asymmetricalmanlet
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Im now a 5'10 17yo around mtn maybe hmtn
, and ive been approached by 3 girls.
I have also been 4'9, at 12 (in Germany, I was the shortest guy by a 10cm gap for 2yrs), closet nearly only hand me downs from my Sister, long hair because my Dad also had long hair and I didnt wanna dissapoint him and I was also a late bloomer, my "friends" I had suddenly didnt want to hang out with me anymore and I was a complete social outcast from 5th-8th Gradeuntill I cut my hair and switched schools, but that time put the fact that I wasnt worthy of love and that no one showed interest in you if youre ugly deep in my pre adolecent brain.
Now people (especially women) do show more interest and kindness and dont get me wrong I dont want to complain, its way better now, I dont cry myself to sleep every night anymore but it doesnt just feel weird suddenly being treated nicer but I actually cant accept it and dont believe it.
I went on 3 dates with one girl (the first time I got approached and felt enough confidence and believe for me to go on a date), she didnt respond for some time after the third date so I immediately accepted it was over, I didnt get sad about it because I didnt believe it was gonna happen anyway, she texted back that she was sorry it took her so long, she was busy with school stuff and I told her I wasnt interested anymore, I like to tell myself its because I have options and I got approached so I had the power in the relationship and im like a tuff volcel because I fight hypergamy but it was actually just because it still didnt feel real, I cant accept not that I dont want to, im just unable to accept somebody showing (romantic) interest in me because for 3 important developmental years nobody showed any interest in me at all.
Are there any fixes for this? Ive been to therapy but it didnt help at all I just got mad at the therapist because he didnt understand my issue, ive also tried LSD and shrooms (not often) because they're allegedly anti Depression/Trauma but I didnt actually seem to make a difference maybe it needs to be consistent for therapy though idk.
(I just read a thread of a nigga talking about how he hates being 6'3 because he wants to be perceived as feminine/cute and stuff, I hope it doesnt come across like that, ive lived through manlet and sub3 hell and would never say some shit like that)
Thank you If you read
, and ive been approached by 3 girls.I have also been 4'9, at 12 (in Germany, I was the shortest guy by a 10cm gap for 2yrs), closet nearly only hand me downs from my Sister, long hair because my Dad also had long hair and I didnt wanna dissapoint him and I was also a late bloomer, my "friends" I had suddenly didnt want to hang out with me anymore and I was a complete social outcast from 5th-8th Grade
untill I cut my hair and switched schools, but that time put the fact that I wasnt worthy of love and that no one showed interest in you if youre ugly deep in my pre adolecent brain.Now people (especially women) do show more interest and kindness and dont get me wrong I dont want to complain, its way better now, I dont cry myself to sleep every night anymore but it doesnt just feel weird suddenly being treated nicer but I actually cant accept it and dont believe it.
I went on 3 dates with one girl (the first time I got approached and felt enough confidence and believe for me to go on a date), she didnt respond for some time after the third date so I immediately accepted it was over, I didnt get sad about it because I didnt believe it was gonna happen anyway, she texted back that she was sorry it took her so long, she was busy with school stuff and I told her I wasnt interested anymore, I like to tell myself its because I have options and I got approached so I had the power in the relationship and im like a tuff volcel because I fight hypergamy
but it was actually just because it still didnt feel real, I cant accept not that I dont want to, im just unable to accept somebody showing (romantic) interest in me because for 3 important developmental years nobody showed any interest in me at all.Are there any fixes for this? Ive been to therapy but it didnt help at all I just got mad at the therapist because he didnt understand my issue, ive also tried LSD and shrooms (not often) because they're allegedly anti Depression/Trauma but I didnt actually seem to make a difference maybe it needs to be consistent for therapy though idk.
(I just read a thread of a nigga talking about how he hates being 6'3 because he wants to be perceived as feminine/cute and stuff, I hope it doesnt come across like that, ive lived through manlet and sub3 hell and would never say some shit like that)
Thank you If you read
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