How bad is it really to not have a SINGLE friend IRL, when it comes to dating a girl? Should you lie about this? (Read context)

[Deleted member 27836]

Context:

I turn 26 today, and still a KHHV (also conversationless).

The first thing my mum said today is "happy birthday, I hope you can find peace in your heart" (she's not religious and I wondered what she meant by it, but she didn't elaborate after I asked".

2 hours later she said, "I wish you could have a normal life" elaborating "having friends and doing what young people do (sports etc.)". She said if I don't have friends, women find that "weird", "except if this girl also doesnt have friends."

She said, "it's weird to not have friends, so that will lower your chances." I said, "I could lie about having friends abroad", to which she said "no, that would be stupid, sooner or later she will find out." Is she right?

Telling People Or Lying About Having No Friends | www.succeedsocially.com

If you don't have any friends should you tell people, or lie and try to hide it? If so, how? This article will look at the practicalities around letting people know you don't currently have a social circle.

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[Deleted member 27836]

@RussianTruecel – Что смешного?

 

[Deleted member 27836]

Я из Санкт-Петербурга @RussianTruecel

 

[Deleted member 24593]

@RussianTruecel – Что смешного?

Ты троллишь? Естественно врать не нужно, это дибилизм. Либо заводи "друзей"/знакомых либо скажи честно. Второй вариант не прокатит в 99% случаев, одиночек девки не любят, в их глазах будешь "странным"

 

[Deleted member 27836]

нет

Ты троллишь?

нет

Естественно врать не нужно, это дибилизм. Либо заводи "друзей"/знакомых либо скажи честно. Второй вариант не прокатит в 99% случаев, одиночек девки не любят, в их глазах будешь "странным"

это к сожалению правда...

 

[forevermirin]

Context:

I turn 26 today, and still a KHHV (also conversationless).

The first thing my mum said today is "happy birthday, I hope you can find peace in your heart" (she's not religious and I wondered what she meant by it, but she didn't elaborate after I asked".

2 hours later she said, "I wish you could have a normal life" elaborating "having friends and doing what young people do (sports etc.)". She said if I don't have friends, women find that "weird", "except if this girl also doesnt have friends."

She said, "it's weird to not have friends, so that will lower your chances." I said, "I could lie about having friends abroad", to which she said "no, that would be stupid, sooner or later she will find out." Is she right?

Telling People Or Lying About Having No Friends | www.succeedsocially.com

If you don't have any friends should you tell people, or lie and try to hide it? If so, how? This article will look at the practicalities around letting people know you don't currently have a social circle.

www.succeedsocially.com

your mom is your blackpill coach u are very lucky bro

 

[forevermirin]

also its much easier to make male friends than date women so if u cant do the first part idk how u expect the second. maybe u can slay like badg96 if ur decent looking

 

[Deleted member 24593]

нет

нет


это к сожалению правда...

26 лет это конечно пиздец в плане успеть социализироваться, если честно шансов почти нет. Мне 23, 4 года дома сижу, из общения кроме 3 родственников с которыми живу только этот форум. Так что не советую иллюзий питать, если не повезло в рулетке под названием "жизнь"

 

[Deleted member 27836]

your mom is your blackpill coach u are very lucky bro

but why are you laughing? Also what's blackpilled about this? Blackpill = about looks (face) and height (and body to some degree)

 

[Deleted member 25710]

@Makhachev history repeats itself huh

 

[Deleted member 27836]

26 лет это конечно пиздец в плане успеть социализироваться, если честно шансов почти нет. Мне 23, 4 года дома сижу, из общения кроме 3 родственников с которыми живу только этот форум. Так что не советую иллюзий питать, если не повезло в рулетке под названием "жизнь"

грустный. я тоже в ситуации

 

[forevermirin]

but why are you laughing?

i laughed at multiple parts of your write-up.

1. you wondering what your moms birthday wish meant.
2. your mom refusing to elab despite u asking
3. you sugesting you could lie about having friends "abroad" jfl
4. your mom calling u stupid for saying that

Also what's blackpilled about this? Blackpill = about looks (face) and height (and body to some degree)

no blackpill is about life. a less blackpilled mom might have told u ur going to find a girl who loves u for what u are, despite u not having any friends.

 

[Deleted member 27836]

i laughed at multiple parts of your write-up.

1. you sugesting you could lie about having friends "abroad" jfl
2. your mom calling u stupid for saying that

It's either that, or having no girlfriend. I mean at least say what is so funny about that...

 

[Deleted member 23239]

просто берешь и живешь. захотел бежишь в поле к лошадям или овцам и разгоняешь их, потом закуриваешь сигаретку, делаешь вертушку. чисто в кайф

 

[Deleted member 24593]

грустный. я тоже в ситуации

Твоей ситуации и обстоятельств конечно не знаю полностью, но вот для себя осознал что нужно чем-то занять время в жизни пока не настанец конец (естественный или к которому ты приложишь усилия скажем так). Иначе прям плохо существовать, по другому не назовёшь это. Пробуй разные хобби и времязанимательство (хоть вариантов и не так много как у полноценного члена общества). Себе отсеял вот чтение, иногда в игрушки поигрываю, ютуб, ну это стандартный набор домоседа я считаю. А из более менее продуктивных - в электронике люблю поковыряться, что-то починить или попытаться хотя бы. А так пробовал кучу всего (программирование, игра на гитаре, велик, плавание), но всё надоело само по себе. Такие дела

 

[Deleted member 27836]

Твоей ситуации и обстоятельств конечно не знаю полностью, но вот для себя осознал что нужно чем-то занять время в жизни пока не настанец конец (естественный или к которому ты приложишь усилия скажем так). Иначе прям плохо существовать, по другому не назовёшь это. Пробуй разные хобби и времязанимательство (хоть вариантов и не так много как у полноценного члена общества). Себе отсеял вот чтение, иногда в игрушки поигрываю, ютуб, ну это стандартный набор домоседа я считаю. А из более менее продуктивных - в электронике люблю поковыряться, что-то починить или попытаться хотя бы. А так пробовал кучу всего (программирование, игра на гитаре, велик, плавание), но всё надоело само по себе. Такие дела

Спасибо. Это все правда

Но у меня никогда не будет девушки Я хочу убить себя... но не могу

я очень ОЧЕНЬ некрасивая

смерть прекрасна))

 

[Deleted member 25710]

Wait.. i will tag superboss, he will give you better advice than anyone here..
@MoggerGaston

 

[Deleted member 24593]

Спасибо. Это все правда

Но у меня никогда не будет девушки Я хочу убить себя... но не могу

я очень ОЧЕНЬ некрасивая

смерть прекрасна))

Ничего "прекрасного" там нет, у самого была попытка. Ну не показушная естественно, никто не знал и не знает до сих пор. Хотел вешаться, ушёл в лес, но инстинкт самосохранения очень сильный на самом деле. Тело не слушается, само себя вытаскивает из петли. По крайней мере у меня так было. Отложил это дело до 30 лет пока что

 

[Deleted member 25710]

My quick life story.

The reason my life is bottom tier. Quick life story

(optimistic post) Just saying how things are basically so many things went wrong in my life, some out of my hands and some are my fault, ugly face (2/10 unfrauded, recessed and too many ethnic features), being born dumb that had to work 10x harder than others to just to get their level, very...

looksmax.org

Eventually i managed to bluepill and tell myself that it's not that bad. But i won't give up so easily, maybe eventually go ER in the center of moscow and kill zoomers who have it easy in life, i still think about what i am gonna do

@RussianTruecel @Makhachev

 

[BoneDensity]

my mum said today is "happy birthday, I hope you can find peace in your heart

What she means is that she hopes you'll be content as a beta cuck loser for the rest of your life.

A male without friends in life is of no value - human garbage, totally incompetent. Competent males will be friends with men that reflect their value. You do not survive in the wild without your ride or die tribe that have your back.

To find out who and what you are all you need to do is look at your friends. If you have none then you are fucking nothing.

 

[Deleted member 25710]

And this is what i looked like in my youth

I am so used having bottom tier social life

 

[Deleted member 17578]

Wait.. i will tag superboss, he will give you better advice than anyone here..
@MoggerGaston

Both girls I dated long-term never found out I was a friendless loser. They didn't care whatsoever tbh. Never met their friends either except 1 girl.

It's better to have friends cuz u don't have to fake NT life and most people will feel better in their skin if they socialize more often. But it's not a decisive drawback.

 

[Deleted member 24593]

My quick life story.

The reason my life is bottom tier. Quick life story

(optimistic post) Just saying how things are basically so many things went wrong in my life, some out of my hands and some are my fault, ugly face (2/10 unfrauded, recessed and too many ethnic features), being born dumb that had to work 10x harder than others to just to get their level, very...

looksmax.org

Eventually i managed to bluepill and tell myself that it's not that bad. But i won't give up so easily, maybe eventually go ER in the center of moscow and kill zoomers who have it easy in life, i still think about what i am gonna do

@RussianTruecel @Makhachev

Во многих моментах похожи с тобой. Даже во внешности, выгляжу чуть по другому но тоже на уровне 2, максимум 3 в самый лучший день/10

 

[Deleted member 27836]

Во многих моментах похожи с тобой. Даже во внешности, выгляжу чуть по другому но тоже на уровне 2, максимум 3 в самый лучший день/10

Sad. For everyone who’s reading this, I’m also like a 2/10, no “good”/bad days for me, arguably some people might say I’m a 1/10 (I get stared at a lot, people laugh, talk about me - strangers of all ages, in Russia and also in Central Europe and America, I dont even look Slavic or Russian, rather simply very strange

 

[Deleted member 21735]

its very bad. sorry OP

 

[Deleted member 27836]

What she means is that she hopes you'll be content as a beta cuck loser for the rest of your life.

A male without friends in life is of no value - human garbage, totally incompetent. Competent males will be friends with men that reflect their value. You do not survive in the wild without your ride or die tribe that have your back.

To find out who and what you are all you need to do is look at your friends. If you have none then you are fucking nothing.

well to be slightly more accurate, literally the first thing she said to me today was “H.B., I hope you can find peace in your heart”. I asked her what she meant, and she just repeated herself. I should have said “why not correct the things that are wrong instead of ‘finding peace?” - she and I both know the answer, I’ll never get a gf, even if she says I can, we both know the truth. Then, 2 hrs later I thanked her for her present and card, then she said “I wish you could have a normal life; like have friends.” So she’s pretty much implying what you said. Makes me mad, her lane attempts to manipulate me, even if she means well. No matter what I won’t let myself be manipulated (she thinks she’s doing me a favour, bc I can’t get a gf anyway, but it’s also insulting to me bc it’s insulting my intelligence). I wish I can speak to her about it later

 

[Deleted member 27836]

its very bad. sorry OP

I’m sorry too. Can you elaborate please? some people on the internet said it’s fine to not have friends, if you want a girlfriend

 

[Deleted member 21735]

I’m sorry too. Can you elaborate please? some people on the internet said it’s fine to not have friends, if you want a girlfriend

internet people arent NT

 

[Nectar]

also its much easier to make male friends than date women so if u cant do the first part idk how u expect the second. maybe u can slay like badg96 if ur decent looking

Cope. He gets zero bitches coz of his autism

 

[forevermirin]

Cope. He gets zero bitches coz of his autism

yeah he literally says hes khhv in op ... stop making dumb comments

 

[Nectar]

yeah he literally says hes khhv in op ... stop making dumb comments

Is it true cel trait to take brag threads too seriously?

 

[forevermirin]

Is it true cel trait to take brag threads too seriously?

"brag threads"

I turn 26 today, and still a KHHV

 

[Deleted member 27836]

yeah he literally says hes khhv in op ... stop making dumb comments

Cope. He gets zero bitches coz of his autism

I think I'm just coping, I'll never get a girlfriend, I just have nothing going for me. (I'm very ugly, 1.62m short, my dick is 6.3 inches with 5.2 inch girth, I think it's because my dad is 6'2" tall, but no girl will ever know, I can't be funny, I can't speak properly, have a weird voice and never know what to say, I'm boring.... and I have not had a social life ever since I was like 13). That's the problem. I'm autistic plus I look very strange... it's practically impossible to accept, that I'll never get a girlfriend, let alone a decent one...

 

[forevermirin]

I think I'm just coping, I'll never get a girlfriend, I just have nothing going for me. (I'm very ugly, 1.62m short, my dick is 6.3 inches with 5.2 inch girth, I think it's because my dad is 6'2" tall, but no girl will ever know, I can't be funny, I can't speak properly, have a weird voice and never know what to say, I'm boring.... and I have not had a social life ever since I was like 13). That's the problem. I'm autistic plus I look very strange... it's practically impossible to accept, that I'll never get a girlfriend, let alone a decent one...

never is a strong word bro u can guaranteed bang some top shelf cambodian women or maybe even tamil bro as steve jobs used to say "ur problem isn't your face, or your height, or your voice, or your autism - it is but your location" bro

 

[Nectar]

I think I'm just coping, I'll never get a girlfriend, I just have nothing going for me. (I'm very ugly, 1.62m short, my dick is 6.3 inches with 5.2 inch girth, I think it's because my dad is 6'2" tall, but no girl will ever know, I can't be funny, I can't speak properly, have a weird voice and never know what to say, I'm boring.... and I have not had a social life ever since I was like 13). That's the problem. I'm autistic plus I look very strange... it's practically impossible to accept, that I'll never get a girlfriend, let alone a decent one...

Brutal

 

[Deleted member 27836]

never is a strong word bro u can guaranteed bang some top shelf cambodian women or maybe even tamil bro as steve jobs used to say "ur problem isn't your face, or your height, or your voice, or your autism - it is but your location" bro

yeah, perhaps, I'm just not attracted to them tbh. Also where I live prostitution/sex-escortceling is legal, I'll do that sooner or later but I want real love, but will never get it, which is extremely difficult to accept, I mean, I'm not sure what it must be nice to have a decent girl love you, I can imagine it must be nice, but imaging that just makes me really, really sad

I'm angry at my mom because in the past she even said "you can get a good looking girlfriend, but you also have to have a good personality and be able to talk, for that"... you know what she said today, first thing... "find peace in your heart". Ok I get what she means, but at least she should stick to one side. Either lie ("you can get a good looking gf"), or don't lie... but make a decision

 

[Deleted member 22401]

I think I'm just coping, I'll never get a girlfriend, I just have nothing going for me. (I'm very ugly, 1.62m short, my dick is 6.3 inches with 5.2 inch girth, I think it's because my dad is 6'2" tall, but no girl will ever know, I can't be funny, I can't speak properly, have a weird voice and never know what to say, I'm boring.... and I have not had a social life ever since I was like 13). That's the problem. I'm autistic plus I look very strange... it's practically impossible to accept, that I'll never get a girlfriend, let alone a decent one...

So won't all of us (who are sub 5 psl). I just accepted it and LDAR

 

[Deleted member 27836]

So won't all of us (who are sub 5 psl). I just accepted it and LDAR

I understand you. I’m in a limbo between accepting it (LDAR, not workout and eat unhealthy… this is what I’ve done for years now) and not accepting my fate (which is cope: eating healthy, working out). Hell I have ZERO discipline but that’s probably because i know… “it’s over”)

 

[Deleted member 22401]

I understand you. I’m in a limbo between accepting it (LDAR, not workout and eat unhealthy… this is what I’ve done for years now) and not accepting my fate (which is cope: eating healthy, working out). Hell I have ZERO discipline but that’s probably because i know… “it’s over”)

I’m in a similar situation, I am below average looking, average height in my country and get mogged by zoomies every time I leave. So I just LDAR play Games like Csgo and when that get’s boring take drugs or alcohol if you are sub 5 PSL, it should be illegal to be in Europe as it is hell.

 

[Deleted member 27836]

I’m in a similar situation, I am below average looking, average height in my country and get mogged by zoomies every time I leave. So I just LDAR play Games like Csgo and when that get’s boring take drugs or alcohol if you are sub 5 PSL, it should be illegal to be in Europe as it is hell.

Ich versteh dich. Bin halb Schweizer und lebe seit langem hier komme ursprünglich aber auch aus Russland. Ich werde seit ich 13 bin von fremden ausgelacht, schräg angeschaut, und Leute sprechen über mich… ist nicht lustig. Und ich werde nie eine Freundin haben was mich extrem traurig macht, jeden Tag. Die “copes” sind manchmal echt scheisse

 

[Deleted member 22401]

Ich versteh dich. Bin halb Schweizer und lebe seit langem hier komme ursprünglich aber auch aus Russland. Ich werde seit ich 13 bin von fremden ausgelacht, schräg angeschaut, und Leute sprechen über mich… ist nicht lustig. Und ich werde nie eine Freundin haben was mich extrem traurig macht, jeden Tag. Die “copes” sind manchmal echt scheisse

Ja, ich glaube es ist also verdammt scheiße. Ich hatte auch noch nie eine Freundin oder echte Freunde und bezweifle, dass ich jemals welche haben werde. Und was die Bewältigung angeht, ist es sicherlich beschissen, aber was können wir sonst tun? Außer dem Offensichtlichen.

 

[Incellectually_Shy]

I turn 26 today, and still a KHHV (also conversationless).

It is minor.

 

[Deleted member 27836]

Ja, ich glaube es ist also verdammt scheiße. Ich hatte auch noch nie eine Freundin oder echte Freunde und bezweifle, dass ich jemals welche haben werde. Und was die Bewältigung angeht, ist es sicherlich beschissen, aber was können wir sonst tun? Außer dem Offensichtlichen.

Yup, bin ganz deiner Meinung. Traue mich aber nicht das Offensichtliche zu tun. Ich stell mir immer wieder vor wie es ist von einer Frau geliebt zu werden und dann merke ich dass ich das nie haben werde, es tut mir auch leid für dich