how do i break this cycle gtfih

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so i start liking a girl -> we start chatting -> i like her but she gives off this vibe like "nah try harder" -> i somehow manage to take her out -> she starts showing me attention -> she starts showing WAY to much attention -> i get annoyed -> i stop liking the girl.

like is this all cuz of low test or what?
someone with this experience please lmk cuz im supposed to go with this girl tommorow out again.😢
 
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ihatemybabyface said:
so i start liking a girl -> we start chatting -> i like her but she gives off this vibe like "nah try harder" -> i somehow manage to take her out -> she starts showing me attention -> she starts showing WAY to much attention -> i get annoyed -> i stop liking the girl.

like is this all cuz of low test or what?
someone with this experience please lmk cuz im supposed to go with this girl tommorow out again.😢
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this is super real.
 
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tags @Cinnamon fan64 @Hernan @knightgtb65
 
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Orka said:
this is super real.
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and what did you do to like break the cycle? cuz i lastly had a girlfriend like 2-3 years ago and im getting lonely😢
 
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ihatemybabyface said:
so i start liking a girl -> we start chatting -> i like her but she gives off this vibe like "nah try harder" -> i somehow manage to take her out -> she starts showing me attention -> she starts showing WAY to much attention -> i get annoyed -> i stop liking the girl.

like is this all cuz of low test or what?
someone with this experience please lmk cuz im supposed to go with this girl tommorow out again.😢
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dnr im not talking to foids unless im chadlite
 
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FiendFiend said:
dnr im not talking to foids unless im chadlite
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well i liked her for her looks and she started to like me back so idk what im doing wrong
 
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ihatemybabyface said:
so i start liking a girl -> we start chatting -> i like her but she gives off this vibe like "nah try harder" -> i somehow manage to take her out -> she starts showing me attention -> she starts showing WAY to much attention -> i get annoyed -> i stop liking the girl.

like is this all cuz of low test or what?
someone with this experience please lmk cuz im supposed to go with this girl tommorow out again.😢
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It’s called for yourself to like an ugly girl
 
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ihatemybabyface said:
so i start liking a girl -> we start chatting -> i like her but she gives off this vibe like "nah try harder" -> i somehow manage to take her out -> she starts showing me attention -> she starts showing WAY to much attention -> i get annoyed -> i stop liking the girl.

like is this all cuz of low test or what?
someone with this experience please lmk cuz im supposed to go with this girl tommorow out again.😢
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how is this even possible
 
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ihatemybabyface said:
well i liked her for her looks and she started to like me back so idk what im doing wrong
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ur not chadlite

 
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ihatemybabyface said:
so i start liking a girl -> we start chatting -> i like her but she gives off this vibe like "nah try harder" -> i somehow manage to take her out -> she starts showing me attention -> she starts showing WAY to much attention -> i get annoyed -> i stop liking the girl.

like is this all cuz of low test or what?
someone with this experience please lmk cuz im supposed to go with this girl tommorow out again.😢
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You’re gay & want peace of mind just date troons
 
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Feminine behavior
 
FiendFiend said:
right thats why foid dont want u
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nigga i didnt even say in the thread she doesnt want me.

she wants me, the problem for me is she gives me way to much attention.
 
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ihatemybabyface said:
so i start liking a girl -> we start chatting -> i like her but she gives off this vibe like "nah try harder" -> i somehow manage to take her out -> she starts showing me attention -> she starts showing WAY to much attention -> i get annoyed -> i stop liking the girl.

like is this all cuz of low test or what?
someone with this experience please lmk cuz im supposed to go with this girl tommorow out again.😢
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ts has happened to me the last 2 times out of 3, once they start overwhelming me i distance instantly and find it annoying and stop liking the girl, its mainly due to not being used to constant interaction outside of school time, i just about have enough social battery for when im in school if you get what i mean but this is just in my experience, im used to alone downtime after school and constantly being bombarded with shi and having to maintain a persona to a girl is annoying
 
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ihatemybabyface said:
so i start liking a girl -> we start chatting -> i like her but she gives off this vibe like "nah try harder" -> i somehow manage to take her out -> she starts showing me attention -> she starts showing WAY to much attention -> i get annoyed -> i stop liking the girl.

like is this all cuz of low test or what?
someone with this experience please lmk cuz im supposed to go with this girl tommorow out again.😢
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its not low test, also i havent broken the cycle i just havent spoken to a girl since and coped saying im on a self improvement arc
 
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knightgtb65 said:
its not low test, also i havent broken the cycle i just havent spoken to a girl since and coped saying im on a self improvement arc
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Its traits of low test
 
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ihatemybabyface said:
so i start liking a girl -> we start chatting -> i like her but she gives off this vibe like "nah try harder" -> i somehow manage to take her out -> she starts showing me attention -> she starts showing WAY to much attention -> i get annoyed -> i stop liking the girl.

like is this all cuz of low test or what?
someone with this experience please lmk cuz im supposed to go with this girl tommorow out again.😢
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dnr but u dont break it ig
 
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knightgtb65 said:
ts has happened to me the last 2 times out of 3, once they start overwhelming me i distance instantly and find it annoying and stop liking the girl, its mainly due to not being used to constant interaction outside of school time, i just about have enough social battery for when im in school if you get what i mean but this is just in my experience, im used to alone downtime after school and constantly being bombarded with shi and having to maintain a persona to a girl is annoying
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yes this is 1:1 my situation.

like am i supposed to just maintain the persona the whole time or what cuz if i dont get a gf in the next 3 years i think i might be doomed
 
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Mang you must find a true crush, something in the oneitis caliber tbh... Then you'll be the case you're describing:
your life will be screwed and you'll be panicking making threads what to 'type'& all "game" knowledge will be out of the window... It's super rare but ill hope you'll experience it & she'll be into you regardless of 'way too much attention':chad:
 
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White_Bwoi said:
making threads what to 'type'& all "game" knowledge will be out of the window...
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i deadass posted on here like 2 weeks ago about going out with her and being all stressed out lol.
 
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ihatemybabyface said:
so i start liking a girl -> we start chatting -> i like her but she gives off this vibe like "nah try harder" -> i somehow manage to take her out -> she starts showing me attention -> she starts showing WAY to much attention -> i get annoyed -> i stop liking the girl.

like is this all cuz of low test or what?
someone with this experience please lmk cuz im supposed to go with this girl tommorow out again.😢
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apparently this happens due to you being attracted to the chase not the actual relationship and yoy lose interest once the girl becomes fully available, its a dopamine style cycle nothing to do w low t
 
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knightgtb65 said:
apparently this happens due to you being attracted to the chase not the actual relationship and yoy lose interest once the girl becomes fully available, its a dopamine style cycle nothing to do w low t
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fuck man then how do i find relationship?
 
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ihatemybabyface said:
fuck man then how do i find relationship?
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u find a relationship by learning the diff between actual compatibility and just liking the chase if you only go for girls who give u highs through tension youll always lose interest fast, pick girls you genuinely enjoy being around could start of as friends etc who are alike
 
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knightgtb65 said:
u find a relationship by learning the diff between actual compatibility and just liking the chase if you only go for girls who give u highs through tension youll always lose interest fast, pick girls you genuinely enjoy being around could start of as friends etc who are alike
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thanks:)
 
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ihatemybabyface said:
so i start liking a girl -> we start chatting -> i like her but she gives off this vibe like "nah try harder" -> i somehow manage to take her out -> she starts showing me attention -> she starts showing WAY to much attention -> i get annoyed -> i stop liking the girl.

like is this all cuz of low test or what?
someone with this experience please lmk cuz im supposed to go with this girl tommorow out again.😢
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Cat Glasses GIF
 
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ihatemybabyface said:
so i start liking a girl -> we start chatting -> i like her but she gives off this vibe like "nah try harder" -> i somehow manage to take her out -> she starts showing me attention -> she starts showing WAY to much attention -> i get annoyed -> i stop liking the girl.

like is this all cuz of low test or what?
someone with this experience please lmk cuz im supposed to go with this girl tommorow out again.😢
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You’re a retard I swear on everybody’s soul if you lose … I’m gonna go to your house and beat you.
 
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this has happened to me everytime i spoke to a girl
 
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