How do I get better at socializing

[easternpill]

Im having a really hard time socializing rn. Idk why tho, I sometimes feel like I’m trying too hard to be perfect and nonchalant? Plz help me I’m ruining my life with this

 

[TheTD7]

i tried socializing once and ended up embarrassing myself badly. brootal memory which i still think of and cringe.

 

[easternpill]

i tried socializing once and ended up embarrassing myself badly. brootal memory which i still think of and cringe.

Damn I’m scared that I’ll try too hard socializing and become the biggest jester. Because I’m already pretty awkward

 

[Skry]

If you still have a small baseline of social skills to work with, you can try the method of talking to people even less socially adept than you, just for practice. But make sure you don't get too comfortable because the point is to eventually fit in with normies

 

[easternpill]

If you still have a small baseline of social skills to work with, you can try the method of talking to people even less socially adept than you, just for practice. But make sure you don't get too comfortable because the point is to eventually fit in with normies

I already try but it’s hard because I just started high school and got a new class with assigned seats.

 

[TheTD7]

Damn I’m scared that I’ll try too hard socializing and become the biggest jester. Because I’m already pretty awkward

True. i just gave up on socializing so now i just spend time with close friends so it isn't awkward.

but i suppose the more you start talking to someone new/interact with a different friend group, you'll eventually get out of the awkward phase and possibly fit in better. You just gotta talk about something that aligns with their interests. Like two gym goers in a class full of non gym goers would get along pretty well.

but even i don't have the balls to try and do that so i just gave up on this socializing fuckery

 

[Deleted member 135099]

If you improve your looks, you will be forced into more social situations which will indirectly improve your social skills

Ugly people have poor social skills because they never get into social situations and when they are in social situations people give them subtle hints that they think they are undesirable

 

[easternpill]

True. i just gave up on socializing so now i just spend time with close friends so it isn't awkward.

but i suppose the more you start talking to someone new/interact with a different friend group, you'll eventually get out of the awkward phase and possibly fit in better. You just gotta talk about something that aligns with their interests. Like two gym goers in a class full of non gym goers would get along pretty well.

but even i don't have the balls to try and do that so i just gave up on this socializing fuckery

Ye I got some day ones in the school but like they got no problem, and I can’t just pull up every break and just 3 wheel. I gotta figure my shit out too

 

[easternpill]

If you improve your looks, you will be forced into more social situations which will indirectly improve your social skills

Ugly people have poor social skills because they never get into social situations and when they are in social situations people give them subtle hints that they think they are undesirable

Ik i have experienced bp irl. I work in a grocery store and ever since I’ve gotten a glow up customers treat me better and talk nicer and smile. But idk why but I always walk around looking sad or some would say mad. But that’s just my resting face

 

[gallowdestined]

Im having a really hard time socializing rn. Idk why tho, I sometimes feel like I’m trying too hard to be perfect and nonchalant? Plz help me I’m ruining my life with this

just be NT

 

[easternpill]

just be NT

Use a less incel term I’m not as bp’ed as I was

 

[gallowdestined]

Use a less incel term I’m not as bp’ed as I was

neurotypical

 

[gallowdestined]

Use a less incel term I’m not as bp’ed as I was

neurotypical

 

[Skry]

Ugly people have poor social skills because they never get into social situations and when they are in social situations people give them subtle hints that they think they are undesirable

story of my life

 

[Deleted member 135099]

story of my life

Time to get to work then nigga

 

[Skry]

Time to get to work then nigga

Work on what

 

[Deleted member 135099]

Work on what

The fuck? Improve your looks nigga. Get surgery. Lower your bodyfat

 

[Skry]

The fuck? Improve your looks nigga. Get surgery. Lower your bodyfat

Cant, need lefort 3
Always been from 11-17 bf in my whole life never once have i looked good. If I was at least LTN I would just social maxx

 

[Apchun144]

TAKE LSD
seriously though it’s the worst place you need to ask about ntmaxxing

 

[easternpill]

So what do I do

 

[user228947529]

Im having a really hard time socializing rn. Idk why tho, I sometimes feel like I’m trying too hard to be perfect and nonchalant? Plz help me I’m ruining my life with this

Selank

 

[foid_s]

Im having a really hard time socializing rn. Idk why tho, I sometimes feel like I’m trying too hard to be perfect and nonchalant? Plz help me I’m ruining my life with this

The neuropeptide oxytocin (OXT) has been revealed as a profound anxiolytic and antistress factor of the brain, besides its many prosocial and reproductive effects

 

[ascend.exe]

If you improve your looks, you will be forced into more social situations which will indirectly improve your social skills

Ugly people have poor social skills because they never get into social situations and when they are in social situations people give them subtle hints that they think they are undesirable

not true, im good looking (obv sounds like a larp and u cant prove ts) but i legit just sit in my room hating women for my bad past relationships, all I do is workout, girls look at me and stuff. But my anxiety is so crippling and bad i cant really do most shit, let alone keep a relationship.

I get what ur saying and thats also my plan, eventually. I will marry one of my sisters friends if I don't find a girl before then. I'm attractive to most women so its not tough to find a woman, just tough to find good women.