How do you build up the tension to have sex on second date

[Deleted member 5048]

On first date I just go on a walk have a conversation with them, eventually maybe drink alcohol, but I kinda feel like a beta, cause I wanna fuck them too, and I am kinda pussy / passive / I wanna improve on that, is kissing on a first date okay should I make a move, I’m rather distanced, being authentic for me is being rather cold and taking things slower, but maybe it’s a bad approach

 

[Hozay]

 

[warpsociety]

MDMA

 

[DrunkenSailor]

Be hot

 

[RichardSpencel]

If you haven't fucked on the first date she isn't sexually attracted to you.

 

[Deleted member 8576]

 

[Deleted member 5048]

If you haven't fucked on the first date she isn't sexually attracted to you.

okay, so how do I make her sexually attracted to me, on a date?, if she meet up with me then she find me attractive

 

[RichardSpencel]

okay, so how do I make her sexually attracted to me, on a date?, if she meet up with me then she find me attractive

Be hot

 

[DrTony]

If you haven't fucked on the first date she isn't sexually attracted to you.

Over 80% of my dates I have fucked on first date. And I agree with that sentiment. Very few cases do I remember where I had to go on multiple dates.

Also your question literally screams inexperience. These things happen organically. If they don't happen, then something is wrong with what you look like like or how you act. If it doesn't come natural and you have to force things, it is beyond over. Do not even go there.

 

[Deleted member 5048]

Over 80% of my dates I have fucked on first date. And I agree with that sentiment. Very few cases do I remember where I had to go on multiple dates.

Also your question literally screams inexperience. These things happen organically. If they don't happen, then something is wrong with what you look like like or how you act. If it doesn't come natural and you have to force things, it is beyond over. Do not even go there.

no but I believe in Poland it's different, these women doesn't look like hoes, a lot of them look innocent, not ONS type, but I might be wrong idk, I am very inexperienced indeed, only have done 3 meets, am making mistakes but trying to improve, be more natural each date

 

[Gonthar]

Well, you speed up things by going to multiple places and doing various things on a date, so it would seem to her like you already went on several dates, her mind will be tricked that she knows you for much longer - you go to a bar, then another one, you eat something, then do something physical like going bowling, you visit an amusement park and take some rides, then you drink some more, etc...
While doing these things you touch her, hug her, hold her hand, kiss her, you move her hands over her body, from the back to her ass, if she doesn't stop you it means it's all good, so you finish the date by inviting her to your house to show her something, where you bang her.

 

[DrTony]

no but I believe in Poland it's different, these women doesn't look like hoes, a lot of them look innocent, not ONS type, but I might be wrong idk, I am very inexperienced indeed, only have done 3 meets, am making mistakes but trying to improve, be more natural each date

It will come naturally as you mature and as your grow into your looks and your sex drive increases. You will also gain more social calibration with age which is just natural

 

[DrTony]

Well, you speed up things by going to multiple places and doing various things on a date, so it would seem to her like you already went on several dates, her mind will be tricked that she knows you for much longer - you go to a bar, then another one, you eat something, then do something physical like going bowling, you visit an amusement park and take some rides, then you drink some more, etc...
While doing these things you touch her, hug her, hold her hand, kiss her, you move her hands over her body, from the back to her ass, if she doesn't stop you it means it's all good, so you finish the date by inviting her to your house to show her something, where you bang her.

Imagine going to multiple bars and bowling and shit in one night just for a bang... LOL

 

[Deleted member 5048]

Imagine going to multiple bars and bowling and shit in one night just for a bang... LOL

I might do that anyways, sounds like something I would be capable of, at least to start with something or for experience

 

[Deleted member 5048]

Well, you speed up things by going to multiple places and doing various things on a date, so it would seem to her like you already went on several dates, her mind will be tricked that she knows you for much longer - you go to a bar, then another one, you eat something, then do something physical like going bowling, you visit an amusement park and take some rides, then you drink some more, etc...
While doing these things you touch her, hug her, hold her hand, kiss her, you move her hands over her body, from the back to her ass, if she doesn't stop you it means it's all good, so you finish the date by inviting her to your house to show her something, where you bang her.

Sounds interesting tbh, even if it takes effort, I wouldn’t mind trying doing such date, it’s seems like a steadily increasing affection and I like to take things slower, observe the process

 

[Lihito]

You become a chad by looksmaxing

On first date I just go on a walk have a conversation with them, eventually maybe drink alcohol, but I kinda feel like a beta, cause I wanna fuck them too, and I am kinda pussy / passive / I wanna improve on that, is kissing on a first date okay should I make a move, I’m rather distanced, being authentic for me is being rather cold and taking things slower, but maybe it’s a bad approach

 

[Lihito]

If you haven't fucked on the first date she isn't sexually attracted to you.

Facts

 

[Deleted member 5048]

You become a chad by looksmaxing

I can’t

 

[Deleted member 5048]

Facts

I will die a virgin

 

[Lihito]

I can’t

What level are you on? Any pics of you on this forum?

 

[Deleted member 5048]

What level are you on? Any pics of you on this forum?

Sub-human

 

[BadStrip]

It's a lot like driving stick. Neutral to first is the most critical step. If you fuck up, you stall the car and have to start over (which unless you're chad, you won't have more than a few tries tops.) 1st to 2nd is easier to avoid stalling, but it can be an awkward transition if you are not careful. For every gear after those, it gets easier and easier to transition to.