How do i stop liking a girl?

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There´s this girl i´ve known for quite a while it has been like an off kinda thing but never serious but the problem is sometimes she´s super sweet hugging me and allat and on the next day she´s a total bitch and ion know what to do becasue whenever she´s bad to me i tell myself i´ll stop talking to her but i also notice myself lighting up when i see a message from her yk? the weird thing is also like i would consider me the guy she does the most with tlaking snapping everyhting and everyone that knows us says there´s more but at the same time whenever we talk she tells me how good looking other guys are btu also how good looking i am how tf am i supposed to handle this
 
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Just make her ur fwb
 
Jarno said:
There´s this girl i´ve known for quite a while it has been like an off kinda thing but never serious but the problem is sometimes she´s super sweet hugging me and allat and on the next day she´s a total bitch and ion know what to do becasue whenever she´s bad to me i tell myself i´ll stop talking to her but i also notice myself lighting up when i see a message from her yk? the weird thing is also like i would consider me the guy she does the most with tlaking snapping everyhting and everyone that knows us says there´s more but at the same time whenever we talk she tells me how good looking other guys are btu also how good looking i am how tf am i supposed to handle this
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Drop her broski

Her talking about other guys being good looking should turn u completely off
 
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Jarno said:
There´s this girl i´ve known for quite a while it has been like an off kinda thing but never serious but the problem is sometimes she´s super sweet hugging me and allat and on the next day she´s a total bitch and ion know what to do becasue whenever she´s bad to me i tell myself i´ll stop talking to her but i also notice myself lighting up when i see a message from her yk? the weird thing is also like i would consider me the guy she does the most with tlaking snapping everyhting and everyone that knows us says there´s more but at the same time whenever we talk she tells me how good looking other guys are btu also how good looking i am how tf am i supposed to handle this
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the delusions always wear off with time. just dont drag out any kind of relationship with her.
 
Jarno said:
There´s this girl i´ve known for quite a while it has been like an off kinda thing but never serious but the problem is sometimes she´s super sweet hugging me and allat and on the next day she´s a total bitch and ion know what to do becasue whenever she´s bad to me i tell myself i´ll stop talking to her but i also notice myself lighting up when i see a message from her yk? the weird thing is also like i would consider me the guy she does the most with tlaking snapping everyhting and everyone that knows us says there´s more but at the same time whenever we talk she tells me how good looking other guys are btu also how good looking i am how tf am i supposed to handle this
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fuck her and leave
 
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Bl0odKn1ght said:
Drop her broski

Her talking about other guys being good looking should turn u completely off
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it does till she holds my hand again then my mind resets ykwim
 
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drop her she‘ll ruin you
 
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Jarno said:
how so
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its like a tease. it affirms your desires, and as you said your 'mind resets'
youre fond of the girl, you would want her, and seeing what could be may hurt in its absence, especially if she is taken by someone else
i wouldnt fall because of such an act
if its something she does to friends then it loses value and her as a mate loses value too
as always female attention can be manipulative, but once you realise it from her perspective you see through it
theres others in her life, its not possible to be her primary male and even if you were whats that worth
 
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its like a tease. it affirms your desires, and as you said your 'mind resets'
youre fond of the girl, you would want her, and seeing what could be may hurt in its absence, especially if she is taken by someone else
i wouldnt fall because of such an act
if its something she does to friends then it loses value and her as a mate loses value too
as always female attention can be manipulative, but once you realise it from her perspective you see through it
theres others in her life, its not possible to be her primary male and even if you were whats that worth
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she´s not with anyone else tho and there´s anotehr problem cuz there´s this upcoming dance and im going with her so till then i gotta be with her
yk
 
Jarno said:
she´s not with anyone else tho and there´s anotehr problem cuz there´s this upcoming dance and im going with her so till then i gotta be with her
yk
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Ur gonna be holding her hand aswell as the 10 other guy’s hands when u get there
 
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