How do I stop beeing ND?

[DownwardGrowthCel]

I just lost a girl I really cared about and it hurts way more than I expected. I’ve realized that my mind jumps straight to the worst case scenario every single time. I start thinking that I am not enough or not attractive enough or that she noticed something wrong with me the moment we met. I get trapped in overthinking. I read into silence. I convince myself that one off day from her means everything is falling apart. It scares me how fast I go from hope to disaster inside my own head.


I am trying to understand how you stop being this ND version of yourself. This neurotically destructive mindset where your mind pulls you toward self hate and dark thoughts. How do you train your brain to not assume rejection or abandonment every time something feels uncertain. I do not want to live like this anymore. I want to learn how to think like someone who believes he has value.

 

[Deleted member 165229]

You have to ascend and then get female validation to boost your confidence and then you won’t hate yourself as much

 

[SebBlackPill]

I just lost a girl I really cared about and it hurts way more than I expected. I’ve realized that my mind jumps straight to the worst case scenario every single time. I start thinking that I am not enough or not attractive enough or that she noticed something wrong with me the moment we met. I get trapped in overthinking. I read into silence. I convince myself that one off day from her means everything is falling apart. It scares me how fast I go from hope to disaster inside my own head.


I am trying to understand how you stop being this ND version of yourself. This neurotically destructive mindset where your mind pulls you toward self hate and dark thoughts. How do you train your brain to not assume rejection or abandonment every time something feels uncertain. I do not want to live like this anymore. I want to learn how to think like someone who believes he has value.

you dont be happy and greatful youre gifted.

 

[DownwardGrowthCel]

you dont be happy and greatful youre gifted.

What do you mean by this?

 

[Avagar Nexus]

You have to ascend and then get female validation to boost your confidence and then you won’t hate yourself as much

Sometimes even after ascension your brain is like that from what you’ve experienced before

 

[buddhistking]

You have to ascend and then get female validation to boost your confidence and then you won’t hate yourself as much

Cope, even if you ascend you'll still have abused dog mentality from ur lonely teen years and you'll fuck it up with girls that like you

 

[ihateevb]

I just lost a girl I really cared about and it hurts way more than I expected. I’ve realized that my mind jumps straight to the worst case scenario every single time. I start thinking that I am not enough or not attractive enough or that she noticed something wrong with me the moment we met. I get trapped in overthinking. I read into silence. I convince myself that one off day from her means everything is falling apart. It scares me how fast I go from hope to disaster inside my own head.


I am trying to understand how you stop being this ND version of yourself. This neurotically destructive mindset where your mind pulls you toward self hate and dark thoughts. How do you train your brain to not assume rejection or abandonment every time something feels uncertain. I do not want to live like this anymore. I want to learn how to think like someone who believes he has value.

You cant just not be nd anymore, ascend and larp so much you convince yourself

 

[DownwardGrowthCel]

You cant just not be nd anymore, ascend and larp so much you convince yourself

In what way can I larp myself in to confidence?

 

[ihateevb]

In what way can I larp myself in to confidence?

Bully ppl after ascending

 

[Sstark]

Bully ppl after ascending

Unironically works btw

If you can't fake confidence you could always just abuse drugs until you lose all inhibitions, downside is that you become retarded tho

 

[DownwardGrowthCel]

Unironically works btw

If you can't fake confidence you could always just abuse drugs until you lose all inhibitions, downside is that you become retarded tho

Yeah, this one is probably the best one so for. Definitely trying this

 

[Sstark]

Yeah, this one is probably the best one so for. Definitely trying this

Mark as solution so I can get my stats up and stop being a greynigger

 

[Monkeyslayer]

Theres a good botb thread for that

 

[ihateevb]

Yeah, this one is probably the best one so for. Definitely trying this