How do I get over the fact that I missed out on so much?

[shrek]

Everyone I see is having so much fun, has had great experiences, got girls and girlfriends but I’m still a khhv at 20, never been to a party and never socialized.

I have one friend who I met who’s a htn slayer, and when he asked me a while back about how much pussy I get I told him I’m a kissless virgin. He legit freaked out and was like “OMFG there’s literally no way!” When I asked him wdym he said, “you look like you get girls all the time and you’re handsome.”

I’m just so fucking pissed and upset that I procrastinated and let things get to this point that I have no social circle and have fucking nothing. I have options on tinder so after these phaggots lift the lockdown I’ll go for that immediately.

I just still feel like “why would a hot girl want anything to do with me?” and “wtf do I even have to offer them?” even tho they call me hot on tinder.

Is there a cure for this?

 

[Deleted member 11414]

Holy shit are you me?

 

[Danish_Retard]

Is there a cure for this?

stop being retarded.

How can you be good looking and have no social skills? You brought this on yourself.

 

[Eduardo DOV]

why do you think ou have nothing to offer? do you have a micropenis?

 

[shrek]

stop being retarded.

How can you be good looking and have no social skills? You brought this on yourself.

I agree 100%. How can I fix this tho? The issue in high school was that we had no parties, no hot girls and 99% of the dudes were idiots. So I still have a few friends from there but I figured uni would be better.

it fucking wasn’t and I barely met anyone, no girls and never been to a party. But my school has been closed for a year now. How do I get a social circle now?

 

[shrek]

why do you think ou have nothing to offer? do you have a micropenis?

Fluctuates but it’s 6 inches +/- 0.2 inches. I just feel like a girl will instantly know I’m retarded even if I act like I’m not. I mean what 20 year old doesn’t know how to kiss?

 

[shrek]

Holy shit are you me?

Lol maybe. I feel for you if you’re in my scenario too bro. I just can’t fucking believe I’m 20 and I let it go this far. I can’t comprehend how I didn’t take actions years ago fml

 

[Danish_Retard]

I agree 100%. How can I fix this tho? The issue in high school was that we had no parties, no hot girls and 99% of the dudes were idiots. So I still have a few friends from there but I figured uni would be better.

it fucking wasn’t and I barely met anyone, no girls and never been to a party. But my school has been closed for a year now. How do I get a social circle now?

https://www.succeedsocially.com/

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Really, if you have the looks you just need to put yourself out there and improve your social skills. I think you have a bigger problem with not noticing social patterns tho, even if we just took this thread as an example, you should have noticed that threads where the OP reacts to every post gain way more engagement and almost nobody is gonna bother to actually write a serious reply if the OP isn't gonna react it.

 

[Deleted member 10536]

Everyone I see is having so much fun, has had great experiences, got girls and girlfriends but I’m still a khhv at 20, never been to a party and never socialized.

I have one friend who I met who’s a htn slayer, and when he asked me a while back about how much pussy I get I told him I’m a kissless virgin. He legit freaked out and was like “OMFG there’s literally no way!” When I asked him wdym he said, “you look like you get girls all the time and you’re handsome.”

I’m just so fucking pissed and upset that I procrastinated and let things get to this point that I have no social circle and have fucking nothing. I have options on tinder so after these phaggots lift the lockdown I’ll go for that immediately.

I just still feel like “why would a hot girl want anything to do with me?” and “wtf do I even have to offer them?” even tho they call me hot on tinder.

Is there a cure for this?

Speaking from experience... You don't.

 

[warpsociety]

Everyone I see is having so much fun, has had great experiences, got girls and girlfriends but I’m still a khhv at 20, never been to a party and never socialized.

I have one friend who I met who’s a htn slayer, and when he asked me a while back about how much pussy I get I told him I’m a kissless virgin. He legit freaked out and was like “OMFG there’s literally no way!” When I asked him wdym he said, “you look like you get girls all the time and you’re handsome.”

I’m just so fucking pissed and upset that I procrastinated and let things get to this point that I have no social circle and have fucking nothing. I have options on tinder so after these phaggots lift the lockdown I’ll go for that immediately.

I just still feel like “why would a hot girl want anything to do with me?” and “wtf do I even have to offer them?” even tho they call me hot on tinder.

Is there a cure for this?

Bro you’re only 20, seriously don’t worry. It is unfortunate you missed out on those teen years but if you’re not fugly it’s seriously fine. You can still have the mystical experience you dream of. Just LooksMax and you can stay your regular reserved self, lots of girls literally prefer reserved dudes. Gl to u do SARMs btw

 

[Deleted member 275]

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Really, if you have the looks you just need to put yourself out there and improve your social skills. I think you have a bigger problem with not noticing social patterns tho, even if we just took this thread as an example, you should have noticed that threads where the OP reacts to every post gain way more engagement and almost nobody is gonna bother to actually write a serious reply if the OP isn't gonna react it.

What does his issue have to do with social skills though. He says girls on tinder call him hot, so legit all he has to do is meetup with them, have a few drinks, and make-out/fuck. It requires 0 social skills once the girl is into you.

He has a mental issue that is completely unrelated to 'social skills'. You don't need social skills to lose your kissless virginity.

 

[shrek]

https://www.succeedsocially.com/

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Really, if you have the looks you just need to put yourself out there and improve your social skills. I think you have a bigger problem with not noticing social patterns tho, even if we just took this thread as an example, you should have noticed that threads where the OP reacts to every post gain way more engagement and almost nobody is gonna bother to actually write a serious reply if the OP isn't gonna react it.

Oh ok thanks for the advice man. Yeah I didn’t know about the reactions but thanks. Yeah I have very shit social skills tbh. I can kind of fake it but it makes me feel extremely uncomfortable

 

[Danish_Retard]

What does his issue have to do with social skills though. He says girls on tinder call him hot, so legit all he has to do is meetup with them, have a few drinks, and make-out/fuck. It requires 0 social skills once the girl is into you.

He has a mental issue that is completely unrelated to 'social skills'. You don't need social skills to lose your kissless virginity.

Everyone I see is having so much fun, has had great experiences, got girls and girlfriends but I’m still a khhv at 20, never been to a party and never socialized.

OP seems like he wants to do more than just fuck a tinder whore.

 

[shrek]

What does his issue have to do with social skills though. He says girls on tinder call him hot, so legit all he has to do is meetup with them, have a few drinks, and make-out/fuck. It requires 0 social skills once the girl is into you.

He has a mental issue that is completely unrelated to 'social skills'. You don't need social skills to lose your kissless virginity.

Yeah I think that’s true for sure. I’m getting my license on March 31st and then I’ll be good to go. But the thing is, yes I want to have sex etc, but I also want to be popular and get invited to things regularly. I don’t just want to have random hookups and then continue being a loner

 

[Deleted member 275]

OP seems like he wants to do more than just fuck a tinder whore.

Yes but still I don't think it's social skills, it's probably some mental issue, self-esteem issue, idk, that is causing him to isolate and not put in the required social behavior to get a social circle etc.

 

[Danish_Retard]

Yes but still I don't think it's social skills, it's probably some mental issue, self-esteem issue, idk, that is causing him to isolate and not put in the required social behavior to get a social circle etc.

Could also just be because he doesn't know how to make friends and put himself "out there". Social-anxiety and the like, the resources i posted adress both problems.

 

[shrek]

Yes but still I don't think it's social skills, it's probably some mental issue, self-esteem issue, idk, that is causing him to isolate and not put in the required social behavior to get a social circle etc.

Well there’s definitely a mental issue. I mean who the fuck is going to be 20 year old khhv and e confident?

 

[shrek]

Yes but still I don't think it's social skills, it's probably some mental issue, self-esteem issue, idk, that is causing him to isolate and not put in the required social behavior to get a social circle etc.

Speaking from experience... You don't.

What happened to you?

 

[Deleted member 4797]

start pimpmaxxing you simp

 

[AlwaysHaveQuestions]

you missed out
nothing you can do bro

 

[Enfant terrible]

its best to focus on the future
how much fun you still can have
if you change your life
past is past
these thoughts just bring you down

 

[Deleted member 10536]

What happened to you?

khhfv till 30. Never had a friend, never had an experience. Always a loser. Exactly nothing has happened once in my life. Besides failures and hate.

 

[shrek]

Bro you’re only 20, seriously don’t worry. It is unfortunate you missed out on those teen years but if you’re not fugly it’s seriously fine. You can still have the mystical experience you dream of. Just LooksMax and you can stay your regular reserved self, lots of girls literally prefer reserved dudes. Gl to u do SARMs btw

What do you mean by reserved? Like quiet? My other issue is if I ever get a gf, what do I do with her? Like other than sex? I don’t have any parties to bring her to. And what if she asks to meet my friends or my group? We’re just dudes who hang out a couple times a year, talk about sports and racist/autistic shit, and play FIFA. No way she would enjoy that and won’t get turned off.
Also yeah I looksmax by working out.

 

[Uglyandfat]

comparing your teens to your 20’s is like comparing prom to a club it’s a very different thing

 

[warpsociety]

What do you mean by reserved? Like quiet? My other issue is if I ever get a gf, what do I do with her? Like other than sex? I don’t have any parties to bring her to. And what if she asks to meet my friends or my group? We’re just dudes who hang out a couple times a year, talk about sports and racist/autistic shit, and play FIFA. No way she would enjoy that and won’t get turned off.
Also yeah I looksmax by working out.

Then do more, doesn’t take much. Wear relaxed chill clothes, have a cool vibe, go exercise with her, picnics, smoke weed etc life is enjoyed best simply

 

[shrek]

its best to focus on the future
how much fun you still can have
if you change your life
past is past
these thoughts just bring you down

That’s true tbh

 

[shrek]

comparing your teens to your 20’s is like comparing prom to a club it’s a very different thing

Yeah. But I still feel like I’m 15 and Idk how to “grow up” dude. Since I have 0 experience with chicks or parties etc

 

[Deleted member 2684]

Fluctuates but it’s 6 inches +/- 0.2 inches. I just feel like a girl will instantly know I’m retarded even if I act like I’m not. I mean what 20 year old doesn’t know how to kiss?

Kissing isn’t a fucking science bro

 

[shrek]

Then do more, doesn’t take much. Wear relaxed chill clothes, have a cool vibe, go exercise with her, picnics, smoke weed etc life is enjoyed best simply

Okok. Also, what do you talk about with a girl or a gf?

 

[Deleted member 4797]

What do you mean by reserved? Like quiet? My other issue is if I ever get a gf, what do I do with her? Like other than sex? I don’t have any parties to bring her to. And what if she asks to meet my friends or my group? We’re just dudes who hang out a couple times a year, talk about sports and racist/autistic shit, and play FIFA. No way she would enjoy that and won’t get turned off.
Also yeah I looksmax by working out.

If u have a GF she will be busy shit testing u, ur job is to constantly put her in her place below you, nothing else matters in terms of maintaining attraction.

 

[Uglyandfat]

Yeah. But I still feel like I’m 15 and Idk how to “grow up” dude. Since I have 0 experience with chicks or parties etc

i don’t either that’s why you get your ass into a club and figure it out

 

[shrek]

Kissing isn’t a fucking science bro

Wouldn’t the girl still know I don’t know what I’m doing?

 

[Eduardo DOV]

Fluctuates but it’s 6 inches +/- 0.2 inches. I just feel like a girl will instantly know I’m retarded even if I act like I’m not. I mean what 20 year old doesn’t know how to kiss?

bs... i kissed first time i was 21
you should found a girl you like idk

 

[shrek]

i don’t either that’s why you get your ass into a club and figure it out

Clubs here have been closed for a year sadly. Next best option is a bar

 

[shrek]

bs... i kissed first time i was 21
you should found a girl you like idk

Yeah I’ll try. Did your first time go well?

 

[Deleted member 2684]

Wouldn’t the girl still know I don’t know what I’m doing?

Kissed first time at 17,had no issues bro, it kind of just feels natural tbh.

 

[Tusseleif]

If you missed out on important life steps during your teen years it’s gonna be very hard to get those life experiences again. It is indeed a huge blow to the self esteem, but we just gotta try. There’s nothing that can change the past so our 20s is our only opportunity

 

[shrek]

If u have a GF she will be busy shit testing u, ur job is to constantly put her in her place below you, nothing else matters in terms of maintaining attraction.

What’s an example of shit testing me once she’s already my gf?

 

[Uglyandfat]

Clubs here have been closed for a year sadly. Next best option is a bar

then go to a bar and socialize it’s all about getting out of the comfort zone and doing shit you have to realize you have an only 50 year time span to do whatever the fuck you want in your life and if you can’t do as something as basic as talk to people how the fuck will you ever enjoy life

 

[warpsociety]

Okok. Also, what do you talk about with a girl or a gf?

Music, love, how much the world sucks and how your shared love is like a haven from the darkness.

 

[Deleted member 10172]

Everyone I see is having so much fun, has had great experiences, got girls and girlfriends but I’m still a khhv at 20, never been to a party and never socialized.

I have one friend who I met who’s a htn slayer, and when he asked me a while back about how much pussy I get I told him I’m a kissless virgin. He legit freaked out and was like “OMFG there’s literally no way!” When I asked him wdym he said, “you look like you get girls all the time and you’re handsome.”

I’m just so fucking pissed and upset that I procrastinated and let things get to this point that I have no social circle and have fucking nothing. I have options on tinder so after these phaggots lift the lockdown I’ll go for that immediately.

I just still feel like “why would a hot girl want anything to do with me?” and “wtf do I even have to offer them?” even tho they call me hot on tinder.

Is there a cure for this?

get surgery, who cares

 

[Deleted member 10172]

https://www.succeedsocially.com/

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Really, if you have the looks you just need to put yourself out there and improve your social skills. I think you have a bigger problem with not noticing social patterns tho, even if we just took this thread as an example, you should have noticed that threads where the OP reacts to every post gain way more engagement and almost nobody is gonna bother to actually write a serious reply if the OP isn't gonna react it.

where do u get the book

 

[shrek]

get surgery, who cares

Tbh I don’t feel like I need it. I’m not doxxing myself of course but based on girls’ reactions and what my friend said I’m assuming I’m slightly above a normie. But my lack of social status and autism ruins it

 

[Deleted member 4797]

What’s an example of shit testing me once she’s already my gf?

She will try to boss you around, make u do things for her, passive aggressively disrespect you.

All you have to do in LTR is give her jobs to do for you, then tell her off when she doesn't do it right. If she does do it, never be completely satisfied, just say she did 'OK.', so ur attacking her ability to please you in order for her to try harder.

When you handle LTR like this, the bitch never leaves. Never show jealousy or act like you would give a shit if she left. Set high standards and if she doesn't like that she can leave no problem for you.

Also she will be very unlikely to leave because of how much investment she has put in, on top of everything else aforementioned.

 

[shrek]

She will try to boss you around, make u do things for her, passive aggressively disrespect you.

All you have to do in LTR is give her jobs to do for you, then tell her off when she doesn't do it right. If she does do it, never be completely satisfied, just say she did 'OK.', so ur attacking her ability to please you in order for her to try harder.

When you handle LTR like this, the bitch never leaves. Never show jealousy or act like you would give a shit if she left. Set high standards and if she doesn't like that she can leave no problem for you.

Also she will be very unlikely to leave because of how much investment she has put in, on top of everything else aforementioned.

Damn that’s actually good advice. What kind of jobs would you get her to do?

 

[Deleted member 4797]

Damn that’s actually good advice. What kind of jobs would you get her to do?

Anything you want, go get you food and bring it, go bring her car and give you a lift somewhere (even if you can do it yourself, purposefully make her take you and never say thank you, be very entitled), tell her to bring you money and you will control it for the future of the relationship (sell her a bullshit dream that you might stay with her long time in future, and want money to save up for your future, but have it all in your name and just take it).

 

[shrek]

Anything you want, go get you food and bring it, go bring her car and give you a lift somewhere (even if you can do it yourself, purposefully make her take you and never say thank you, be very entitled), tell her to bring you money and you will control it for the future of the relationship (sell her a bullshit dream that you might stay with her long time in future, and want money to save up for your future, but have it all in your name and just take it).

LMFAOOOOO. Yeah I’ll do that but if she’s genuinely a good person I’m not stealing her money tho. If we were in a social situation and the girl noticed I’m quite and not talking too much would that be a turn off?

 

[lifestyle21873]

”How strange and foolish is man. He loses his health in gaining wealth. Then, to regain his health he wastes his wealth. He ruins his present while worrying about his future, but weeps in the future by recalling his past. He lives as though death shall never come to him, but dies in a way as if he were never born”

 

[Deleted member 4797]

LMFAOOOOO. Yeah I’ll do that but if she’s genuinely a good person I’m not stealing her money tho. If we were in a social situation and the girl noticed I’m quite and not talking too much would that be a turn off?

Bro no girls are good people im afraid, the more experience you have the more you will realise this. Especially if your pimping on them you will be shocked how much better they treat you than other nice guy boyfriends get treated (you will be worshipped while genuinely good guys get mentally abused by their GF's).

So you may as well take their money.

If your quite because your shy and submissive then yes huge turn-off, if your just quiet because dont feel like talking its fine, so long as when you do talk its not in a shy + low status voice. When your girl brings you into the conversation dont be overly positive reacting to her doing that, instead act a little bit annoyed that she's talking to you (because your in the state of cba to talk).

 

[lifestyle21873]

Bro no girls are good people im afraid, the more experience you have the more you will realise this. Especially if your pimping on them you will be shocked how much better they treat you than other nice guy boyfriends get treated (you will be worshipped while genuinely good guys get mentally abused by their GF's).

So you may as well take their money.

If your quite because your shy and submissive then yes huge turn-off, if your just quiet because dont feel like talking its fine, so long as when you do talk its not in a shy + low status voice. When your girl brings you into the conversation dont be overly positive reacting to her doing that, instead act a little bit annoyed that she's talking to you (because your in the state of cba to talk).

Nice people get exploited and tested in the world, i had to learn it the hard way