How bad is it for you mental development to never be in a LTR at 18?

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Never been in a serious relationship.

Has this negatively affected my mental health?
 
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How bad is it that I have never had a female friend at nearly 19?
 
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No not at all because even if under 18 year olds think it’s a serious relationship, it really isn’t.

I can inbox more details of personal story if it really bothers you
 
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It’s fine if you’re slaying. My life is damaged beyond repair because I missed out on that
 
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No not at all because even if under 18 year olds think it’s a serious relationship, it really isn’t.

I can inbox more details of personal story if it really bothers you
I just can't imagine myself in a relationship.
 
I just can't imagine myself in a relationship.

No need for late until after college

Life isn’t stable enough for seriousness or commitment (even for chad)
 
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Never been in a serious relationship.

Has this negatively affected my mental health?
Jfl same question for me but 24 instead 18 :feelscry: :feelskek:
 
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No need for late until after college

Life isn’t stable enough for seriousness or commitment (even for chad)
I just feel like I'm missing out on something.
 
No you dont if you slay
 
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I just feel like I'm missing out on something.

Not really. I didn’t start dating until 18. Had a ltr from 18 to 20

I cheated once I transferred to college an hour away
 
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Doesn’t matter
 
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I have a body count of 6 at the moment. I want to reach 20 and get in an LTR.
No hurry bro. Only suggestion i make is that you should find a gf before you leave the university
 
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No hurry bro. Only suggestion i make is that you should find a gf before you leave the university
Thank you for the answer. It's just that some girls looked surprised or were weirded out when I told them I never had a gf.
 
does 5 weeks count as a ltr?
 
I have a body count of 6 at the moment. I want to reach 20 and get in an LTR.

You've had 6 slays at 18??? How?
:feelsrope:
 
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honestly it depends on you man
do you crave an LTR? or are you just kinda interested, but dont really care if it doesnt happen?
for one, slaying is all that matters. but for me example, i only want LTRs. i'd say its an important milestone, but if you dont care about it, you'll be fine
 
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They were a one time thing.

Alcohol + house parties + JBs = easy slays
I see why @Pietrosiek hates you now 😢
 
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They were a one time thing.

Alcohol + house parties + JBs = easy slays

What ages were they and what age did you lose the V card?
 
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What ages were they and what age did you lose the V card?
I was 17. Girls were 16-19
honestly it depends on you man
do you crave an LTR? or are you just kinda interested, but dont really care if it doesnt happen?
for one, slaying is all that matters. but for me example, i only want LTRs. i'd say its an important milestone, but if you dont care about it, you'll be fine
I don't really crave it. Just feels like I'm not normal never being in a relationship. Also my parents (jokingly) asked me if I'm gay never having a gf.
I see why @Pietrosiek hates you now 😢
It's over
 
Never had an LTR and dont want to rn tbh. I prefer to slay
As of right now
 
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Never had an LTR and dont want to rn tbh. I prefer to slay
As of right now
You're 18 as well right?

I can't imagine myself in a relationship.
 
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You're 18 as well right?

I can't imagine myself in a relationship.
Dude fucking same. I tried to dodge relationships in the past. Im clearly not ready. I don't know why but tbh. I rather like spending my money on my own tbh.
 
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Dude fucking same. I dodged every opportunity to get in an relationship. Im clearly not ready. I don't know why but tbh. I rather like spending my money on my own tbh.
I can't imagine myself texting some girl all day. Seems like such a waste of my time. I wouldn't be against a casual relationship I think.
 
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I can't imagine myself texting some girl all day. Seems like such a waste of my time. I wouldn't be against a casual relationship I think.
I think Im just too picky and thats my problem but as I said I need all the money I have for my own right now and I don't want to pay her food when going out or smth like that.
I really like texting but Its a waste of time as you mentioned.
 
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I think Im just too picky and thats my problem but as I said I need all the money I have for my own right now and I don't want to pay her food when going out or smth like that.
I really like texting but Its a waste of time as you mentioned.
I'm extremely picky when it comes to ltr ngl
 
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It’s fine if you’re slaying. My life is damaged beyond repair because I missed out on that
Most people don't slay in HS, even normies maybe fuck one or two girls via relationship and that's that.

Your life is damaged beyond repair because you're a mentally Ill lonely little faggot
 
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Idgaf tbh
Focusing on my studies and on myself.
 
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The only good thing a foid has done to me in my 19 years of life is a hug
About 5 years ago
 
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muh development. u are either born fucked up and non nt or u arent
 
I only care about looks.
i feel the same way and even though i thought all i would care about/want is slaying in the future, when a really cute girl smiled at me in the library a few days ago i thought about what it would be like to cuddle with her and wake up with her next to me in the morning rather than just anything sexual, but that could be because ive watched too much romantic anime or something
 
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