How can I change peoples perspectives on me when I’m a known JFL

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My whole life I’ve been known as a “jester” or of some sort and people don’t really take me serious anymore regardless of my tone, Even when tryna talk to girls they often initiate a joke because they automatically think I will first and despite me minding my business I constantly get humiliated.

Girls don’t see me as a love interest just as a side clown to make jokes every time they feel upset.

Should I keep jestermaxxing so I can eventually pull a girl or should or how can I find a way for people to take me serious
 
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You're ugly, that's why you're not taken serious.
 
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My whole life I’ve been known as a “jester” or of some sort and people don’t really take me serious anymore regardless of my tone, Even when tryna talk to girls they often initiate a joke because they automatically think I will first and despite me minding my business I constantly get humiliated.

Girls don’t see me as a love interest just as a side clown to make jokes every time they feel upset.

Should I keep jestermaxxing so I can eventually pull a girl or should or how can I find a way for people to take me serious
meet new people and dont let the new people talk to ur old "friends" or maybe ur just ugly
 
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meet new people and dont let the new people talk to ur old "friends" or maybe ur just ugly
But what if I so desperately crave the attention of one girl that knows everyone that thinks I’m a jester
 
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But what if I so desperately crave the attention of one girl that knows everyone that thinks I’m a jester
Stop talking with her and dont be so easy
 
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Do you look disgusting
I wouldn’t say disgusting but grotesque in the female gaze I’d prefer I’m fat black and 6’1 but referred as a sub 5 on a website called incel solution that analyses facial features.

I would also say I have little to zero appeal and the only thing going good for me is my sense of style
 
My whole life I’ve been known as a “jester” or of some sort and people don’t really take me serious anymore regardless of my tone, Even when tryna talk to girls they often initiate a joke because they automatically think I will first and despite me minding my business I constantly get humiliated.

Girls don’t see me as a love interest just as a side clown to make jokes every time they feel upset.

Should I keep jestermaxxing so I can eventually pull a girl or should or how can I find a way for people to take me serious
isnt it obvious, why they are laughing
 
I wouldn’t say disgusting but grotesque in the female gaze I’d prefer I’m fat black and 6’1 but referred as a sub 5 on a website called incel solution that analyses facial features.

I would also say I have little to zero appeal and the only thing going good for me is my sense of style
So then you know why they laugh at you.
 
I’m fat
The answer is right here. Cut down to sub 15%, you already have the height requirement. Laugh selectively less, don’t join peers where you are humiliated, if you happen to, have slow reactions and bodily movements.
 
But what if I so desperately crave the attention of one girl that knows everyone that thinks I’m a jester
then ur a cuck if she has respect for u she would take u seriously and if she liked u she would show affection stop tryna simp
 
My whole life I’ve been known as a “jester” or of some sort and people don’t really take me serious anymore regardless of my tone, Even when tryna talk to girls they often initiate a joke because they automatically think I will first and despite me minding my business I constantly get humiliated.

Girls don’t see me as a love interest just as a side clown to make jokes every time they feel upset.

Should I keep jestermaxxing so I can eventually pull a girl or should or how can I find a way for people to take me serious
you don't have to jestermaxx, its never necessary
 

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