How bad is it for you mental development to never be in a LTR at 18?

[Deleted member 3328]

Never been in a serious relationship.

Has this negatively affected my mental health?

 

[Deleted member 3795]

How bad is it that I have never had a female friend at nearly 19?

 

[Deleted member 3328]

How bad is it that I have never had a female friend at nearly 19?

It's over

 

[Hepatologyscribe]

No not at all because even if under 18 year olds think it’s a serious relationship, it really isn’t.

I can inbox more details of personal story if it really bothers you

 

[Deleted member 1476]

It’s fine if you’re slaying. My life is damaged beyond repair because I missed out on that

 

[Deleted member 3328]

No not at all because even if under 18 year olds think it’s a serious relationship, it really isn’t.

I can inbox more details of personal story if it really bothers you

I just can't imagine myself in a relationship.

 

[Hepatologyscribe]

I just can't imagine myself in a relationship.

No need for late until after college

Life isn’t stable enough for seriousness or commitment (even for chad)

 

[.👽.]

Never been in a serious relationship.

Has this negatively affected my mental health?

Jfl same question for me but 24 instead 18

 

[Deleted member 3328]

No need for late until after college

Life isn’t stable enough for seriousness or commitment (even for chad)

I just feel like I'm missing out on something.

 

[.👽.]

No you dont if you slay

 

[Hepatologyscribe]

I just feel like I'm missing out on something.

Not really. I didn’t start dating until 18. Had a ltr from 18 to 20

Spoiler: Spoiler

I cheated once I transferred to college an hour away

 

[Deleted member 3328]

No you dont if you slay

I have a body count of 6 at the moment. I want to reach 20 and get in an LTR.

 

[ChaddeusPeuterschmit]

Doesn’t matter

 

[Deleted member 1476]

I just feel like I'm missing out on something.

Oh my sweet summer child, what do you know of FOMO...

 

[.👽.]

I have a body count of 6 at the moment. I want to reach 20 and get in an LTR.

No hurry bro. Only suggestion i make is that you should find a gf before you leave the university

 

[Almu]

I have a body count of 6 at the moment. I want to reach 20 and get in an LTR.

Whats LTR

 

[Deleted member 3328]

No hurry bro. Only suggestion i make is that you should find a gf before you leave the university

Thank you for the answer. It's just that some girls looked surprised or were weirded out when I told them I never had a gf.

 

[Feanor]

does 5 weeks count as a ltr?

 

[Deleted member 3328]

Whats LTR

Long term relationship / serious relationship

does 5 weeks count as a ltr?

I have no idea

 

[Deleted member 3795]

I have a body count of 6 at the moment. I want to reach 20 and get in an LTR.

You've had 6 slays at 18??? How?

 

[Deleted member 1476]

It's just that some girls looked surprised or were weirded out when I told them I never had a gf.

Fuck.

 

[Deleted member 3328]

You've had 6 slays at 18??? How?

They were a one time thing.

Alcohol + house parties + JBs = easy slays

 

[Deleted member 3055]

honestly it depends on you man
do you crave an LTR? or are you just kinda interested, but dont really care if it doesnt happen?
for one, slaying is all that matters. but for me example, i only want LTRs. i'd say its an important milestone, but if you dont care about it, you'll be fine

 

[Deleted member 1476]

They were a one time thing.

Alcohol + house parties + JBs = easy slays

I see why @Pietrosiek hates you now

 

[Deleted member 3795]

They were a one time thing.

Alcohol + house parties + JBs = easy slays

What ages were they and what age did you lose the V card?

 

[Deleted member 3328]

What ages were they and what age did you lose the V card?

I was 17. Girls were 16-19

honestly it depends on you man
do you crave an LTR? or are you just kinda interested, but dont really care if it doesnt happen?
for one, slaying is all that matters. but for me example, i only want LTRs. i'd say its an important milestone, but if you dont care about it, you'll be fine

I don't really crave it. Just feels like I'm not normal never being in a relationship. Also my parents (jokingly) asked me if I'm gay never having a gf.

I see why @Pietrosiek hates you now

It's over

 

[Almu]

Never had an LTR and dont want to rn tbh. I prefer to slay
As of right now

 

[Deleted member 3328]

Never had an LTR and dont want to rn tbh. I prefer to slay
As of right now

You're 18 as well right?

I can't imagine myself in a relationship.

 

[Almu]

You're 18 as well right?

I can't imagine myself in a relationship.

Dude fucking same. I tried to dodge relationships in the past. Im clearly not ready. I don't know why but tbh. I rather like spending my money on my own tbh.

 

[Deleted member 3328]

Dude fucking same. I dodged every opportunity to get in an relationship. Im clearly not ready. I don't know why but tbh. I rather like spending my money on my own tbh.

I can't imagine myself texting some girl all day. Seems like such a waste of my time. I wouldn't be against a casual relationship I think.

 

[Almu]

I can't imagine myself texting some girl all day. Seems like such a waste of my time. I wouldn't be against a casual relationship I think.

I think Im just too picky and thats my problem but as I said I need all the money I have for my own right now and I don't want to pay her food when going out or smth like that.
I really like texting but Its a waste of time as you mentioned.

 

[Deleted member 3328]

I think Im just too picky and thats my problem but as I said I need all the money I have for my own right now and I don't want to pay her food when going out or smth like that.
I really like texting but Its a waste of time as you mentioned.

I'm extremely picky when it comes to ltr ngl

 

[Square Jaw]

It’s fine if you’re slaying. My life is damaged beyond repair because I missed out on that

Most people don't slay in HS, even normies maybe fuck one or two girls via relationship and that's that.

Your life is damaged beyond repair because you're a mentally Ill lonely little faggot

 

[Pietrosiek]

I see why @Pietrosiek hates you now

Jm my bro

 

[Deleted member 3328]

Jm my bro

Jm is my bro too

 

[Zdeweilx]

Idgaf tbh
Focusing on my studies and on myself.

 

[Vidyacoper]

I'm extremely picky when it comes to ltr ngl

u just havent met a girl cool/hot enough for it yet

 

[Nosecel]

The only good thing a foid has done to me in my 19 years of life is a hug
About 5 years ago

 

[Deleted member 3328]

u just havent met a girl cool/hot enough for it yet

I only care about looks.

 

[Amnesia]

muh development. u are either born fucked up and non nt or u arent

 

[Deleted member 3328]

muh development. u are either born fucked up and non nt or u arent

I'm fairly nt

 

[Vidyacoper]

I only care about looks.

i feel the same way and even though i thought all i would care about/want is slaying in the future, when a really cute girl smiled at me in the library a few days ago i thought about what it would be like to cuddle with her and wake up with her next to me in the morning rather than just anything sexual, but that could be because ive watched too much romantic anime or something

 

[Nosecel]

ive watched too much romantic anime or something

Hm

 

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[Deleted member 4209]

22 kissless, handholdless, touchless, conversationless 'cel here

 

[Deleted member 3328]

22 kissless, handholdless, touchless, conversationless 'cel here

Mentalcel or lookscel?

 

[Deleted member 4209]

Mentalcel or lookscel?

everythingcel