how can normal people live life ignoring lookism?

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how can normal people live life ignoring lookism? Simple question that I think abt and im never able to think of an answer
 
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how can normal people live life ignoring lookism? Simple question that I think abt and im never able to think of an answer
they cope that it doesn t matter becouse of propaganda from media trying manipulate people into thinking that looks don t really matter which is just bs
 
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they cope that it doesn t matter becouse of propaganda from media trying manipulate people into thinking that looks don t really matter which is just bs
The classic "its not all about looks bro"
 
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People don't actually give a shit about how you look as much as you think everybody is too concerned about their own looks not saying looks don't matter but you're going to end up being ignored instead of judged more than you think.
 
To be honest most people are either ltn or mtn like you literally just need to look around. You won't really get looks or get treated badly unless you are below mltn in my opinion. Unless you actively try to approach and talk to women of course. Society in general won't treat you exceptionally well but not exactly like shit either. The average range (mltn to mmtn) is where you dont get extra good treatment but at the same time youre not treated like shit.
 
To be honest most people are either ltn or mtn like you literally just need to look around. You won't really get looks or get treated badly unless you are below mltn in my opinion. Unless you actively try to approach and talk to women of course. Society in general won't treat you exceptionally well but not exactly like shit either. The average range (mltn to mmtn) is where you dont get extra good treatment but at the same time youre not treated like shit.
You’re right, but at the same time, in my personal experience at least (being around ltn), if you live life until a certain point, you will definitely see how women treat more attractive men differently, despite all the other benefits of being attractive. And I just don’t get how people can ignore that and live their lives without trying to experience those things that they aren’t able to simply because of their looks.
 
eople clearly can ignore lookism to some extent. If they couldn’t, then every single person in the world would be actively trying to improve their appearance as much as possible, because the advantages of being attractive are obvious. But that’s not what happens. A lot of people are aware that looks affect the way they’re treated, yet they still choose to focus their energy on other parts of life. their work, hobbies, relationships, or personal goals. That alone shows that it’s possible to recognize that lookism exists without letting it control your whole mindset. Some people simply value other things more, or they accept that physical appearance is only one part of life rather than the center of it.
 
You’re right, but at the same time, in my personal experience at least (being around ltn), if you live life until a certain point, you will definitely see how women treat more attractive men differently, despite all the other benefits of being attractive. And I just don’t get how people can ignore that and live their lives without trying to experience those things that they aren’t able to simply because of their looks.
Yea, its like the missing out feeling that make people feel like shit. However life itself asides from female opinion is objectively survivable for mltn and above.

Otherwise the only way to not succumb to lookism is to either moneymaxx or take the happinesspill. You will probably notice that 80% of business related influencers or rich people irl are mmtn and below. Rarely you may see more attractive.
 
how can normal people live life ignoring lookism? Simple question that I think abt and im never able to think of an answer
I believe that they could come to accept it if they really sat and thought long and hard logically but most never will. Its kinda like they know it exists but they have not ever had to access the part of them that acknowledges its existence?
 
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I believe that they could come to accept it if they really sat and thought long and hard logically but most never will. Its kinda like they know it exists but they have not ever had to access the part of them that acknowledges its existence?
Ignorance is bliss in this case. If it's truly over might as well try to enjoy life. So many rich people are sub5 or just average looking. You may not be a foid magnet but if you tried hard enough you could go on like 4 vacations a year own a nice car and just chill. Financial freedom still brings true happiness.

Just imagine being in the maldives living like youre in one of those miami instagram larper posts.
 
It's just hard to swallow that pill, so for the majority of people, it's easier to be deluded and believe the lie that 'personality is what matters.' Little do they know their girlfriend will break up with them over some bs, but really, it'll just be an excuse to move on to one of the five chads in her dms
"Looks don't matter, just be kind" - O'pry on Chico's podcast
 
Ignorance is bliss in this case. If it's truly over might as well try to enjoy life. So many rich people are sub5 or just average looking. You may not be a foid magnet but if you tried hard enough you could go on like 4 vacations a year own a nice car and just chill. Financial freedom still brings true happiness.

Just imagine being in the maldives living like youre in one of those miami instagram larper posts.
Definetly, I always envy people who have no idea about lookism AND look good.
 
eople clearly can ignore lookism to some extent. If they couldn’t, then every single person in the world would be actively trying to improve their appearance as much as possible, because the advantages of being attractive are obvious. But that’s not what happens. A lot of people are aware that looks affect the way they’re treated, yet they still choose to focus their energy on other parts of life. their work, hobbies, relationships, or personal goals. That alone shows that it’s possible to recognize that lookism exists without letting it control your whole mindset. Some people simply value other things more, or they accept that physical appearance is only one part of life rather than the center of it.
I guess youre right, but in my opinion everybody tries to improve their looks as much as they can. They just dont know about the more extreme methods or are too afraid to try anything that has a risk. And a lot of people just cope a lot and try to convince themselves that looks dont matter.
 
how can normal people live life ignoring lookism? Simple question that I think abt and im never able to think of an answer
Bro I swear they know but they will denying it right infront of u w the biggest cope oat and say that appearance doesnt matter lol
 
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Bro I swear they know but they will denying it right infront of u w the biggest cope oat and say that appearance doesnt matter lol
True,some of the dudes on this forum underestimate the ability of the human mind to cope
 
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