I know it's that simple but how do I ask? Like what do I say? I was thinking of taking her to the cinema or something but I don't know how to ask her.
"hey stacy, ive decided to generously offer you muh chad bwc. accept it now or never see me again"
Ask her if she is free on x day and would you like to go to cinema with me on said day.
I know her quite well, she's spoken to my parents, I've spoken to her parents.
"Joined: Oct 8, 2025"
Now that MIGHT work.
Probably the most useful response I've had here, apart from @nobodylovesme's response.
I'll give it a go, I'll update soon.
Friendly fire jfl
Cinema is not good, because you and the girl won’t even get to talk. Ask her what does she like to do on her free time. Then act interested in that and ask if she’s free to do that.
not once did I state the word grey, made my account june 23rd, a whole 4 months ago bhai
It's the only thing I can think of within my price range, I don't have a lot of money to be throwing around for food dates (most places around me cost around 30£ for two meals, let alone the drinks). Where else do you suggest where we could speak properly?
i had an acc in 2023 lol
dont believe u but alr
Just do it over text it’s simpler
its deleted, you can check my .com its from Feb 2023
That's what I was going to do, sure it's simpler but what do I even ask them. And where else other than the cinema could I take her?
tried this method before, got a restraining order
chad method only
maybe just go for a walk?
Just ask her on snap ‘a bunch of us are going to see a movie you in?’ Then go from there
Just approach her and initiate conversation and talk
I'm texting her right now as we speak, it's one of those friends to dating type of thing that's going on. Just minus the dating part (atm)
Just catch her by surprise when she's out with her friends or whatever and do a freestyle,
Don’t do it out of the blue if you‘re not good looking, cold-approach is for dudes who are above average looking. Also it depends in so many factors, like does she even know you exist, is she in your class, is she friends with you etc
I did mention in another comment, we're friends, she's in a few of my classes, I feel like she's been hinting at her having a 'crush' on me but I'm not 100% sure.
Why do you assume so if you don’t mind me asking? What’s about her behavior that makes you think she‘s into you more than just a friend ?
Well, the way she speaks to me. It's like we are already a couple, just unofficially. Like, she could just say something random as if though we were dating, like calling me a cutie, or saying "he's mine" to random women. I might just be fucking oblivious tbh.
Not trying to be pesimistic, but those are not actual signs she‘s into you romantically. This is very normal among friends, especially women like to flirt with male friends just to practice their flirting skills or simply for fun or to test you if you‘re into them.
Okay, but one other thing. Her bestfriends told me in school to "ask her out" because "she will say yeah", that's all they said. Bit cryptic I know.
nah fuck that, i say take the gamble. otherwise you'll watch as she gets a bf and wonder about what couldve been
Don’t listen to the Grinch, just go for it. You might lose a friend but you might get the girl.
Yea facts
If you really love her, you can try, but You have to know that maybe she would reject you and it could ruin the friendship.
Alright, I'll give it a go
I don’t agree if it’s blatantly obvious she doesn’t like you. She might be shy and is afraid he doesn’t like her back. A whole bunch of things could be the case. The only way to truly know is to ask her out after talking with her for a bit.
Ask her out to the club if you're 18, go to eat if you're under 18 and if you're over 18 just fuck you
Alright, should I say something like "How about we go out to eat on saturday?" and if she asks anything should I just say "like a date" or smth, and if she says no to the date part then just say "not a date"
I always knew you are a fake feminist.
No just say I will come. Only that don't say none prepare some money and when you're there hang out then tell her are you hungry? Let's eat if she's says no I already ate or I'm not hungry you tell her we'll I'm hungry we're just gonna get some for me and you will just taste it then she can't refuse men orders so she will come with you and it will be cute
You can't plan something small it's cringe except if its a restaurant and youre ready to put up 100+ just go fast foods
I messaged her and said "How about food saturday?" and she said "YESSSSS!" exactly like that, so I think it's going alright so far.
Ggs
