How do people get into a LTR without having (casual) sex first?

[MoggerGaston]

Makes no sense to me. You fuck within the first 3 dates, usually dependant on logistics and type of date.

If you don't fuck within 3 dates, that usually indicates lack of attractiveness and you're not going anywhere.

Is there people that date in a different way than this? Never heard of tbh.

 

[Deleted member 13787]

i feel like most young couples dont rly go on dates, they just hang out often and after some time decide to have sex, especially true for 20 y/o and under

 

[DoctorLooksmax]

Most relationships start as casual sex- the differnce is maybe social circle at high school or uni where guys may invest months or even yewrs jestermaxxing before finally getting the girl

 

[MoggerGaston]

i feel like most young couples dont rly go on dates, they just hang out often and after some time decide to have sex, especially true for 20 y/o and under

I've seen this in high school yeah. But in uni/college I don't think it goes that slow anymore.

 

[MoggerGaston]

Most relationships start as casual sex- the differnce is maybe social circle at high school or uni where guys may invest months or even yewrs jestermaxxing before finally getting the girl

Even worse when the girl is hooking up with guys while you are slow-jestermaxxing her for months trying to LTR her. I've seen guys like this. Brutal.

 

[Johnnybegood]

Most relationships start as casual sex- the differnce is maybe social circle at high school or uni where guys may invest months or even yewrs jestermaxxing before finally getting the girl

Years?

It's funny how people always mention these examples of normies jestermaxxing for years just to get a girlfriend but i don't know of any such case.

Seems more of a blackpill lore than actual reality in my experience.

Months? Yeah absolutely but i think even normies have a limit to their madness tbh.

 

[Bobelbrah]

I’ve only been I LTR’s, never had a single hookup jfl. You start hanging out, you vibe and flirt, you hook up and then you’re you’re kinda set.

 

[MoggerGaston]

You start hanging out

How? Never had this happen before, never seen this.

 

[Bobelbrah]

How? Never had this happen before, never seen this.

You meet via friends, school or at an event etc and start talking. Is this really uncommon?

 

[MoggerGaston]

You meet via friends, school or at an event etc and start talking. Is this really uncommon?

I've mostly had male friendcircles both IRL and at school. Women generally don't socialize with you unless you are attractive/popular.
I often start conversations at events, but they never lead to hanging out at a different time.

 

[Lonely]

Well I'll only have sex after marriage so yeah

 

[Deleted member 17448]

Meanwhile I meet young girls wanting to be creampied by me in the first date. If you are not getting this you are doing it wrong.

 

[PrinceLuenLeoncur]

Most relationships start as casual sex- the differnce is maybe social circle at high school or uni where guys may invest months or even yewrs jestermaxxing before finally getting the girl

If a guy at uni does this he need to be hanged. Never simp for a slut in uni never do it just don’t, girls in uni enjoy throwing around the box if they won’t give you the box or at least a kiss then it’s over.

Admittedly all I can seem to get is a kiss from foids but never sex but I try… I try my dick just wants to be touched by a gl girl

 

[DoctorLooksmax]

If a guy at uni does this he need to be hanged. Never simp for a slut in uni never do it just don’t, girls in uni enjoy throwing around the box if they won’t give you the box or at least a kiss then it’s over.

Admittedly all I can seem to get is a kiss from foids but never sex but I try… I try my dick just wants to be touched by a gl girl

Just use tinder and don’t have too high standards tbh

 

[PrinceLuenLeoncur]

Just use tinder and don’t have too high standards tbh

I have high standards so dating apps don’t work for me cos girls on there are either low class or ugly/fat. No point. And yeah the hot girls I match with ghost after a while no point cos they found chad and Tyrone

Nightclubs/carnivals is the only place to get sex imo. Once I get money ima slay escorts I don’t need a gf if I have money

 

[DoctorLooksmax]

I have high standards so dating apps don’t work for me cos girls on there are either low class or ugly/fat. No point. And yeah the hot girls I match with ghost after a while no point cos they found chad and Tyrone

Nightclubs/carnivals is the only place to get sex imo. Once I get money ima slay escorts I don’t need a gf if I have money

For me ? The grls 100% have to be slim and white that’s not negotiable- but I fuck girls with overbites and stuff all the time lol doesn’t put me off much.

Have gotten a few legit pretty girls off OLD but mostly MTB

 

[Deleted member 19036]

i feel like most young couples dont rly go on dates, they just hang out often and after some time decide to have sex, especially true for 20 y/o and under

over

 

[Deleted member 12002]

Makes no sense to me. You fuck within the first 3 dates, usually dependant on logistics and type of date.

If you don't fuck within 3 dates, that usually indicates lack of attractiveness and you're not going anywhere.

Is there people that date in a different way than this? Never heard of tbh.

Yeah, deny her. Let her try to get you to have sex with her early on while you're making out with her, but tell her no at the last second for whatever reason and make her wait.

Of course it won't work on every girl. If you're messing with a sl*t that's just looking to get d*cked down then of course she's gonna go mess with somebody else.

 

[Gonthar]

Years?

It's funny how people always mention these examples of normies jestermaxxing for years just to get a girlfriend but i don't know of any such case.

I am such a case - I orbited a girl for two years in college, until she became my gf, we had lots of things in common, spent a lot of time together at courses, then hanged in the same social circles after classes, etc. after college was over she eventually dumped me and it was pretty much over for me.
I approached hundreds of girls, went on date with dozens of them, but with very little success, there was simply no way for me to succeed without the unique opportunity that a school or college offers, when you see the same girls every day and have the chance to orbit them and talk to them, until your personality shines and your looks become less important through the mere-exposure effect.

 

[PrinceLuenLeoncur]

For me ? The grls 100% have to be slim and white that’s not negotiable- but I fuck girls with overbites and stuff all the time lol doesn’t put me off much.

Have gotten a few legit pretty girls off OLD but mostly MTB

Yeah I don’t care about race and tbh find that shir wierd like who TF cares about her race when most guys are slaying fatties and subhumans at that point race is the least of you’re problems.

They jsut have to not be fat, cute at least 6/10+ and low class acting that’s all I want

 

[Johnnybegood]

I am such a case - I orbited a girl for two years in college, until she became my gf, we had lots of things in common, spent a lot of time together at courses, then hanged in the same social circles after classes, etc. after college was over she eventually dumped me and it was pretty much over for me.
I approached hundreds of girls, went on date with dozens of them, but with very little success, there was simply no way for me to succeed without the unique opportunity that a school or college offers, when you see the same girls every day and have the chance to orbit them and talk to them, until your personality shines and your looks become less important through the mere-exposure effect.

Sad story bro...for real.

What would you rate yourself? MTN?

 

[Johnnybegood]

For me ? The grls 100% have to be slim and white that’s not negotiable- but I fuck girls with overbites and stuff all the time lol doesn’t put me off much.

Have gotten a few legit pretty girls off OLD but mostly MTB

Yeah i only ask in return what i already genetically have:

At least average face; slim fertile body; and preferably college educated but honestly even this doesn't matter as much as a girl having a "motherly" personality which is far more important tbh.

Basically i'm asking for my looksmatch...if a girl is slightly above then that would be even more amazing, but i don't think my standards are irrationally high

 

[aBetterMii]

Some even have no sex when they do get into a relation O_o

 

[Deleted member 7580]

Most relationships start as casual sex- the differnce is maybe social circle at high school or uni where guys may invest months or even yewrs jestermaxxing before finally getting the girl

You realize girls hook up with guys in social circles too ? So yea those relationships start as casual sex too

 

[Gonthar]

Sad story bro...for real.

What would you rate yourself? MTN?

More like LTN, I'm 5'5 and have a neotenous face, I look more like a teen than a grown man...

 

[MoggerGaston]

Some even have no sex when they do get into a relation O_o

lots of women have almost no libido tbh.

My last fwb didnt want sex more than 1-2 times per week. It's cagefuel that the average man needs 3-4 girlfriends to satisfy his sexual needs.

 

[aBetterMii]

lots of women have almost no libido tbh.

My last fwb didnt want sex more than 1-2 times per week. It's cagefuel that the average man needs 3-4 girlfriends to satisfy his sexual needs.

Brag post

 

[aBetterMii]

lots of women have almost no libido tbh.

My last fwb didnt want sex more than 1-2 times per week. It's cagefuel that the average man needs 3-4 girlfriends to satisfy his sexual needs.

Fakecel larper, im only realcel on this site

 

[MoggerGaston]

Fakecel larper, im only realcel on this site

I am truecel. I've only had sex 2 times this entire year. JFL at calling that fakecel.

 

[aBetterMii]

I am truecel. I've only had sex 2 times this entire year. JFL at calling that fakecel.

Cope

 

[Foreverbrad]

It won't be that way if the foid has any self respect. Remember, it's their responsibility to stay chaste and be good judges of character, not yours. A foid showing genuine interest in your personality and a genuine happiness to be around you is worth a thousand "I wanna sit on your dick" in the second message types. As long as she's warm and receptive you don't really need to worry if she wants to fuck or not.

Only applies to virgins obviously.

 

[justgetacutbro]

Makes no sense to me. You fuck within the first 3 dates, usually dependant on logistics and type of date.

If you don't fuck within 3 dates, that usually indicates lack of attractiveness and you're not going anywhere.

Is there people that date in a different way than this? Never heard of tbh.

Lol it’s because the normie is jester maxxing and down bad. They know not to try this with an SMV 7 or 8 lolll they’ll get kicked to the curb if they do

 

[szolliontaraelis]

Even worse when the girl is hooking up with guys while you are slow-jestermaxxing her for months trying to LTR her. I've seen guys like this. Brutal.

I cucked a guy like this. Felt sad for him tbh

 

[LightSkinNoob]

If you try fuck a young girl too early she’ll never get in a relationship w/ you, if you want an LTR hold off until date 3-5 and act bluepilled so she thinks your not a player, if you just want a lay try go for it early if you don’t mind her ghosting.