How can I tell if I'm goodlooking or not?

[janoycresva]

I honestly can't tell how ugly I really am, sometimes I'll take a picture and I'll look very good but other times, I'll look ogre mode (but these are rare, in most pics, i look fine). I think it has to do with my acne scars and the lighting, the thing is , I'm not really sure how it's percieved in real life v.s. just pictures.

This is why I have trouble using a dating profile like Tinder. I get a good amount of matches with attractive foids with a shit profile (just one pic of my face) but I don't believe that these pics are necessarily represenative of reality and if I were to go out on a date, I'd feel like I'm being deceptive. I feel like the foids would be thinking "why didn't you have scars in this pic", when it was really just the lighting. But maybe the scars are more like they are in the better photos (non existent) in real life.

My main question is, how could I really tell if I'm ugly or not? Because pictures don't paint the full story and nobody in person will give me an honest answer.

 

[mulattomaxxer]

I doubt you are attractive. If you were actually GL you would know, because people would shower you with compliments. You a getting matches on tinder so you are probably slightly above average facially.

If your getting matches on tinder your ance scars probably arent noticeable, or you are frauding really hard. I am yet to see a person with 100% perfect skin (without makeup) IRL.

The best way to see how attractive you are is to see how women percieve you IRL. If they want to be around you, and seem to make excuses to touch you (extra long hugs, light brushes etc), you are somewhat attractive. If women are dissmissive of you, you are not GL. This is nearly impossible to do due to COVID-19.

 

[Aesthetic]

If you have to question yourself you probably arent goodlooking. Just take a mirror pic and ask some active and trusted users for a rating on this site in PMs.

You probably are average.

 

[janoycresva]

If you have to question yourself you probably arent goodlooking. Just take a mirror pic and ask some active and trusted users for a rating on this site in PMs.

You probably are average.

well I know that I'd be goodlooking without scars, they are what make me question myself, I'm not sure how they're percieved in person. Like I said, a rating of a picture doesn't mean much to me because most of the pictures I take don't show my scars.

 

[Vidyacoper]

theres literally a rating section in this forum, shit thread tbh

 

[Deleted]

If ur gl u know it

 

[janoycresva]

The best way to see how attractive you are is to see how women percieve you IRL. If they want to be around you, and seem to make excuses to touch you (extra long hugs, light brushes etc), you are somewhat attractive. If women are dissmissive of you, you are not GL. This is nearly impossible to do due to COVID-19.

So how do I get around women after this is over lol? I'm never really around femoids.

 

[Mr.cope]

If you end up on this site you aren’t attractive

 

[janoycresva]

theres literally a rating section in this forum, shit thread tbh

reading comprehension brother, I'm looking for an analysis of aesthetics in real life, not a picture. Pictures don't tel the full story, I know I look good in most pics.

If you end up on this site you aren’t attractive

prob right tbh lol

 

[Vidyacoper]

reading comprehension brother, I'm looking for an analysis of aesthetics in real life, not a picture. Pictures don't tel the full story, I know I look good in most pics.

prob right tbh lol

if you ACTUALLY look good in pics and in the mirror, and you have success with women - you're goodlooking
there u go thats about it

 

[mulattomaxxer]

So how do I get around women after this is over lol? I'm never really around femoids.

Make friends with guys who know women, or make friends with women at work/school/hobby. If your low inhib go to a bar and talk to girls, but you are basically doing tinder IRL when you cold approach like this.

If your getting tinder matches this works, but you have to be chad tier to get lays.

 

[Deleted member 5293]

looks don't matter, it's your personality

 

[janoycresva]

if you ACTUALLY look good in pics and in the mirror, and you have success with women - you're goodlooking
there u go thats about it

Like I said, I don't see the scars in most mirrors or pictures. It depends on the lighting, I am not sure how that carries over to real life perception.

 

[Xander578]

Ur here so prolly average looking

 

[Deleted member 3043]

If you end up on this site you aren’t attractive

cope tho

 

[Deleted member 5892]

Do you have a victim mentality ? You're probably average looking. Except if you're a truecel, which is rare. There is a low chance that you are attractive tho.

 

[Germania]

I honestly can't tell how ugly I really am, sometimes I'll take a picture and I'll look very good but other times, I'll look ogre mode (but these are rare, in most pics, i look fine). I think it has to do with my acne scars and the lighting, the thing is , I'm not really sure how it's percieved in real life v.s. just pictures.

This is why I have trouble using a dating profile like Tinder. I get a good amount of matches with attractive foids with a shit profile (just one pic of my face) but I don't believe that these pics are necessarily represenative of reality and if I were to go out on a date, I'd feel like I'm being deceptive. I feel like the foids would be thinking "why didn't you have scars in this pic", when it was really just the lighting. But maybe the scars are more like they are in the better photos (non existent) in real life.

My main question is, how could I really tell if I'm ugly or not? Because pictures don't paint the full story and nobody in person will give me an honest answer.

People will tell you

 

[Pubertymaxxer3]

Go out, if girls talk to you are good looking

 

[Y2J97]

I can really understand you.

I have acne scars that according to lucie completely change my face, destroying my self-esteem and I don't know how I'm really perceived.

But what I can tell you is that you are asking yourself the wrong question..

The real question is, how can I improve this situation?

You can act on the scars, but you must be aware that they will never go away 100%, but it is still something.

You can increase your bones, so as to stretch the skin and improve aesthetics of scars.

I'm with you, I've lost too many years of my life because of these shitty scars.. it's time to react.

 

[HumidVent]

If you ever put your penis in a vagina without paying for it you are not ugly, if you do it regularly you are good looking.

 

[Mr Norwood]

If you ever put your penis in a vagina without paying for it you are not ugly, if you do it regularly you are good looking.

LOL. I'm certain a lot of ugly men have got laid at least once. I'd know since I'm one of them.

 

[tyronelite]

If you attract both attractive and unattractive women you are good looking. That’s it. Stop using dating apps to rate yourself.. go out in the real world and see who you attract. Motion and real life is a better indicator than going off on pics alone.

 

[Deleted member 4209]

if ur not getting ioi's constantly ur not attractive

 

[hebbewem]

If you get a good amunt of matches you probaly are good looking