How do people actually get the desire to meet girls?

[Deleted member 15674]

I am HEAVILY considering ghosting this girl, I don't want to meet her. I have 0 desire, I just think of my goals and my life. I feel like such a loser, I've still not achieved my goals, this girl won't help me achieve them, she's just there to suck my dick. Wtf do I even do bros? I think I have issues fr. This is my 4th time now I think where I've just ghosted girls

 

[Deleted member 15674]

@the BULL @Dr. Mog @Mogpogs @FrameMogger @Chinacurry @rand anon @enchanted_elixir

 

[Deleted member 18522]

Yeah girl begged me to come visit her in a ferry. Turn it down. Didn’t feel like it

Probably could have been a slay too

Girls don’t have nearly as much power irl as most here think

 

[Deleted member 15674]

htf do niggas like @DoctorLooksmax even get the desire to meet bitches? Do you not feel like a loser in life

 

[the BULL]

only if they're gl. i've flaked girls many times because i realized they were mid beckies who didn't turn me on. just walking with them in the city is a huge flex

 

[Deleted member 2381]

Live in a house share with other slayers and you will feel and immense rage when they bring girls back while you sit in your room twiddling your pecker

It's good motivation

 

[Moneymaxerr]

I am HEAVILY considering ghosting this girl, I don't want to meet her. I have 0 desire, I just think of my goals and my life. I feel like such a loser, I've still not achieved my goals, this girl won't help me achieve them, she's just there to suck my dick. Wtf do I even do bros? I think I have issues fr. This is my 4th time now I think where I've just ghosted girls

nigga the reason you keep making threads about not wanting to meet girls is because you're fucking 5'5 and the moment they see your real height they'll lose attraction

stfu u curry virgin

 

[Deleted member 15674]

Live in a house share with other slayers and you will feel and immense rage when they bring girls back

It's good motivation

I guess issue is, I'm with parents rn too. I feel like a total loser in life, like I'm not rich or anything. It's fucking brutal, I watched too much Andrew Tate and it has legit ruined my brain

 

[Deleted member 2381]

What are your goals btw?

 

[Deleted member 15674]

nigga the reason you keep making threads about not wanting to meet girls is because you're fucking 5'5 and the moment they see your real height they'll lose attraction

stfu u curry virgin

what are you on about? I fraud my height as 5'7, and fraud height irl to 5'7 w shoe lifts. Kys idiot

 

[Deleted member 15674]

What are your goals btw?

I am dead srs when I say these are my goals

1. Get ripped
2. Get to purple belt BJJ and judo blackbelt
3. Do my masters
4. Get into med school
5. Work in USA as some sort of doctor, earning a lot
6. Build wealth to the point where I can retire and don't really have to work
7. From there on, I have a base to work with and try running in politics
8. Go travelling around the world a lot too

I feel like a total loser cuz I've done none of that shit. I'm low value af man. I just want fucking money and power. I understand some of these goals aren't achievable and some of these goals will take a lifetime. But there's always someone above me, and it drives me nuts and makes me feel depressed thinking about it. Idc if guys outslay me, or look better than me. I do care on the other hand when guys work better jobs, live in bigger houses, live lower stress lives, have more status, etc.

 

[Mewstor95]

why cant i meet girls instead?

 

[Deleted member 15674]

why cant i meet girls instead?

Seriously not sure why, just live an NT life and take pictures I suppose?

 

[Deleted member 2381]

I am dead srs when I say these are my goals

1. Get ripped
2. Get to purple belt BJJ and judo blackbelt
3. Do my masters
4. Get into med school
5. Work in USA as some sort of doctor, earning a lot
6. Build wealth to the point where I can retire and don't really have to work
7. From there on, I have a base to work with and try running in politics
8. Go travelling around the world a lot too

I feel like a total loser cuz I've done none of that shit. I'm low value af man. I just want fucking money and power. I understand some of these goals aren't achievable and some of these goals will take a lifetime. But there's always someone above me, and it drives me nuts and makes me feel depressed thinking about it. Idc if guys outslay me, or look better than me. I do care on the other hand when guys work better jobs, live in bigger houses, live lower stress lives, have more status, etc.

Legit, all I want is money too. I feel like a total fucking loser everyday. Some days I can't cope anymore and LDAR on the couch for hours

I'm reading the new David Goggins book Never Finished: Unshackle Your Mind and Win the War Within, helps with your mindset when your're struggling

I think you'd like it

 

[khvirgin]

you said you wanted to get laid

 

[Mewstor95]

Seriously not sure why, just live an NT life and take pictures I suppose?

i did that, nothing

 

[the BULL]

why cant i meet girls instead?

not this cringe again

 

[Deleted member 15674]

Legit, all I want is money too. I feel like a total fucking loser everyday. Some days I can't cope anymore and LDAR on the couch for hours

I'm reading the new David Goggins book Never Finished: Unshackle Your Mind and Win the War Within, helps with your mindset when your're struggling

I think you'd like it

srs? I will have a look at it. Yeah man when I was at uni and was younger, I was like "yeah getting laid is a big deal" but now I just see how useless it is. Seriously, you could easily bust a nut jacking off or fuckign a hooker which will cure the physical part, then if you get hobbies and shit the whole friends/socialising part gets dealt with. Women have 0 fucking use, unless she is ACTIVELY helping you with your goals/big plans she has no use.

I can't cope anymore too, I just read online about guys who were BORN RICH and how they never really have to work and shit, it drives me fuckign nuts. I legit get MASSIVE cortisol spikes just thinking about how much they mog me. Money is the ultimate fucking pill, money is everything. The fact I am poor, have 0 real power, and cannot live the life I truly want kills me internally.

you said you wanted to get laid

Yeah I want to fuck, but then I realise the reality of interacting with girls. Dude once you nut inside a girl, nothing changes. You still work the same shit job, still need to wake up everyday at 7am, still need to listen to your boss, still need to grind for your rent, etc. It's so brutal

 

[Deleted member 15674]

i did that, nothing

Honestly dude, de-centre your life from sex. I think that's what helped me the most, I get a lot more female attention now also shoe lifts have helped immensely

 

[khvirgin]

srs? I will have a look at it. Yeah man when I was at uni and was younger, I was like "yeah getting laid is a big deal" but now I just see how useless it is. Seriously, you could easily bust a nut jacking off or fuckign a hooker which will cure the physical part, then if you get hobbies and shit the whole friends/socialising part gets dealt with. Women have 0 fucking use, unless she is ACTIVELY helping you with your goals/big plans she has no use.

I can't cope anymore too, I just read online about guys who were BORN RICH and how they never really have to work and shit, it drives me fuckign nuts. I legit get MASSIVE cortisol spikes just thinking about how much they mog me. Money is the ultimate fucking pill, money is everything. The fact I am poor, have 0 real power, and cannot live the life I truly want kills me internally.

Yeah I want to fuck, but then I realise the reality of interacting with girls. Dude once you nut inside a girl, nothing changes. You still work the same shit job, still need to wake up everyday at 7am, still need to listen to your boss, still need to grind for your rent, etc. It's so brutal

seems like you need a girlfriend buddy boyo.
It's fine, not everyone is built for "slaying"

 

[Deleted member 15674]

seems like you need a girlfriend buddy boyo.
It's fine, not everyone is built for "slaying"

Are you srs bro? It seems like I need to fucking get rich man

 

[khvirgin]

Are you srs bro? It seems like I need to fucking get rich man

I thought you were a teacher?
you're thinking of getting in med school?

 

[Deleted member 15674]

I thought you were a teacher?
you're thinking of getting in med school?

Yes I am a teacher, but it's not enough money and I think I can advance much further. I think it also stems from the fact I missed med school due to grades, and just want to prove to myself that I can get in

 

[khvirgin]

Yes I am a teacher, but it's not enough money and I think I can advance much further. I think it also stems from the fact I missed med school due to grades, and just want to prove to myself that I can get in

how old are you?

 

[Deleted member 15674]

how old are you?

early 20s

 

[khvirgin]

early 20s

but why do you think fucking some girls from time to time would make you stop following your dreams?
normies easily do both

 

[Mewstor95]

Honestly dude, de-centre your life from sex. I think that's what helped me the most, I get a lot more female attention now also shoe lifts have helped immensely

i did that too, still invible

 

[Deleted member 15674]

but why do you think fucking some girls from time to time would make you stop following your dreams?
normies easily do both

I mean because if we think about this shit in reality:-

1. Every week you are expected to spend time with them - which in itself is a pisstake
2. You are expected to somewhat tend to their emotional needs
3. If you end up attached it can make it harder to make decisions for yourself
4. Girls spike cortisol
5. You will be doing unhealthy shit with her, like lets be real. Drinking, eating shit, etc - all bad things

Apart from suckign your dick and keeping you warm, what positives do they really have?

 

[khvirgin]

I mean because if we think about this shit in reality:-

1. Every week you are expected to spend time with them - which in itself is a pisstake
2. You are expected to somewhat tend to their emotional needs
3. If you end up attached it can make it harder to make decisions for yourself
4. Girls spike cortisol
5. You will be doing unhealthy shit with her, like lets be real. Drinking, eating shit, etc - all bad things

Apart from suckign your dick and keeping you warm, what positives do they really have?

brutal even @FailedNormieManlet is going MGTOW

 

[khvirgin]

I mean because if we think about this shit in reality:-

1. Every week you are expected to spend time with them - which in itself is a pisstake
2. You are expected to somewhat tend to their emotional needs
3. If you end up attached it can make it harder to make decisions for yourself
4. Girls spike cortisol
5. You will be doing unhealthy shit with her, like lets be real. Drinking, eating shit, etc - all bad things

Apart from suckign your dick and keeping you warm, what positives do they really have?

Realistically even that one time when they suck your dick and make you nut in her is gonna keep you sane

then if you get attached to someone you're gonna have pro and cons, there are obvious benefits in a relationship unless you're blackpilled to the core (muh women are all useless bitches)

 

[Deleted member 15791]

Aren't you a teacher?

 

[Deleted member 15674]

Realistically even that one time when they suck your dick and make you nut in her is gonna keep you sane

then if you get attached to someone you're gonna have pro and cons, there are obvious benefits in a relationship unless you're blackpilled to the core (muh women are all useless bitches)

I think my experience with relationships and my brutal rejections has really fucked me over. I just want to get rich and live an easier life, i don't see how women will solve this

 

[Deleted member 15674]

Aren't you a teacher?

stop

 

[khvirgin]

I think my experience with relationships and my brutal rejections has really fucked me over. I just want to get rich and live an easier life, i don't see how women will solve this

define "easier" life
like not worrying about rent and bills?

 

[KingBetaTut]

post nut clarity is no joke

 

[khvirgin]

post nut clarity is no joke

OP is having pre nut clarity though

 

[Dr. Mog]

nigga the reason you keep making threads about not wanting to meet girls is because you're fucking 5'5 and the moment they see your real height they'll lose attraction

stfu u curry virgin

Calm down GrAYcel. He is open about his height and legit is giving signs of volcel traits. He slays.

Now OP, lemme tell you something what this forum would never tell you, DATING AND WOMEN ARE OVERRATED. On god.

It’s ok to feel that you don’t ‘need’ a woman, in fact it’s perfectly fine. It’s just that since we men here put dating, slays and women on a pedestal you feel like you don’t wanna indulge in them atm and believe me it’s fine. You don’t need that date.

Make your decision considering you wouldn’t regret this in the future and you are confident enough you’ll get dates in the future when you wanted to. Or else you are missing an opportunity here.

Good luck

 

[Deleted member 15674]

define "easier" life
like not worrying about rent and bills?

I suppose so. Being able to not work and really do what you want is the easiest life, they can quit their job cuz they don't need it. They have tonnes of options

Calm down GrAYcel. He is open about his height and legit is giving signs of volcel traits. He slays.

Now OP, lemme tell you something what this forum would never tell you, DATING AND WOMEN ARE OVERRATED. On god.

It’s ok to feel that you don’t ‘need’ a woman, in fact it’s perfectly fine. It’s just that since we men here put dating, slays and women on a pedestal you feel like you don’t wanna indulge in them atm and believe me it’s fine. You don’t need that date.

Make your decision considering you wouldn’t regret this in the future and you are confident enough you’ll get dates in the future when you wanted to. Or else you are missing an opportunity here.

Good luck

Thanks man, I do think dating and women are bit over-rated. When I first fucked a girl, I got hit with that realisation. That fucking women made 0 difference to my life lol

 

[khvirgin]

I suppose so. Being able to not work and really do what you want is the easiest life, they can quit their job cuz they don't need it. They have tonnes of options

Thanks man, I do think dating and women are bit over-rated. When I first fucked a girl, I got hit with that realisation. That fucking women made 0 difference to my life lol

most of these people had money before (parents) or they found jobs in the entertainment (athlets, actors, models, influencers)
people who wageslaves will become "rich" when they're in in their 50s, at the point really who cares
traveling the world in your 50s isn't the same as traveling in your 20s, and so is everything

 

[Deleted member 15674]

most of these people had money before (parents) or they found jobs in the entertainment (athlets, actors, models, influencers)
people who wageslaves will become "rich" when they're in in their 50s, at the point really who cares
traveling the world in your 50s isn't the same as traveling in your 20s, and so is everything

fuck man, that is brutal.. That is true though, I won't be fuckign rich. Man I want to just die, it feels like there's no winnign

 

[khvirgin]

fuck man, that is brutal.. That is true though, I won't be fuckign rich. Man I want to just die, it feels like there's no winnign

life experiences > money
the problem is that money that can buy you life experiences, but as long as you're not poor it's gonna be fine

getting rich is indeed harder than slaying, the whole "let me focus on my career and the gym until i'm 45" will leave you with lots of regrets


the averagepill is hard to swallow
Most people will have average lives

 

[Deleted member 15674]

life experiences > money
the problem is that money that can buy you life experiences, but as long as you're not poor it's gonna be fine

getting rich is indeed harder than slaying, the whole "let me focus on my career and the gym until i'm 45" will leave you with lots of regrets


the averagepill is hard to swallow
Most people will have average lives

That’s suifuel man. I just want to achieve something and stop being a loser.

 

[TheAbyssinian]

I feel the same pretty much blackpill just ruined women for me idk if you really want to fuck get a hooker and be done with it hooking up with a woman as sub chad is so much effort and time its not even worth it, its just stressful and time consuming...

 

[AngryShane]

That’s suifuel man. I just want to achieve something and stop being a loser

Why do you keep thinking your a loser?

 

[Deleted member 15674]

Why do you keep thinking your a loser?

I’m not the best

 

[SecularIslamist]

I am dead srs when I say these are my goals

1. Get ripped
2. Get to purple belt BJJ and judo blackbelt
3. Do my masters
4. Get into med school
5. Work in USA as some sort of doctor, earning a lot
6. Build wealth to the point where I can retire and don't really have to work
7. From there on, I have a base to work with and try running in politics
8. Go travelling around the world a lot too

I feel like a total loser cuz I've done none of that shit. I'm low value af man. I just want fucking money and power. I understand some of these goals aren't achievable and some of these goals will take a lifetime. But there's always someone above me, and it drives me nuts and makes me feel depressed thinking about it. Idc if guys outslay me, or look better than me. I do care on the other hand when guys work better jobs, live in bigger houses, live lower stress lives, have more status, etc.

That sounds like a bluepillers dream.

 

[Deleted member 12002]

I am HEAVILY considering ghosting this girl, I don't want to meet her. I have 0 desire, I just think of my goals and my life. I feel like such a loser, I've still not achieved my goals, this girl won't help me achieve them, she's just there to suck my dick. Wtf do I even do bros? I think I have issues fr. This is my 4th time now I think where I've just ghosted girls

You're like this because as of now you know she wants to "suck your d*ck", but you fear that once you meet her face to face she won't want to anymore. You probably know she wont want to anymore. It's more comfortable for you to just not meet her and know there were x amount of girls who possibly wanted to "suck your d*ck".

 

[AngryShane]

I’m not the best

The best at what exactly?

 

[rand anon]

Idk, I hve no desire to larp as an NTfag for some foid

 

[FrameMogger]

I mean because if we think about this shit in reality:-

1. Every week you are expected to spend time with them - which in itself is a pisstake
2. You are expected to somewhat tend to their emotional needs
3. If you end up attached it can make it harder to make decisions for yourself
4. Girls spike cortisol
5. You will be doing unhealthy shit with her, like lets be real. Drinking, eating shit, etc - all bad things

Apart from suckign your dick and keeping you warm, what positives do they really have?

You def right. Girls spike cortisol when they act off and don’t fuck when you ask.

They also decrease your drive. Since sex is such a biological need, having it frequently with a gf fucks your motivation. You feel like you achieved something (when you didn’t achieve shit in reality) so you lose the drive to do useful work.