St. Kentish Gupta
Don't judge me if you're not where I'm from
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I hink some people are perfectly built for closeness, every time they try, every time they let someone in, it starts strong and stays that way. They're effortlessly themselves, and people are drawn to their calm confidence. They never seem to struggle with intimacy, and their relationships flourish. They're the ones who fit perfectly with others, like two pieces of a puzzle.
These people aren't intense or overwhelming; they're easy to be around, casual, and digestible. They have an effortless ability to connect with others, and people are naturally attracted to them. They're the ones who seem to belong to each other, laughing, touching, and texting back with ease.
I'm one of those people who finds it easy to form meaningful connections. I don't feel like I'm a defective thing or somehow broken. I'm not left wondering what it's like to be seen and understood. Instead, I'm often the one who does the seeing and understanding.
I've never had to deal with the ache of people leaving me or the loneliness that comes with it. My life isn't built around waiting for someone to fill a space inside me. I'm not plagued by the thought that I'm somehow unlovable or that I'll never find someone who accepts me for who I am.
For me, relationships aren't about trying to find someone who doesn't get tired of me; it's about nurturing connections that bring joy and growth to both parties. I don't struggle with the silence feeling like a wall; instead, I find comfort in the quiet moments with loved ones.
Perhaps some people are just naturally gifted at forming deep connections, and that's okay. For those who struggle, maybe it's about finding ways to build resilience and self-love. But for me, relationships feel like a natural part of life, and I've never had to question my worth or lovability.
These people aren't intense or overwhelming; they're easy to be around, casual, and digestible. They have an effortless ability to connect with others, and people are naturally attracted to them. They're the ones who seem to belong to each other, laughing, touching, and texting back with ease.
I'm one of those people who finds it easy to form meaningful connections. I don't feel like I'm a defective thing or somehow broken. I'm not left wondering what it's like to be seen and understood. Instead, I'm often the one who does the seeing and understanding.
I've never had to deal with the ache of people leaving me or the loneliness that comes with it. My life isn't built around waiting for someone to fill a space inside me. I'm not plagued by the thought that I'm somehow unlovable or that I'll never find someone who accepts me for who I am.
For me, relationships aren't about trying to find someone who doesn't get tired of me; it's about nurturing connections that bring joy and growth to both parties. I don't struggle with the silence feeling like a wall; instead, I find comfort in the quiet moments with loved ones.
Perhaps some people are just naturally gifted at forming deep connections, and that's okay. For those who struggle, maybe it's about finding ways to build resilience and self-love. But for me, relationships feel like a natural part of life, and I've never had to question my worth or lovability.
