How do i talk to people with brutal autism

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I cant talk to people genuinely whenever i try to have a conversation i cant focus enough to string together a sentence. ill be mid sentence and i start to slur my words and forget how to talk then suddently i just give up and usually just say "nevermind" whenever it happens people just look at me like a complete idiot its patronizing. moreover when i do manage to not completely sperg out i just go on and on about stupid bullshit stuttering and all. i will go on an endless rant about sonic or something and eventually someone just says "dude shut up" i dont understand. whenever i try to make jokes none of them make sense because i cant form a coherent thought at all. is there any way to fix this? i dont know how its not something that can be fixed by watching a tv show and stealing the personality of the character i just lack the fundamental knowledge on social decorum and talking. i also dont know what emotions to show whenever someone says a sad story i sometimes reply cheerful or something.

any advice?
 
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That's actually brutal :feelsbadman:
 
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I cant talk to people genuinely whenever i try to have a conversation i cant focus enough to string together a sentence. ill be mid sentence and i start to slur my words and forget how to talk then suddently i just give up and usually just say "nevermind" whenever it happens people just look at me like a complete idiot its patronizing. moreover when i do manage to not completely sperg out i just go on and on about stupid bullshit stuttering and all. i will go on an endless rant about sonic or something and eventually someone just says "dude shut up" i dont understand. whenever i try to make jokes none of them make sense because i cant form a coherent thought at all. is there any way to fix this? i dont know how its not something that can be fixed by watching a tv show and stealing the personality of the character i just lack the fundamental knowledge on social decorum and talking. i also dont know what emotions to show whenever someone says a sad story i sometimes reply cheerful or something.

any advice?
my stuttering is one of my biggest issues however.
 
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I cant talk to people genuinely whenever i try to have a conversation i cant focus enough to string together a sentence. ill be mid sentence and i start to slur my words and forget how to talk then suddently i just give up and usually just say "nevermind" whenever it happens people just look at me like a complete idiot its patronizing. moreover when i do manage to not completely sperg out i just go on and on about stupid bullshit stuttering and all. i will go on an endless rant about sonic or something and eventually someone just says "dude shut up" i dont understand. whenever i try to make jokes none of them make sense because i cant form a coherent thought at all. is there any way to fix this? i dont know how its not something that can be fixed by watching a tv show and stealing the personality of the character i just lack the fundamental knowledge on social decorum and talking. i also dont know what emotions to show whenever someone says a sad story i sometimes reply cheerful or something.

any advice?
take a lil adderal
 
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That's actually brutal :feelsbadman:
the best way of explaining it is imagine you're talking to someone and you forget or don't know how to continue a sentence but you don't know what to do so you just fail.
 
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i kinda feel like you ngl, ts happening to me a lot lately
 
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the best way of explaining it is imagine you're talking to someone and you forget or don't know how to continue a sentence but you don't know what to do so you just fail.
brutal autism pill must be brutal growing up with it .Were you your whole time an autist?
 
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brutal autism pill must be brutal growing up with it .Were you your whole time an autist?
Yeah lol needless to say i was never popular
 
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I cant talk to people genuinely whenever i try to have a conversation i cant focus enough to string together a sentence. ill be mid sentence and i start to slur my words and forget how to talk then suddently i just give up and usually just say "nevermind" whenever it happens people just look at me like a complete idiot its patronizing. moreover when i do manage to not completely sperg out i just go on and on about stupid bullshit stuttering and all. i will go on an endless rant about sonic or something and eventually someone just says "dude shut up" i dont understand. whenever i try to make jokes none of them make sense because i cant form a coherent thought at all. is there any way to fix this? i dont know how its not something that can be fixed by watching a tv show and stealing the personality of the character i just lack the fundamental knowledge on social decorum and talking. i also dont know what emotions to show whenever someone says a sad story i sometimes reply cheerful or something.

any advice?
If anyone knows any users that have as bad of autism as me tag them please this is a legitimate question that i want advice from.
 
If anyone knows any users that have as bad of autism as me tag them please this is a legitimate question that i want advice from.
I've talked to a lot of people with autism, even irl. I don't know why, but they always spoke to me in a more open, relaxed and chill manner. But when it came to interacting with NTs, everything was bad with them.

Last person with autism I talked with @Someguy XD
 
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I've talked to a lot of people with autism, even irl. I don't know why, but they always spoke to me in a more open, relaxed and chill manner. But when it came to interacting with NTs, everything was bad with them.

Last person with autism I talked with @Someguy XD
nt people are really mean tbh
 
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you prob got auadhd, I'd see a phycologist to see for sure but I can say from experience that getting medication for your mental problems (or whatever the recommended treatment is) mogs anything else you'll ever see on the internet especially org so if you know your ND but dont have anything official then thats step 1 before anything else
Im going to get meds for my adhd but i dont know if that'll work
if u can, get vyvanse it mogs addy if u have adhd - taking adderall makes you more anxious, less social, and increases anger tendencies

vyvanse on the other hand feels like the drug from limitless lol
 
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you prob got auadhd, I'd see a phycologist to see for sure but I can say from experience that getting medication for your mental problems (or whatever the recommended treatment is) mogs anything else you'll ever see on the internet especially org so if you know your ND but dont have anything official then thats step 1 before anything else

if u can, get vyvanse it mogs addy if u have adhd - taking adderall makes you more anxious, less social, and increases anger tendencies

vyvanse on the other hand feels like the drug from limitless lol
I am officially diagnosed with both adhd and autism and thank you i will.
 

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my stuttering is one of my biggest issues however.
same man this is why i try to numb my brain with psychedelics and caffeine but it makes me more high inhib. We can ascend facially but we can never change our brain structure :feelswhy:
 
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nt people are really mean tbh
wcyd. I have ocd and I'm a sociopath. Still could look like NT tho. Could this be the reason why I enjoy interacting with autistic people more with nts?:unsure:
 
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just fake being normal around them then come home and have a meltdown and take the rest of the day to mentally recover and prepare for the next
 
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I am officially diagnosed with both adhd and autism and thank you i will.
good shit bro good luck, I will say this too because I just started it recently aswell but if the initial dose most first prescribe (30 mgs) doesn't work or feels like shit try raising it before switching because I had to same problem till I tried 60 and felt like a 神様 lol
 
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I cant talk to people genuinely whenever i try to have a conversation i cant focus enough to string together a sentence. ill be mid sentence and i start to slur my words and forget how to talk then suddently i just give up and usually just say "nevermind" whenever it happens people just look at me like a complete idiot its patronizing. moreover when i do manage to not completely sperg out i just go on and on about stupid bullshit stuttering and all. i will go on an endless rant about sonic or something and eventually someone just says "dude shut up" i dont understand. whenever i try to make jokes none of them make sense because i cant form a coherent thought at all. is there any way to fix this? i dont know how its not something that can be fixed by watching a tv show and stealing the personality of the character i just lack the fundamental knowledge on social decorum and talking. i also dont know what emotions to show whenever someone says a sad story i sometimes reply cheerful or something.

any advice?
try to find nice friends or someone that doesn't gaf when u stutter you'll adapt
 
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nt people are really mean tbh
Theyre very judgemental and once they realize you're nd, they will shoot sly remarks your way and constantly undermine you
 
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Theyre very judgemental and once they realize you're nd, they will shoot sly remarks your way and constantly undermine you
I hate and love them at the same time. I would kill and spare them at the same time. Who am I?
 
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Im going to get meds for my adhd but i dont know if that'll work
Some adhd medicines works for others, some not

If the current adhd medicine you are taking is not effective, use a different one
 

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