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truesandman
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For context I’m an 8th grader who has been going to a private gifted school a few towns away since 1st grade and will be switching to public high school for freshman year. Feel like I don’t know what to do at all in high school or how to build relationships and make friends there at all.
I’m mostly NT or at least I like to think I am but genuinely have no passions or interests and can’t build anything off that. I play soccer but I’m not good enough to get a bunch of of friends off that and if I make any team it’ll probably be the freshman team. I plan on joining a shit ton of clubs so that might be the method but I don’t want to end up doing some weird hobby just to statpad for college without getting anything out of it.
I moved to my town during Covid so it’s not like I have a lot of childhood friends in the area or anything like that
I actually know a lot of incoming freshman from a summer camp kids in my town go to but I was weird and gay and unconfident when I met them all so I fd up my rep and now none of them take me seriously. That status got shared around the neighborhood and now I can’t even go to the downtown without randoms coming up to me and treating me like their autistic pet and I can’t do anything abt it.
It doesn’t help that I’m short and low dimo and I’ve been iqmaxxing since birf so my classes and appearance paint me as an absolute ND dork and I stg I don’t fall in with that crowd.
I at least have some connections I can try to fix at summer camp this year but I’m already in a bad spot so I don’t know what I can even do for that this feels like a genuine horror story and I’m lost on what to do next or how to fix this if anyone can help with literally anything abt this I need it
I’m mostly NT or at least I like to think I am but genuinely have no passions or interests and can’t build anything off that. I play soccer but I’m not good enough to get a bunch of of friends off that and if I make any team it’ll probably be the freshman team. I plan on joining a shit ton of clubs so that might be the method but I don’t want to end up doing some weird hobby just to statpad for college without getting anything out of it.
I moved to my town during Covid so it’s not like I have a lot of childhood friends in the area or anything like that
I actually know a lot of incoming freshman from a summer camp kids in my town go to but I was weird and gay and unconfident when I met them all so I fd up my rep and now none of them take me seriously. That status got shared around the neighborhood and now I can’t even go to the downtown without randoms coming up to me and treating me like their autistic pet and I can’t do anything abt it.
It doesn’t help that I’m short and low dimo and I’ve been iqmaxxing since birf so my classes and appearance paint me as an absolute ND dork and I stg I don’t fall in with that crowd.
I at least have some connections I can try to fix at summer camp this year but I’m already in a bad spot so I don’t know what I can even do for that this feels like a genuine horror story and I’m lost on what to do next or how to fix this if anyone can help with literally anything abt this I need it
DNR the rest of this shitty paragraph
