How can I accept that i will never have a gf? (High iq responses only)

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I don’t want low iq incels telling to rope i still have a purpose to serve despite my mental health being incredibly shit but im asking this as i want to commit my life to self discipline and self improvement. Reasons im single is because im autistic. Even though im above average looking and 6’2 my autism outweighs this women can sniff it off me and no joke i got worse treatment for it than my 5’3 old best friend and arent attracted to me as a result and another reason is because i physically dont find women attractive anymore. How can i accept it’s over but still begun?

@DildoFaggins @kanderior only high-iqcels I know off every greycel is just gonna tell me to rope or im low t usual responses on this thread even though i want to do wants right
 
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find something to be autistic about like trains
 
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Having a girlfriend is overrated, just stop caring about it
 
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I suggest you find meaning in some other part of life. There is so much out there, focusing just on this is a waste.
 
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Having a girlfriend is overrated, just stop caring about it
I just don’t think it’s worth it anymore there’s too much commitment and effort for girls and shit and i could put that time into other things. I wanna go monk mode
 
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Find a niche,go to Events like Comicon,Twitchcon etc and source out nerdy alt chicks that you have hobbies
in common with.

Dudes will complain about about being incels yet never venture outside their comfort zone
 
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Rope
 
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I suggest you find meaning in some other part of life. There is so much out there, focusing just on this is a waste.
I agree with you man. Im gonna leave this forum after new years to genuinely focus I already have everything i need to know about what to do. Rn im just focusing on body and bodyfat percentage and skincare and a job to save up for surgery.
 
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Find a niche,go to Events like Comicon,Twitchcon etc and source out nerdy alt chicks that you have hobbies
i common with.

Dudes will complain about about being incels yet never venture outside their comfort zone
I live in a rural area those places literally don’t exist to me. And i fucking hate alt girls they have all done me dirty and are whores and hobbies wont help my depression I’ve tried and it’s due to my anhedonia
 
By finding copes
 
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I live in a rural area those places literally don’t exist to me. And i fucking hate alt girls they have all done me dirty and are whores and hobbies wont help my depression I’ve tried and it’s due to my anhedonia

Move to a town and take up Muay Thai. Your life will change forever for the better.
 
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Move to a town and take up Muay Thai. Your life will change forever for the better.
Im hoping my parents will let me do an apprenticeship job in another city so i can make that money and in my spare time do something like that honestly doesn’t sound like a bad idea. I prefer boxing though but boxing isn’t taken seriously these days (thanks to influencers)
 
How old are you bro?
 
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Im hoping my parents will let me do an apprenticeship job in another city so i can make that money and in my spare time do something like that honestly doesn’t sound like a bad idea. I prefer boxing though but boxing isn’t taken seriously these days (thanks to influencers)

Muay Thai is the best striking/stand up. If you can't do that then atleast do KickBoxing.
 
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I don’t want low iq incels telling to rope i still have a purpose to serve despite my mental health being incredibly shit but im asking this as i want to commit my life to self discipline and self improvement. Reasons im single is because im autistic. Even though im above average looking and 6’2 my autism outweighs this women can sniff it off me and no joke i got worse treatment for it than my 5’3 old best friend and arent attracted to me as a result and another reason is because i physically dont find women attractive anymore. How can i accept it’s over but still begun?

@DildoFaggins @kanderior only high-iqcels I know off every greycel is just gonna tell me to rope or im low t usual responses on this thread even though i want to do wants right
learn to mask.

the fact u have sentience and can make coherent sentences is already good sign. unlike severely autistic niggas.

ur issue is probs displaying relevant emotions at appropriate times n eye contact, dont say too low inhib non nt shit irl public
 
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look at delon now, he is unhappy
 
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learn to mask.

the fact u have sentience and can make coherent sentences is already good sign. unlike severely autistic niggas.

ur issue is probs displaying relevant emotions at appropriate times n eye contact, dont say too low inhib non nt shit irl public
I was very good at English growing up I learned to read and understand before others. English was the only class I really managed to pass as i was interested in it and was easy for me. Maths was also incredibly easy but didn’t pass cause the fucking teacher didn’t have the time to do the last test during the study holidays and also was a class set back because i was always distracted and was an adhd ridden cunt.

I used to display eye contact with people when my fringe is cut short trust me ive tried masking it and there is like an aurora people can sense
 
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What a loaded question

Makes me feel like you will only accept answers that affirm your current state
 
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What a loaded question

Makes me feel like you will only accept answers that affirm your current state
No I’ll take any answer even if it’s brutally honest though I will admit it will be hard for someone to understand why im upset being single while finding most women unattractive. I’ve said this to others and there always like “bro wtf do you want then”.
 
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Alain Delon is an actor, not a user here
Im thinking of anesthia or whatever his name was idk something like that. The guy who taped his mirror cause he hated the way he looked
 
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No I’ll take any answer even if it’s brutally honest though I will admit it will be hard for someone to understand why im upset being single while finding most women unattractive.
Just look at your advantages and flaws from an objective point of view and see where you can improve

You are apparently above average looking and 6'2, so the problem is most likely not your face

You say you are autistic and that's why women don't want you. I admit, trying to become neurotypical is very hard, however you can easily impersonate some neurotypical traits if you make an effort to go out and socialise. You can easily improve your social skills by going out multiple times in large gatherings, it will feel uncomfortable at first, and sometimes you will feel terrible after outings, but you will eventually improve a lot, and overcome an "autistic" impression you give off. By the way, a lot of men around you probably feel the same way as you, they just hide it better.


I’ve said this to others and there always like “bro wtf do you want then”.
I don't blame them. If you really do want girls, then you need to improve whatever shortcoming you have. If you are more willing to not pursue girls, then you are somewhat of a defeatist, people will call you low T.

You're just 17. Being this certain that you won't have success ever in your life is severely damaging.
 
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You're just 17. Being this certain that you won't have success ever in your life is severely damaging.
Can we go back to the time average age was 30. And success was death in battlefield at 18
 
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Can we go back to the time average age was 30. And success was death in battlefield at 18
Those times were much worse. You are in severe disillusion.
 
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Just look at your advantages and flaws from an objective point of view and see where you can improve

You are apparently above average looking and 6'2, so the problem is most likely not your face

You say you are autistic and that's why women don't want you. I admit, trying to become neurotypical is very hard, however you can easily impersonate some neurotypical traits if you make an effort to go out and socialise. You can easily improve your social skills by going out multiple times in large gatherings, it will feel uncomfortable at first, and sometimes you will feel terrible after outings, but you will eventually improve a lot, and overcome an "autistic" impression you give off. By the way, a lot of men around you probably feel the same way as you, they just hide it better.



I don't blame them. If you really do want girls, then you need to improve whatever shortcoming you have. If you are more willing to not pursue girls, then you are somewhat of a defeatist, people will call you low T.

You're just 17. Being this certain that you won't have success ever in your life is severely damaging.
Love this answer man, you have fulfilled and respected my wish of being high iq only to this thread.

To answer quickly no I don’t want girls i don’t really care anymore more and im aware I won’t ever get with one. Socialising skills I did that in college at parties and again don’t know the answer maybe it could be depression. Overall I just want to be a high value man who doesn’t conform to society as in i don’t drink dont smoke or vape. Have a job and workout and not watch porn.
 
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Those times were much worse. You are in severe disillusion.
From the posts I’ve been reading, many members are a trigger away from roping jfl. At least that would give their death some meaning
 
From the posts I’ve been reading, many members are a trigger away from roping jfl.
Talk is talk. Also you are talking about very few people. This forum has 30,000 members.
At least that would give their death some meaning
There's no meaning in dying for a cruel lord over some land you have never seen before
 
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Talk is talk. Also you are talking about very few people. This forum has 30,000 members.

There's no meaning in dying for a cruel lord over some land you have never seen before
Nah Jihad is the ultimate way.
 
Talk is talk. Also you are talking about very few people. This forum has 30,000 members.

There's no meaning in dying for a cruel lord over some land you have never seen before
There’s only ever been 1 confirmed suicide on here. I wonder how many unconfirmed cases there are
 
Love this answer man, you have fulfilled and respected my wish of being high iq only to this thread.

To answer quickly no I don’t want girls i don’t really care anymore more and im aware I won’t ever get with one.
Hypothetically, if you could get girls, what would you do.
Socialising skills I did that in college at parties and again don’t know the answer maybe it could be depression.
Aren't you 17? What college parties are these. Depression could be a reason for your current mental being but not the reason you aren't able to get a girlfriend.
Overall I just want to be a high value man who doesn’t conform to society as in i don’t drink dont smoke or vape. Have a job and workout and not watch porn.
That is a good approach. It would kill your depression for sure.
 
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There’s only ever been 1 confirmed suicide on here. I wonder how many unconfirmed cases there are
Many must have kileed themselves in their moms basement and their mom only finding out after the stench became unbearable
 
There’s only ever been 1 confirmed suicide on here. I wonder how many unconfirmed cases there are
Barely any.

The thing is overblown because this forum attracts mentally ill people, but for every one of those you have 300 sane users who barely use this site.
 
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Barely any.

The thing is overblown because this forum attracts mentally ill people, but for every one of those you have 300 sane users who barely use this site.
Having over 2000 posts on this site is a sign of mental illness in itself
 
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Nah Jihad is the ultimate way.
I mean if you want to do that you can do it today

go to Gaza and fight Israel, or wherever muslim "jihadists" are

if you are willing to do that, then I can take your absurd claims seriously
 
I don’t want low iq incels telling to rope i still have a purpose to serve despite my mental health being incredibly shit but im asking this as i want to commit my life to self discipline and self improvement. Reasons im single is because im autistic. Even though im above average looking and 6’2 my autism outweighs this women can sniff it off me and no joke i got worse treatment for it than my 5’3 old best friend and arent attracted to me as a result and another reason is because i physically dont find women attractive anymore. How can i accept it’s over but still begun?

@DildoFaggins @kanderior only high-iqcels I know off every greycel is just gonna tell me to rope or im low t usual responses on this thread even though i want to do wants right
Escorts , drugs and good friends.
Much better than having a gf.
 
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