How do you enjoy alone time?

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I enjoy to not interact with ppl in person. It makes me lonely though sometimes but I still don’t wanna interact IRL.

I also don’t like online friends because I get attached to them and I don’t like that (I already tried it 10000 times)

I can interact online with IRL ppl I know, at the same time it can only be superficial, they are not allowed to find out about my personal life

No I don’t wanna write with an ai all day

It’s so complicated any genuine tips are welcomed
 
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Such a .is coded post lol
Did you get banned there?
 
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I've lived alone for 7 years, best thing ever.
 
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Jerking off and having fun with friends online.
 
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I already don’t meet ppl and I enjoy being alone. I once went 5 months without hanging out.

Anyways there are some times where I do get lonely. The problem is not that I crave ppl, the problem is that I crave ppl who give me ideas what to do. All my life I never knew how to entertain myself and I really feel it when I’m lonely. I used to be scared that ppl forget about me but I don’t care because I know that God is always watching me and it comforts me.

Anyways how do i fucking find a way to spend alone time 24/7? I’m already doing the alone time and then seeing ppl at school, but I want to be alone as Taxi Driver (movie) etc.

I want to find a way on how to be happy being alone, on how to stop seeking interaction with others.
I’ve been stuck with this problem for the past months
video games, anime,visual novels,manga. Just otakumaxx
 
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But have u never had the desire to talk to someone in that time
I mean I have friends and family and a full time job, but when I come home its nice and quiety which is amazing and fantastic in regards to decompressing
 
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video games, anime,visual novels,manga. Just otakumaxx
Doesn’t really interest me. I just have this problem where I can’t figure out what to do. I have it since I was a kid. 3 minutes LEGO, 1 minute drawing and then I was bored and everything else was also boring
 
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I already don’t meet ppl and I enjoy being alone. I once went 5 months without hanging out.

Anyways there are some times where I do get lonely. The problem is not that I crave ppl, the problem is that I crave ppl who give me ideas what to do. All my life I never knew how to entertain myself and I really feel it when I’m lonely. I used to be scared that ppl forget about me but I don’t care because I know that God is always watching me and it comforts me.

Anyways how do i fucking find a way to spend alone time 24/7? I’m already doing the alone time and then seeing ppl at school, but I want to be alone as Taxi Driver (movie) etc.

I want to find a way on how to be happy being alone, on how to stop seeking interaction with others.
I’ve been stuck with this problem for the past months
it doesn't work that way because you cannot be happy alone
 
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it doesn't work that way because you cannot be happy alone
Okay but if thats true then how did Terry A. Davis, Friedrich Gauß, Bobby Fischer and many others chose to be alone if it made them more unhappy. There are ppl that are happy whilst being alone. Its possible.
 
I enjoy to not interact with ppl in person. It makes me lonely though sometimes but I still don’t wanna interact IRL.

I also don’t like online friends because I get attached to them and I don’t like that (I already tried it 10000 times)

I can interact online with IRL ppl I know, at the same time it can only be superficial, they are not allowed to find out about my personal life

No I don’t wanna write with an ai all day

It’s so complicated any genuine tips are welcomed
hop on test
 
Just form a routine of copes. My coping routine:

Read book with coffee and bfast in morning
do poo
check internet stuff
then read more with food or workout or play game
then internet stuff
then watch tv show
then dinner
internet
tv show
internet
tv show

you could play games more if u want! and go for walks and stuff to get some sun. and vacuum every sunday
 

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