how come i still don't feel good about myself?

[proximaspilled]

i used to be a fat ugly little shit in elementary and middle school, i got into the gym in freshman year and i did some other softmaxxes and i eventually ascended to around mtn. i got a lot more friends and i feel happy when i'm around them, and they say that i'm above average. but i still look in the mirror and i often focus on my flaws. even if i ascend, i feel like i still focus on the bad parts of my looks. is there anything i can do to stop being so critical of myself and accept my flaws so i can be a little bit more comfortable with how i look?

 

[Escanor1]

softmaxxes are usually very minor so no one would appreciate it

 

[Hoopy321]

i used to be a fat ugly little shit in elementary and middle school, i got into the gym in freshman year and i did some other softmaxxes and i eventually ascended to around mtn. i got a lot more friends and i feel happy when i'm around them, and they say that i'm above average. but i still look in the mirror and i often focus on my flaws. even if i ascend, i feel like i still focus on the bad parts of my looks. is there anything i can do to stop being so critical of myself and accept my flaws so i can be a little bit more comfortable with how i look?

no u can’t nigga
ur brain is probably fucked like mine and you will only look at ur flaws

 

[Purple$]

 

[Sick]

i used to be a fat ugly little shit in elementary and middle school, i got into the gym in freshman year and i did some other softmaxxes and i eventually ascended to around mtn. i got a lot more friends and i feel happy when i'm around them, and they say that i'm above average. but i still look in the mirror and i often focus on my flaws. even if i ascend, i feel like i still focus on the bad parts of my looks. is there anything i can do to stop being so critical of myself and accept my flaws so i can be a little bit more comfortable with how i look?

nothing, your eyes have been opened

 

[mopheadcody]

i know this might just sound retarded but u gotta focus on better things in life like ur health and building good relationships with people

 

[Sick]

The only true solution is to find the dead end of your potential, be happy, feel great accomplishment from it. to the point where nothing else can match it. you must satisfy your subscious

 

[proximaspilled]

i know this might just sound retarded but u gotta focus on better things in life like ur health and building good relationships with people

thanks man

 

[proximaspilled]

The only true solution is to find the dead end of your potential, be happy, feel great accomplishment from it. to the point where nothing else can match it. you must satisfy your subscious

alr thanks man i'm happy to hear

 

[Sick]

alr thanks man i'm happy to hear

it is a long journey, good luck brother

 

[mopheadcody]

thanks man

you got it bro dw

 

[v8sandweights]

yeah im hella self conscious too and im well above mtn tbh

Therefore i could only imagine the mental warfare id go through if i was mtn, so my advice is do everything u can to ascend. It will still be bad but less bad im guessing than it is mentally now

Getting on gear and pinning actually makes u feel better even before u see progress cause u feel like ur actually doing something to improve and ur not accepting defeat

 

[eucwa]

i used to be a fat ugly little shit in elementary and middle school, i got into the gym in freshman year and i did some other softmaxxes and i eventually ascended to around mtn. i got a lot more friends and i feel happy when i'm around them, and they say that i'm above average. but i still look in the mirror and i often focus on my flaws. even if i ascend, i feel like i still focus on the bad parts of my looks. is there anything i can do to stop being so critical of myself and accept my flaws so i can be a little bit more comfortable with how i look?

Save up for surgery like me

 

[proximaspilled]

Save up for surgery like me

already getting surgery for my recessed maxilla

 

[stw]

i used to be a fat ugly little shit in elementary and middle school, i got into the gym in freshman year and i did some other softmaxxes and i eventually ascended to around mtn. i got a lot more friends and i feel happy when i'm around them, and they say that i'm above average. but i still look in the mirror and i often focus on my flaws. even if i ascend, i feel like i still focus on the bad parts of my looks. is there anything i can do to stop being so critical of myself and accept my flaws so i can be a little bit more comfortable with how i look?

Nothing helps tbh, i still feel this way

 

[iblamezyg0s]

i used to be a fat ugly little shit in elementary and middle school, i got into the gym in freshman year and i did some other softmaxxes and i eventually ascended to around mtn. i got a lot more friends and i feel happy when i'm around them, and they say that i'm above average. but i still look in the mirror and i often focus on my flaws. even if i ascend, i feel like i still focus on the bad parts of my looks. is there anything i can do to stop being so critical of myself and accept my flaws so i can be a little bit more comfortable with how i look?

Try contrastmaxxing if you still didn't try it; it makes people focus on your stong points rather than your flaws.

 

[proximaspilled]

Try contrastmaxxing if you still didn't try it; it makes people focus on your stong points rather than your flaws.

thanks for the tip man what about my own self perception tho? will it make me feel better

 

[iblamezyg0s]

thanks for the tip man what about my own self perception tho? will it make me feel better

I really don't know, i think it depends on the person cuz there are alot of people who look really good but they still feel it's not enough like a double edged weapon; it drives you to improve but may hurt you mentally.