How do I stop being a boring, high inhib, socially inept loser?

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I feel like i'm losing my college friends, because i'm a boring sperg.And when that happens I might as well just rope because my chances of ascension will be zero.

I admit that there's nothing to me. I go to the gym, I study a computer science degree and I watch movies sometimes. But that's the case for most normies anyway. They have one hobby and then they just watch goyflix, play video games and browse tiktoks. When they talk it's mostly small talk, bringing up random shit and then chatting about it. But I can at best add a sentence to the conversation every 5 mins. I also have anxiety so I stutter like a bitch and mispronounce words unless i'm drunk.

I assume this is because of years of social isolation. Is it fixable or is it ogre? How can I become more interesting to normies?
 
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I feel like i'm losing my college friends, because i'm a boring sperg.And when that happens I might as well just rope because my chances of ascension will be zero.

I admit that there's nothing to me. I go to the gym, I study a computer science degree and I watch movies sometimes. But that's the case for most normies anyway. They have one hobby and then they just watch goyflix, play video games and browse tiktoks. When they talk it's mostly small talk, bringing up random shit and then chatting about it. But I can at best add a sentence to the conversation every 5 mins.

I assume this is because of years of social isolation. Is it fixable or is it ogre? How can I become more interesting to normies?
You can’t. Accept ur fate
 
get better looks
 
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get hobbies and intrests or just fake them
 
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get better looks
Looks are the only thing I have going for me. Random normies I meet often make gay comments towards me. If it wasn't for my face, i'd be slitting my wrists in a basement in Mumbai right now.
 
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Looks are the only thing I have going for me. Random normies I meet often make gay comments towards me. If it wasn't for my face, i'd be slitting my wrists in a basement in Mumbai right now.
bullshit if youre good looking focus of convo will be you girls will randomly talk to you etc you are just twink maxxed and attracting faggots then not truly gl
 
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get hobbies and intrests or just fake them
What would you recommend? I plan to eventually move on from lifting weights to calisthenics and boxing maybe, idk. I did some boxing when I was younger.
bullshit if youre good looking focus of convo will be you girls will randomly talk to you etc you are just twink maxxed and attracting faggots then not truly gl
I get approached by girls pretty often when I am out. My problem is that it's not a common occurrence and in my teenage years I would basically run away from foids because I was a gigasperg back then. Now i'm a regular sperg but without as many opportunities. I need a stable social life.
 
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What would you recommend? I plan to eventually move on from lifting weights to calisthenics and boxing maybe, idk. I did some boxing when I was younger.

I get approached by girls pretty often when I am out. My problem is that it's not a common occurrence and in my teenage years I would basically run away from foids because I was a gigasperg back then. Now i'm a regular sperg but without as many opportunities. I need a stable social life.
if youre approached then whats the prob just talk to them and ask them if they want to watch a movie w you
 
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if youre approached then whats the prob just talk to them and ask them if they want to watch a movie w you
I get approached at bars and clubs mostly, not just randomly on the street lol (happened a few times though). I need a social life. Without it, i'm fucked. And now i'm ruining my chances by being a stuttering niggerfaggot without anything to talk about.
 
Depends, Do you have future prospects?
 
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Like what? I'm in college. That's basically it.
Well are you a trucel? Do you have lots of money to ascend hard (surgeries are expensive af). Do you have a stable family (financially) background? Whats your baseline? Is it worth it for you to keep living or do you feel like you should just shoot yourself in the back of the head and hope for a successful hard reset?
 
Well are you a trucel? Do you have lots of money to ascend hard (surgeries are expensive af). Do you have a stable family (financially) background? Whats your baseline? Is it worth it for you to keep living or do you feel like you should just shoot yourself in the back of the head and hope for a successful hard reset?
Lol I don't need surgeries, i'm autistic enough as it is. I need to learn how to socialize like a normal human being from this planet. My family is shit and no they're not wealthy, but they're alright. I live with them and I don't really have any expenses. I got around 6k in my bank.
 
being a boring high inhib loser is a curse once you have it you're fucked it will take immense amounts of work just to become what you would call interesting or a dude people wanna party with or have around, you will get better at faking normal social interactions but my theory is those with those are always more or less fucked to some degree
 
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Stop mouthbreathing.
 
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can't, I have allergies
Jfl just take meds until you cure it naturally. Unironically all your life problems are caused by bad health ded srs.
 
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Jfl just take meds until you cure it naturally. Unironically all your life problems are caused by bad health ded srs.

Just be healthy theory

 
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Sit with yourself in your boredom every night

and i don't mean 'on social media' or a forum, or on youtube

i mean sit there with nothing

and don't depart from reality- don't go into a daydream or imagination

just sit in the pain of your boredom, every night

most men today have a pain within them that they are escaping

it's the pain of fear, of loss (of civilization). fear of being alone, fear of being nothing, fear of the doom that awaits

a lot of things serve as distractions to run away from this pain.

you really want to change yourself?

sit in that pain of boredom every night- if you can sit still long enough, you will feel the pain within

sit with it, don't escape it

if you do that enough days, enough nights, you will start to find a way forward, bit by bit
 
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Imitate the highest T chad you know irl
 
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I feel like i'm losing my college friends, because i'm a boring sperg.And when that happens I might as well just rope because my chances of ascension will be zero.

I admit that there's nothing to me. I go to the gym, I study a computer science degree and I watch movies sometimes. But that's the case for most normies anyway. They have one hobby and then they just watch goyflix, play video games and browse tiktoks. When they talk it's mostly small talk, bringing up random shit and then chatting about it. But I can at best add a sentence to the conversation every 5 mins. I also have anxiety so I stutter like a bitch and mispronounce words unless i'm drunk.

I assume this is because of years of social isolation. Is it fixable or is it ogre? How can I become more interesting to normies?
try out hobbies,join sportclubs and looksmaxxing🫶
 
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Sit with yourself in your boredom every night

and i don't mean 'on social media' or a forum, or on youtube

i mean sit there with nothing

and don't depart from reality- don't go into a daydream or imagination

just sit in the pain of your boredom, every night

most men today have a pain within them that they are escaping

it's the pain of fear, of loss (of civilization). fear of being alone, fear of being nothing, fear of the doom that awaits

a lot of things serve as distractions to run away from this pain.

you really want to change yourself?

sit in that pain of boredom every night- if you can sit still long enough, you will feel the pain within

sit with it, don't escape it

if you do that enough days, enough nights, you will start to find a way forward, bit by bit
That sounds interesting. I do daydream a lot and there's always different things rushing through my mind, probably to distract myself from how shit my life is.
I'll give it a go.

Imitate the highest T chad you know irl
If I could imitate even someone with down syndrome, i'd be in a better position than i'm in now.
 
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That sounds interesting. I do daydream a lot and there's always different things rushing through my mind, probably to distract myself from how shit my life is.
I'll give it a go.


If I could imitate even someone with down syndrome, i'd be in a better position than i'm in now.
If social life is too much, just work on changing your perception of society and drugmax or some shit.
 
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If social life is too much, just work on changing your perception of society and drugmax or some shit.
yeah, I want to do some mind-altering shit. I'm getting nowhere being myself. I need to roidmaxx, take LSD and whatever else. Don't care if i'm dead at 30
 
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microdose psilocybin and start running and reading books and getting ketamine infusions
 
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Alcohol
 
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can't be drunk all the time sadly.
that's why you need a large collection of different substances so you can cycle through them and be high all the time while never getting addicted to any one substance

here's what you need:

2CB or mushrooms, Ketamine or some other dissociative like 3-meo-pcp, GHB, cocaine, amphetamine, 6-APB, kratom
 
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