how do i lose interest in my crush

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LipstickAlley

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pains me that she'll never like me back
 
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bro I love this avi, probably the best one I've had

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Brain smashing until you forget
 
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If you're really into her then I'm sorry but only time will help you :feelscry:
 
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pains me that she'll never like me back
You can’t get over her. You can just stop looking at pics of her. Stop writing with her. Stop meeting with her so you will eventually forget the feeling. The moment you see a pic of her or get a message it will reignite. Actually losing interest comes naturally over time. But you can’t force it.

Science said severe cases of oneitis can last up to 3 years
 
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You can’t get over her. You can just stop looking at pics of her. Stop writing with her. Stop meeting with her so you will eventually forget the feeling. The moment you see a pic of her or get a message it will reignite. Actually losing interest comes naturally over time. But you can’t force it.

Science said severe cases of oneitis can last up to 3 years
This one has lasted a bit long...I've found her attractive for like 3 years like you said, but never really bothered with her. Had other girls around me and tried things with them in the meantime, so it wasn't like I was wasting my time

maybe what I will do is just get with another girl and just wait it out until the first girl does anything, then just dump the one
 
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You can’t get over her. You can just stop looking at pics of her. Stop writing with her. Stop meeting with her so you will eventually forget the feeling. The moment you see a pic of her or get a message it will reignite. Actually losing interest comes naturally over time. But you can’t force it.

Science said severe cases of oneitis can last up to 3 years
Yeah, mine lasted 3 years. Tough shit :confused:
 
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Yeah, mine lasted 3 years. Tough shit :confused:
i feel like it'll never really go away tbh, I made a thread about this but I saw my old crush from like 5 years ago the other day and I still felt kinda nervous around her despite it being so fucking long ago...still hit me in the chest when I found out she got another boyfriend

I have no interest in really dating her but it feels weird and painful as shit, brutal man
 
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You’ll get over it
 
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i feel like it'll never really go away tbh, I made a thread about this but I saw my old crush from like 5 years ago the other day and I still felt kinda nervous around her despite it being so fucking long ago...still hit me in the chest when I found out she got another boyfriend

I have no interest in really dating her but it feels weird and painful as shit, brutal man
Yeah I think those feelings are normal tbh, but if it's been that long you should be able to ignore them relatively quick. I think you don't fully overcome them till you're satisfied with your sexual/romantic life. Otherwise it continues to feel as defeat.
 
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Yeah I think those feelings are normal tbh, but if it's been that long you should be able to ignore them relatively quick. I think you don't fully overcome them till you're satisfied with your sexual/romantic life. Otherwise it continues to feel as defeat.
yeah that last part is especially true, i guess all you need is to be at peace and all those feelings go away
 
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lol

i already went over this with you
 
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Yeah, mine lasted 3 years. Tough shit :confused:
The weird part is I enjoy the emotion of „loving“ someone I can’t have. If she would actually wanna be with me I would immediately lose interest the second I could have her jfl. I think it’s fun having to think about how to act right and don’t fck up. I guess it’s cuz I care don’t care for nobody else in this world and ngl that makes interactions pretty boring.
 
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Force her to be with you.
 
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im just mad because i mog my crush bf she should be with me instead
 
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