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Can someone give me an unironic answer?
How the fuck do normies actually have sex? How and where?

I'm good looking enough for girls to somewhat frequently cold approach me and tell me that i'm good looking, mostly bars and clubs, but I got a few street approaches too.
I've also been asked out by 2 girls i've never spoken to before. As in they found me on my blank social media profile after seeing me IRL, probably asked someone for my name.
Got catcalled a few times too.

And after all that, i'm a 21 year old man in my second year of college who only hugged and made out with one girl.
It's driving me insane.

I don't even really want a gf. I just want sex. How do you fuck girls from a bar or club? Do you fuck them that same night or do you exchange contact details and then meet up for a date?
Someone help me.
 
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Talk to as many girls as possible at bars and dating apps and during the day. Move the interaction forward towards a number then a date and then bang them.
 
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Idk bro
 
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Idk, I’m a subhuman incel
 
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1. Find bed
2. Lay in it

Congrats, you just got laid. :feelshah:
 
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Talk to as many girls as possible at bars and dating apps and during the day. Move the interaction forward towards a number then a date and then bang them.
Usually talking to them is how they lose interest. They know straight away i'm a subhuman beta incel from the vibes I give off.
 
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Ask them to spend some time with you on a night out and eventually ask them back to your place to watch a movie or some shit and escalate from there
 
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Usually talking to them is how they lose interest. They know straight away i'm a subhuman beta incel from the vibes I give off.
Then improve your looks. Get down to 8-10% bf with muscle, dress well, shoe lifts, etc and keep talking to girls until your confidence improves. You can also use phenibut for confidence
 
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Ask them to spend some time with you on a night out and eventually ask them back to your place to watch a movie or some shit and escalate from there
Gotta be aggressive ask every girl out that you talk to and try to bang them. If they don’t want to bang move onto next one. They have zero value unless they fuck you
 
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Then improve your looks. Get down to 8-10% bf with muscle, dress well, shoe lifts, etc and keep talking to girls until your confidence improves. You can also use phenibut for confidence
I mean I already get approached pretty frequently by girls who start the convo with complimenting how I look. I don't think improving my looks would do much.
 
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Can someone give me an unironic answer?
How the fuck do normies actually have sex? How and where?
Escort services.

200 per hour for a good looking woman, and up to additional 100 for cool services like anal/deep kissing/owo/etc.
 
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I mean I already get approached pretty frequently by girls who start the convo with complimenting how I look. I don't think improving my looks would do much.
Then use my phenibut advice dumbass. Can already tell your a retard by this convo
 
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Escort services.

200 per hour for a good looking woman, and up to additional 100 for cool services like anal/deep kissing/owo/etc.
A date costs $20
 
Escort services.

200 per hour for a good looking woman, and up to additional 100 for cool services like anal/deep kissing/owo/etc.
I already did that. Was fun at first, but now it feels like shit. Paying for whores in your early 20s is depressing, knowing that 14 year old kids are plowing their girlfriends for free.
 
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Then use my phenibut advice dumbass. Can already tell your a retard by this convo
I did, used alcohol, weed etc too. Makes me lower inhib but not enough for me to get anywhere with them. I'm still a boring, awkward sperg.
 
I already did that. Was fun at first, but now it feels like shit. Paying for whores in your early 20s is depressing, knowing that 14 year old kids are plowing their girlfriends for free.
Girlfriend is cope anyone can get one girl
 
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I did, used alcohol, weed etc too. Makes me lower inhib but not enough for me to get anywhere with them. I'm still a boring, awkward sperg.
Exposure therapy. Keep practicing your social skills
 
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Girlfriend is cope anyone can get one girl
I remember being 14 and niggas my age already made out with dozens of girls and fingered some. Then they got gfs they fucked at around 16.
I'm 21 and haven't managed to do that.
 
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>don't take your schizo pills
>imagine having sex with a stacy

I do this every night
 
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Maybe you are not that good looking
 
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I remember being 14 and niggas my age already made out with dozens of girls and fingered some. Then they got gfs they fucked at around 16.
I'm 21 and haven't managed to do that.
All those guys are below 20 lay count today
 
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Maybe you are not that good looking
Not according to decent looking women who approach me. Even people that are otherwise assholes to me always make gay comments about me looking good. Then straight after they make fun of me for being weird, awkward, poor etc.
And I see all kinds of subhumans getting laid, so looks aren't a problem. It's something else.

All those guys are below 20 lay count today
I mean, sure, but that's the reality for a lot of guys. Most men fuck a few bitches and then get into LTRs.
If he gets cold approached he is def at least mtn.
Got rated Chadlite - Chad on Lookism years ago by a few trusted users. Don't post pics anymore though.
 
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Got rated Chadlite - Chad on Lookism years ago by a few trusted users. Don't post pics anymore though.
Download tinder, use Nikos tinder guide, and then meet girls for hookups.
 
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Not according to decent looking women who approach me. Even people that are otherwise assholes to me always make gay comments about me looking good. Then straight after they make fun of me for being weird, awkward, poor etc.
And I see all kinds of subhumans getting laid, so looks aren't a problem. It's something else.


I mean, sure, but that's the reality for a lot of guys. Most men fuck a few bitches and then get into LTRs.

Got rated Chadlite - Chad on Lookism years ago by a few trusted users. Don't post pics anymore though.
I am not impressed by any man that is under a 30 laycount no matter how hot his girlfriend is
 
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Download tinder, use Nikos tinder guide, and then meet girls for hookups.
I tried it and did decently, but i'm someone that would never even have a facebook profile picture. It made me feel super uncomfortable to the point I would get panic attacks lol. And most girls on it that I saw were trash (even on my chadfish profile) or bitches that thought they were celebrities with photos on yachts that would never match with a fag like me who posts incel selfies. I want to meet women IRL.
 
A date costs $20
A date where she uses you as a meal ticket, and a jester in most cases.

But it is only after weeks of looking for a willing LTB. Lol.

Hookers > Tinder.

Though ofc if you are Chad, than yeah. Normal girls are cheaper, no doubt. :feelsokman:
 
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Can someone give me an unironic answer?
How the fuck do normies actually have sex? How and where?

I'm good looking enough for girls to somewhat frequently cold approach me and tell me that i'm good looking, mostly bars and clubs, but I got a few street approaches too.
I've also been asked out by 2 girls i've never spoken to before. As in they found me on my blank social media profile after seeing me IRL, probably asked someone for my name.
Got catcalled a few times too.

And after all that, i'm a 21 year old man in my second year of college who only hugged and made out with one girl.
It's driving me insane.

I don't even really want a gf. I just want sex. How do you fuck girls from a bar or club? Do you fuck them that same night or do you exchange contact details and then meet up for a date?
Someone help me.
Height?

If you're getting cold approached you may not have a manly look about you, but some girls are confident so that could not be the case.

IRL it is pretty difficult to just randomly get laid unless top tier Chad imo. Easier through friend groups or friends of friends and it will be easy. For top tier women it's almost always friends of friends. Like one girl could say you're decently heat even if you're not and you have 10 chances to get laid if 10 girls heard. You sound like you could be top-tier and if that's the case just be patient and realize it's hard for everyone, except Chad.

You're also getting into second year uni where you should be putting on a bit of muscle to get laid. If you're not working out you're not helping yourself.
 
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Height?

If you're getting cold approached you may not have a manly look about you, but some girls are confident so that could not be the case.

IRL it is pretty difficult to just randomly get laid unless top tier Chad imo. Easier through friend groups or friends of friends and it will be easy. For top tier women it's almost always friends of friends. Like one girl could say you're decently heat even if you're not and you have 10 chances to get laid if 10 girls heard. You sound like you could be top-tier and if that's the case just be patient and realize it's hard for everyone, except Chad.

You're also getting into second year uni where you should be putting on a bit of muscle to get laid. If you're not working out you're not helping yourself.
What do you mean randomly? I'm hoping to get laid from going out and meeting girls at parties and stuff. I have very few friends and I rarely see their female friends and they're mostly femcel-tier. At least the ones they bring out. A few of them fucked good looking girls though so it's not like they're low-tier normies or anything. idk.
 
I already did that. Was fun at first, but now it feels like shit. Paying for whores in your early 20s is depressing, knowing that 14 year old kids are plowing their girlfriends for free.
Nothing weird with paying for sed when you are sub8, my first escort was at 15 with some friends.
 
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A date where she uses you as a meal ticket, and a jester in most cases.

But it is only after weeks of looking for a willing LTB. Lol.

Hookers > Tinder.

Though ofc if you are Chad, than yeah. Normal girls are cheaper, no doubt. :feelsokman:
Just get STD bro
 
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Height?

If you're getting cold approached you may not have a manly look about you, but some girls are confident so that could not be the case.

IRL it is pretty difficult to just randomly get laid unless top tier Chad imo. Easier through friend groups or friends of friends and it will be easy. For top tier women it's almost always friends of friends. Like one girl could say you're decently heat even if you're not and you have 10 chances to get laid if 10 girls heard. You sound like you could be top-tier and if that's the case just be patient and realize it's hard for everyone, except Chad.

You're also getting into second year uni where you should be putting on a bit of muscle to get laid. If you're not working out you're not helping yourself.
I'm 6ft and yeah i'm working out. Never posted my body online and would probably get made fun of, but I did start getting compliments from people IRL. Not that it takes much to impress normies. But I do think I look decent by normie standards.
Nothing weird with paying for sed when you are sub8, my first escort was at 15 with some friends.
Don't kid yourself with the sub 8 meme. Subhumans are getting laid. By the early 20s, only mega autistic manlet Indians haven't gotten laid yet in the west and they probably did get a few kisses even then.
 
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Nothing weird with paying for sed when you are sub8, my first escort was at 15 with some friends.
escortcelling is for fat fucks in their 40s who're cheating on their ugly wives. And I respect that but if you're doing it regularly in your youth then that's just sad.
 
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I'm 6ft and yeah i'm working out. Never posted my body online and would probably get made fun of, but I did start getting compliments from people IRL. Not that it takes much to impress normies. But I do think I look decent by normie standards.

Don't kid yourself with the sub 8 meme. Subhumans are getting laid. By the early 20s, only mega autistic manlet Indians haven't gotten laid yet in the west and they probably did get a few kisses even then.
Cope, many normies i know pay for escorts, sub chads only get star fish sex with no passion and then get cucked jfl
 
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Cope, many normies i know pay for escorts, sub chads only get star fish sex with no passion and then get cucked jfl
that's exactly what incels tell themselves to feel better about their subanimal selves. I see normies IRL receiving the same treatment from their gfs that people here say Chads get. Forums like this will always make things seem worse than they actually are, because a large percentage of them is permarotter teenagers. I'm going to go with what I personally have seen over and over again in the real world.
 
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that's exactly what incels tell themselves to feel better about their subanimal selves. I see normies IRL receiving the same treatment from their gfs that people here say Chads get. Forums like this will always make things seem worse than they actually are, because a large percentage of them is permarotter teenagers. I'm going to go with what I personally have seen over and over again in the real world.
If that makes you feel good….
 
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If that makes you feel good….
No, seeing skinnyfat boneless normies who drink beer and eat pizza every weekend with their cute LTB-HTB gfs doesn't make me feel good.
 
Just get STD bro
I actually got a few tests already. All negative. Expensive Hookers are totally safe.

I was more worried about STDs when i was fucking my FWB raw (she wanted, i always use condoms)... THAT is dangerous.

While escorts are VERY clean because always condom. And, OWO does not transmit anything. :feelsokman:
 
I actually got a few tests already. All negative. Expensive Hookers are totally safe.

I was more worried about STDs when i was fucking my FWB raw (she wanted, i always use condoms)... THAT is dangerous.

While escorts are VERY clean because always condom. And, OWO does not transmit anything. :feelsokman:
true, STDs are another incel cope. They're not really a big deal anymore.
 
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I actually got a few tests already. All negative. Expensive Hookers are totally safe.

I was more worried about STDs when i was fucking my FWB raw (she wanted, i always use condoms)... THAT is dangerous.

While escorts are VERY clean because always condom. And, OWO does not transmit anything. :feelsokman:
Oh I thought you referred to hookers as the filthy bitches on the street, im escort only
 
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true, STDs are another incel cope. They're not really a big deal anymore.
Sry man... im in another camp...

Actually, the point is, they are NOT transmitted BECAUSE WE USE CONDOMS...

I fucking hate people who don't because they transmit their shit around, and then if i need to fuck a girl raw (say, she wants it), i risk my health. While it could potentially be super safe if everyone used condoms all the time :feelsrope:
 
that's exactly what incels tell themselves to feel better about their subanimal selves. I see normies IRL receiving the same treatment from their gfs that people here say Chads get. Forums like this will always make things seem worse than they actually are, because a large percentage of them is permarotter teenagers. I'm going to go with what I personally have seen over and over again in the real world.
True

"What do you mean randomly? I'm hoping to get laid from going out and meeting girls at parties and stuff. I have very few friends and I rarely see their female friends and they're mostly femcel-tier. At least the ones they bring out. A few of them fucked good looking girls though so it's not like they're low-tier normies or anything. idk."

Randomly I meant as in not through a friend of a friend. You need really good vibes at a bar, if you're above a 6 the rest is good vibes and don't be a manlet, but even a manlet can get laid with good vibes. If you're completely incel just use Tinder. But make sure to be selective if you're a true incel and you're in a small area because bad word could get out that you're completely incel. From what I'm assuming you're so incel that you don't wanna post a picture because then people will realize just how incel you are and word will spread faster when people can put a face to a story. But it's not a smart route to go. Start getting pictures so you can make a tinder profile and if word gets out that you're a weird fuck just keep confidence maxing and switching up photos, they'll forget soon, and delete your Facebook if you have no friends, its better than having a Facebook with nothing on it. I use tinder because I'm getting lazy and I'm older than you (28). It allows me to "get ready" for the date, and start putting confidence on so maybe if you start going on set dates you'll slowly work yourself into being more confident in general. At a bar I'm almost too lazy to be confident because for me it takes effort when getting mogged by 6' dudes the whole night, but you're 6' so it should be no problem in that sense.
 
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Oh I thought you referred to hookers as the filthy bitches on the street, im escort only
Haha no man... i buy good ones.

But tbh, i admire people who have balls to sleep with anything from any dumpster... true HEROES of the 21st century :feelshehe:
 
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But tbh, i admire people who have balls to sleep with anything from any dumpster... true HEROES of the 21st century :feelshehe:
low inhib/nigger behavior
 
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Get drunk enough that it shuts your aspie brain off and let your instincts take over. The secret to flirting is you can say anything. What you say is almost like a distraction from what's really going on, which is you leading her towards sex.
 
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Escort services.

200 per hour for a good looking woman, and up to additional 100 for cool services like anal/deep kissing/owo/etc.
I would do this if I could find a ginger stacey hooker
 
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