How can I suppress the beta that lives inside me?

[Deleted member 70955]

After knowing for years that women do not respond positively to excessive romance, I have the urge to be romantic all the time anyway. I dislike the male drive to please and validate women constantly. It makes me look desperate.

How can I be less romantic and give her less validation without appearing cold or indifferent?

 

[Deleted member 25705]

After knowing for years that women do not respond positively to excessive romance, I have the urge to be romantic all the time anyway. I dislike the male drive to please and validate women constantly. It makes me look desperate.

How can I be less romantic and give her less validation without appearing cold or indifferent?

Embrace your true nature bro and wear this