How do I statusmaxx and build a social circle when switching schools

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For context I’m an 8th grader who has been going to a private gifted school a few towns away since 1st grade and will be switching to public high school for freshman year. Feel like I don’t know what to do at all in high school or how to build relationships and make friends there at all.

I’m mostly NT or at least I like to think I am but genuinely have no passions or interests and can’t build anything off that. I play soccer but I’m not good enough to get a bunch of of friends off that and if I make any team it’ll probably be the freshman team. I plan on joining a shit ton of clubs so that might be the method but I don’t want to end up doing some weird hobby just to statpad for college without getting anything out of it.

I moved to my town during Covid so it’s not like I have a lot of childhood friends in the area or anything like that

I actually know a lot of incoming freshman from a summer camp kids in my town go to but I was weird and gay and unconfident when I met them all so I fd up my rep and now none of them take me seriously. That status got shared around the neighborhood and now I can’t even go to the downtown without randoms coming up to me and treating me like their autistic pet and I can’t do anything abt it.

It doesn’t help that I’m short and low dimo and I’ve been iqmaxxing since birf so my classes and appearance paint me as an absolute ND dork and I stg I don’t fall in with that crowd.

I at least have some connections I can try to fix at summer camp this year but I’m already in a bad spot so I don’t know what I can even do for that this feels like a genuine horror story and I’m lost on what to do next or how to fix this if anyone can help with literally anything abt this I need it
 
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13-14 years old on this forum✌️:lul: DNR the rest of this shitty paragraph
 
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13-14 years old on this forum✌️:lul: DNR the rest of this shitty paragraph
Mb for trying to pubertymaxx when it’s easiest to change things about myself
 
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Mb for trying to pubertymaxx when it’s easiest to change things about myself
how many buzzwords will you spam, just adding maxx to everything

who tf cares about statusmaxxing at high school nigga
 
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For context I’m an 8th grader who has been going to a private gifted school a few towns away since 1st grade and will be switching to public high school for freshman year. Feel like I don’t know what to do at all in high school or how to build relationships and make friends there at all.

I’m mostly NT or at least I like to think I am but genuinely have no passions or interests and can’t build anything off that. I play soccer but I’m not good enough to get a bunch of of friends off that and if I make any team it’ll probably be the freshman team. I plan on joining a shit ton of clubs so that might be the method but I don’t want to end up doing some weird hobby just to statpad for college without getting anything out of it.

I moved to my town during Covid so it’s not like I have a lot of childhood friends in the area or anything like that

I actually know a lot of incoming freshman from a summer camp kids in my town go to but I was weird and gay and unconfident when I met them all so I fd up my rep and now none of them take me seriously. That status got shared around the neighborhood and now I can’t even go to the downtown without randoms coming up to me and treating me like their autistic pet and I can’t do anything abt it.

It doesn’t help that I’m short and low dimo and I’ve been iqmaxxing since birf so my classes and appearance paint me as an absolute ND dork and I stg I don’t fall in with that crowd.

I at least have some connections I can try to fix at summer camp this year but I’m already in a bad spot so I don’t know what I can even do for that this feels like a genuine horror story and I’m lost on what to do next or how to fix this if anyone can help with literally anything abt this I need it
larpmax
 
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For context I’m an 8th grader who has been going to a private gifted school a few towns away since 1st grade and will be switching to public high school for freshman year. Feel like I don’t know what to do at all in high school or how to build relationships and make friends there at all.

I’m mostly NT or at least I like to think I am but genuinely have no passions or interests and can’t build anything off that. I play soccer but I’m not good enough to get a bunch of of friends off that and if I make any team it’ll probably be the freshman team. I plan on joining a shit ton of clubs so that might be the method but I don’t want to end up doing some weird hobby just to statpad for college without getting anything out of it.

I moved to my town during Covid so it’s not like I have a lot of childhood friends in the area or anything like that

I actually know a lot of incoming freshman from a summer camp kids in my town go to but I was weird and gay and unconfident when I met them all so I fd up my rep and now none of them take me seriously. That status got shared around the neighborhood and now I can’t even go to the downtown without randoms coming up to me and treating me like their autistic pet and I can’t do anything abt it.

It doesn’t help that I’m short and low dimo and I’ve been iqmaxxing since birf so my classes and appearance paint me as an absolute ND dork and I stg I don’t fall in with that crowd.

I at least have some connections I can try to fix at summer camp this year but I’m already in a bad spot so I don’t know what I can even do for that this feels like a genuine horror story and I’m lost on what to do next or how to fix this if anyone can help with literally anything abt this I need it
Theyre going to see you as a loser, you cant help it, its to late
 
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Counted 1-2 buzzwords every sentence

already over for you larplet
 
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Larp NT dont let the mask slip
 
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im gonna be in a similar situation soon too. Be grateful that you can start off with a neutral reputation (I think?), because its way easier to become more likeable. only join a few clubs you know you'll actually be participating in instead of being on your phone the whole time. Keep fixing whatever genuine connections you have, and find people who aren't those copy and paste popular people who have zero original traits. unlike what other people say it is significant to statusmaxx during highschool because a lot of things can impact your life for long term like finding friends and your overall esteem. about your appearance PLEASE get into fashion if you look like young Sheldon, express yourself in your own way but don't stand out too much where people think you're ND. don't listen to anyone else being rude but dont worry too much cuz as long as you work on yourself you'll find people who'll like you for yourself. I don't care if I get flamed on here but that's the truth theres literally dudes that are hella weird who still manage to find their people so things will probably work out.
 
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Thanks for actually helping and answering bro respect
 
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Bro this is retarded ur fucking 14 lol when u guys r 17-18 nb is gonna rmbr and when u do get ur social circle obv they gonna rmbr it but mostly no one cares as long u changed. NT ppl r very forgetful everybody got their own lives
 
if u aren't naturally making friends and have to try its already over also get off this fucking child:lul:
 
For context I’m an 8th grader who has been going to a private gifted school a few towns away since 1st grade and will be switching to public high school for freshman year. Feel like I don’t know what to do at all in high school or how to build relationships and make friends there at all.

I’m mostly NT or at least I like to think I am but genuinely have no passions or interests and can’t build anything off that. I play soccer but I’m not good enough to get a bunch of of friends off that and if I make any team it’ll probably be the freshman team. I plan on joining a shit ton of clubs so that might be the method but I don’t want to end up doing some weird hobby just to statpad for college without getting anything out of it.

I moved to my town during Covid so it’s not like I have a lot of childhood friends in the area or anything like that

I actually know a lot of incoming freshman from a summer camp kids in my town go to but I was weird and gay and unconfident when I met them all so I fd up my rep and now none of them take me seriously. That status got shared around the neighborhood and now I can’t even go to the downtown without randoms coming up to me and treating me like their autistic pet and I can’t do anything abt it.

It doesn’t help that I’m short and low dimo and I’ve been iqmaxxing since birf so my classes and appearance paint me as an absolute ND dork and I stg I don’t fall in with that crowd.

I at least have some connections I can try to fix at summer camp this year but I’m already in a bad spot so I don’t know what I can even do for that this feels like a genuine horror story and I’m lost on what to do next or how to fix this if anyone can help with literally anything abt this I need it
ur just a unfunny manlet if you talk like this irl
 
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It’s over for u, u def are ND just based on this post u made, hope u achieve 6’0 otherwise nobody will care abt u 😂😂😂
 

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