened to this generation? The fact that we are even discussing this on forums, analyzing it says a lot about the world we live in today.

@Amnesia @cvzvvc @ercan @Heatmiser @autistic_tendencies @Foreverbrad @Swarthy Knight @edodalic29 @Edgarpill @Whatever @Prettyboy @thereallegend

the normal girls will still go out

 

[castizo_ascender]

Be CL+ in SMV

 

[ascension124]

Be CL+ in SMV

HTN is not enough?

 

[castizo_ascender]

HTN is not enough?

maybe