How do I get over the fact that I missed out on so much?

[shrek]

Yes it works for me, but its very important how you say it as much as what is said. You must say it calmly and not like your unsure of what your saying or like you were dared to say it. Speak it honestly and nonchalantly. It might take some practise to get it right, so whenever you talk to girls be intentionally disrespectful to build up your pimp muscles.

Ah ok. So then what I’ll do is I’ll learn how to socialize first then I’ll try to incorporate that kinda stuff. If you cum too fast what do you say or do? Does the girl kick you out or do they just wait for round 2?

 

[Deleted member 4797]

Ah ok. So then what I’ll do is I’ll learn how to socialize first then I’ll try to incorporate that kinda stuff. If you cum too fast what do you say or do? Does the girl kick you out or do they just wait for round 2?

You do what you feel like without regard for her bro, never think about pleasing women its the worst thing to do

 

[shrek]

You do what you feel like without regard for her bro, never think about pleasing women its the worst thing to do

Would they laugh at you if you finish too quick?

 

[Deleted member 8576]

i guess it’s tooo laaateeee

 

[Deleted member 4797]

Would they laugh at you if you finish too quick?

No and even if they did ignore them. Its only awkward if you tried to please them and failed, if you fucked them like ur using them as a cumbucket there is 0 awkwardness.

 

[shrek]

No and even if they did ignore them. Its only awkward if you tried to please them and failed, if you fucked them like ur using them as a cumbucket there is 0 awkwardness.

Ok. Yeah I’m naturally an aggressive person so I’ll just try to do that with her too. Also, when doing missionary is it like an in and out motion or more of a grinding motion? I don’t watch porn anymore cuz Ik it fries your dopamine receptors but back when I did it looked really fake so Idk if that’s how it’s really done

 

[Deleted member 4797]

Ok. Yeah I’m naturally an aggressive person so I’ll just try to do that with her too. Also, when doing missionary is it like an in and out motion or more of a grinding motion? I don’t watch porn anymore cuz Ik it fries your dopamine receptors but back when I did it looked really fake so Idk if that’s how it’s really done

Bro I cant guide you every step of the way lol, when I fuck I do what comes natural to me I've never given it much thought. Overthinking is not good especially for things like sex, go with the flow of what feels good to you.

 

[shrek]

Bro I cant guide you every step of the way lol, when I fuck I do what comes natural to me I've never given it much thought. Overthinking is not good especially for things like sex, go with the flow of what feels good to you.

Ok I understand. I’ll try to not overthink it. Thanks for the advice bro

 

[Deleted member 4797]

Ok I understand. I’ll try to not overthink it. Thanks for the advice bro

My pleasure bro, best of luck and quote me anytime if u have some new question

 

[Deleted member 110]

it only gets worse
If i were 20 again I would atleast try a few times

 

[Cain]

stop being retarded.

How can you be good looking and have no social skills? You brought this on yourself.

You are the one who needs to stop being retarded.

I am not aware of OP's situation, but there are many factors that can lead to poor social skills that are beyond your control, how is it your fault that your didn't develop social skills due to having helicopter parents or due to being ostracized as a result of looking bad in your formative years because your parents neglected your looks and conditioned you into not caring about them in the slightest?

 

[shrek]

You are the one who needs to stop being retarded.

I am not aware of OP's situation, but there are many factors that can lead to poor social skills that are beyond your control, how is it your fault that your didn't develop social skills due to having helicopter parents or due to being ostracized as a result of looking bad in your formative years because your parents neglected your looks and conditioned you into not caring about them in the slightest?

I grew up with a single mom from age 7 onward. Haven’t seen my dad in 10+ years. My dad would make fun of me if I fell off a bike or didn’t know how to walk as a baby. And when he left even tho I saw him a few times a year for a bit, I just felt like he never loved me and because of that I subconsciously had little self confidence.

In grade school I was ostracized cuz I was a little cunt since I was mad that my dad left me. Then from age 12/13 onward I got over it, but the lack of social skills and confidence was still there. It got a bit better and I made some friends in high school and I no longer acted like a cunt. But the last 2 years of uni have been shit and extremely socially isolated.

All I did was go to class, come home and lift. Plus my school closed in March 2020 so now it’s way worse

 

[Lihito]

Everyone I see is having so much fun, has had great experiences, got girls and girlfriends but I’m still a khhv at 20, never been to a party and never socialized.

I have one friend who I met who’s a htn slayer, and when he asked me a while back about how much pussy I get I told him I’m a kissless virgin. He legit freaked out and was like “OMFG there’s literally no way!” When I asked him wdym he said, “you look like you get girls all the time and you’re handsome.”

I’m just so fucking pissed and upset that I procrastinated and let things get to this point that I have no social circle and have fucking nothing. I have options on tinder so after these phaggots lift the lockdown I’ll go for that immediately.

I just still feel like “why would a hot girl want anything to do with me?” and “wtf do I even have to offer them?” even tho they call me hot on tinder.

Is there a cure for this?

Watch David goggins bro

 

[shrek]

Watch David goggins bro

Why? Does he talk about this stuff too? I thought he was more about fitness. Do you have a link to a video?

 

[LocalDanger]

There is no getting over it. You’re damaged and that’s that. End of story.

Yeah lol I tried so hard to looksmax ascneded after years of suffering until now at 22 only to realize it's too late I can't be fixed and that I should just give up on life. Well I guess it's the end of the road

 

[LocalDanger]

All I can say is, at 20 you see the end of the road. I’ve always said it’s over at 22. You know as well as I do you’re at your last days with any chance. My advice to be would be to throw away all inhibition in all ways. Get on some kind of drug that gets you off your ass. Do whatever kind of softmaxing it takes (get lean). Do thing you never thought made sense, because the time is coming where opportunity goes to NOTHING. 20 is one of your last remaining chances. Get your head out of your ass, stop being “rational” and start doing unreasonable things.


don’t end up like me, who will be 26 in June and no more experienced than you. Go do something. Don’t be afraid to ask women out. To me, 20 seems like ages ago and I wouldn’t fuck it up if I was 20 again.

as separate advice, I wouldn’t recommend slaying and would go for a gf-into-wife scenario. Remember , better incel than cuck.

It can't be worse I'm reading this now I suffered for so long only to ascned now at the end of 22 just lol

I guess there is no point in going further

 

[.👽.]

Everyone I see is having so much fun, has had great experiences, got girls and girlfriends but I’m still a khhv at 20, never been to a party and never socialized.

I have one friend who I met who’s a htn slayer, and when he asked me a while back about how much pussy I get I told him I’m a kissless virgin. He legit freaked out and was like “OMFG there’s literally no way!” When I asked him wdym he said, “you look like you get girls all the time and you’re handsome.”

I’m just so fucking pissed and upset that I procrastinated and let things get to this point that I have no social circle and have fucking nothing. I have options on tinder so after these phaggots lift the lockdown I’ll go for that immediately.

I just still feel like “why would a hot girl want anything to do with me?” and “wtf do I even have to offer them?” even tho they call me hot on tinder.

Is there a cure for this?

Bro i went to a party once and there were some 40yo dudes with gf and open relationships doing cocaine and shit.

You can party till you die tbh if you look good and have a fun personality (non autist, can have fun, isnt Stuck up in his ass etc)