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Im done what kinda therapy can I get to help my shitty social skills

I’m not ugly I’m just borderline fucking autistic

smh:FeelsStrongJAM:
 
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Force urself to talk to people

Even if its weird or cringe at first

I had the same issue, and still do but i just force myself to be social
 
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Im done what kinda therapy can I get to help my shitty social skills

I’m not ugly I’m just borderline fucking autistic

smh:FeelsStrongJAM:
idk wich one but there is books that can help for making friends easily and adapting urself to who u talk
 
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Force urself to talk to people

Even if its weird or cringe at first

I had the same issue, and still do but i just force myself to be social
I try that but whenever I try to talk to I talk to much

and when ever I’m quiet I don’t talk enough

I can’t get out of the cycle I need therapy
 
idk wich one but there is books that can help for making friends easily and adapting urself to who u talk
Do you know what it’s called
 
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just act indian bro
 
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Im done what kinda therapy can I get to help my shitty social skills

I’m not ugly I’m just borderline fucking autistic

smh:FeelsStrongJAM:
Exposure therapy, force yourself to talk to people.
 
Have a hard time with not over sharing too bhai. Look up small talk subjects and ask about certain shows. Of course warm up before so that you can get used to it
 
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Im done what kinda therapy can I get to help my shitty social skills

I’m not ugly I’m just borderline fucking autistic

smh:FeelsStrongJAM:
You just rope into the next life, hopefully we will alll be born nt next life
 
Practice makes perfect
 
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You just rope into the next life, hopefully we will alll be born nt next life
you don’t deserve a rep you grey moron
 
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do you know how I could find it
maybe if u write on google or ytb books about social relationship how to make friends easily ect type of search like that
 
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try your best to look approachable, make sure u don’t have a resting bitch face, engage in conversations but don’t stay hooked onto them for too long NTs absolutely hate this (learned this the hard way) the only way to get good at talking to people is practice, if it’s a girl u wanna talk to js go up and talk to her and make sure not to say anything creepy and talk to her normally as if she’s a little shy also (which she is), women love to talk about themselves so if you can get them to do that your golden. genuinely the worst that could happen if you act normal and larp NT is that she says no.
 
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maybe if u write on google or ytb books about social relationship how to make friends easily ect type of search like that
ye thaks
 
try your best to look approachable, make sure u don’t have a resting bitch face, engage in conversations but don’t stay hooked onto them for too long NTs absolutely hate this (learned this the hard way) the only way to get good at talking to people is practice, if it’s a girl u wanna talk to js go up and talk to her and make sure not to say anything creepy and talk to her normally as if she’s a little shy also (which she is), women love to talk about themselves so if you can get them to do that your golden. genuinely the worst that could happen if you act normal and larp NT is that she says no.
I already have a girl lol I socialize well with her well

but with other people other then family it feels impossible :FeelsDankMan:

are u saying don’t give too much attention to someone when talking to them?
 
I already have a girl lol I socialize well with her well

but with other people other then family it feels impossible :FeelsDankMan:

are u saying don’t give too much attention to someone when talking to them?
i was talking about with girls but something nds tend to is almost lock onto a conversation for too long, i wouldn’t think abt it as give much attention but be casual and try to just let the conversation flow
 
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You call yourself “borderline” autistic 😂 Your either autistic or your not stop larping nd
get off this forum u know nothing

Years of isolation/bullied led to me having lacking confidence and social skills

I start to look better and go to the gym and the bullying goes away but im still isolating myself from others

I already have adhd and im 90 percent sure Ive developed autism from basically not having any friends for all of elementary/start of hs

pls spread positivity and give good advice on this forum:BASEDCIGAR:
 
i was talking about with girls but something nds tend to is almost lock onto a conversation for too long, i wouldn’t think abt it as give much attention but be casual and try to just let the conversation flow
Ye ikwym sometimes you get obsessive over a subject

being casual is hard I usually do everything so suddenly and with like no flow to my words
 
get off this forum u know nothing

Years of isolation/bullied led to me having lacking confidence and social skills

I start to look better and go to the gym and the bullying goes away but im still isolating myself from others

I already have adhd and im 90 percent sure Ive developed autism from basically not having any friends for all of elementary/start of hs

pls spread positivity and give good advice on this forum:BASEDCIGAR:
Autism is not something you just develop, in your case it probably wouldn’t be too hard to get back social skills but in real cases of autism there is literally no hope
 
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Autism is not something you just develop, in your case it probably wouldn’t be too hard to get back social skills but in real cases of autism there is literally no hope
Ya I guess but it feels like autism
 
ya but like how

that’s the whole point of the thread:FeelsDankMan:
 

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