
httVxtor
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How can you combat appearing as a nice guy, without appearing ND, and not it seeming "forced"?
Not that it affects me, but a friend of mine often gets seen as "friendly", "nice", "couldnt hurt a fly" etc etc, oulthough people dont even really know him (not really in touch, or just know him from seeing him sometimes/talking to him over phone 1-2 times)
These assumptions are made not with 0 knowledge about him (in terms of only looks matter), but with only a few and subtle facts about him and the way he "appears"
Not that it affects me, but a friend of mine often gets seen as "friendly", "nice", "couldnt hurt a fly" etc etc, oulthough people dont even really know him (not really in touch, or just know him from seeing him sometimes/talking to him over phone 1-2 times)
These assumptions are made not with 0 knowledge about him (in terms of only looks matter), but with only a few and subtle facts about him and the way he "appears"
He had a date with a htb (some female friend of my gf), and my gf told me that his date thought he was too much of a green flag
Some facts about him
Hes not 100% fluent in the language of the country he lives in
Goes to the gym
Got a Job
19 years old
Really healthy livestyle (good nutrition, skin, no smoking, drinks alcohol very rarely, never touched any drug besides alcohol)
Good looking
Had a relationship for 2 years prior to that date
Doesnt really use much slurs especially never said nigga
Hes never the villain in someones story