How do you even fucking cope with this

[aircraftboi]

Recently I got a gf. She is super romantic,she is great and beautiful too. It was love at first sight tbh,she said she loves that im intelligent. We went to the gym together,we were watching the stars together,we did every shit thats considered romantic. Never felt this way about a girl before. I thought she is the one im gonna maybe marry in the future. I still hope its her,but thats where the problem came. You have to know,that shw provided for her family for the last 4 years,because her dad had cancer and her mom left them. She worked in germany,because we live in the shithole of Romania. So now that her daf is cured,and her brother is grown up,she just stated that now she has to work for herself too,not just for her family,and she needs to leave for 6 months to germany. She is an introvert so Im not worrying about her partying tbh. Im just fucking unable to cope with this. Im so fucking heartbroken rn tbh. As the beta male I am,I even cried because of this. I tried to convince her,but the problem is,that I am still in school and shes 2 years older than me. So I cant really do much. Im actually fucking heartbroken because of this. All of these years,I've met many girls,slept with them but never met anyone like her. She swears that long distance will work but 6 months is a long ass time. I dont really know what to even do. I needed to write this out so maybe I will stop going down even more,because I feel like im drowning rn. I cant think of anything else. Never met a girl like this. Fuck love tbh.

 

[superpsycho]

congrats, you officially have a oneitis

 

[aircraftboi]

congrats, you officially have a oneitis

Is oneitis a girl that you would like to marry? Or a girl that you lost and cant forget about? Never knew which one

 

[superpsycho]

Is oneitis a girl that you would like to marry? Or a girl that you lost and cant forget about? Never knew which one

just look it up

 

[aircraftboi]

just look it up

we had sex and shut with her,but yeah shes my oneitis. I believe shes the one tbh even tho she's leaving for 6 months. I think she doesnt love me like I love her,because I would never leave her like this. But still I have my favourite memories with her tbh.

 

[superpsycho]

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we had sex and shut with her,but yeah shes my oneitis. I believe shes the one tbh even tho she's leaving for 6 months. I think she doesnt love me like I love her,because I would never leave her like this. But still I have my favourite memories with her tbh.

brutal oneitispill

welcome to my life

 

[aircraftboi]

brutal oneitispill

welcome to my life

This is terrible man. I feel like throwing up and crying most of the time. I wish she loved me the same as I loved her. There are stacys in my fucking dm's but I still only want her nobody else. I feel disgusted by everyone else

 

[superpsycho]

This is terrible man. I feel like throwing up and crying most of the time. I wish she loved me the same as I loved her. There are stacys in my fucking dm's but I still only want her nobody else. I feel disgusted by everyone else

now you know how i feel about my oneitis from over 4 years ago

she was the first girl to ever treat me like a fucking human. everything was perfect about her;

her laugh
her smile
her voice
her way with words
the way her light blonde hair blew in the wind
everything

 

[aircraftboi]

now you know how i feel about my oneitis from over 4 years ago

she was the first girl to ever treat me like a fucking human. everything was perfect about her;

her laugh
her smile
her voice
her way with words
the way her light blonde hair blew in the wind
everything

4years man?im sorry Its gonna take that long for me to cope? Or even longer?

 

[superpsycho]

4years man?im sorry Its gonna take that long for me to cope? Or even longer?

it depends on the kind of person you are

if you are incel like me u will cope for the next for years

if ur a normie you'll be alright within a week or so.

 

[aircraftboi]

it depends on the kind of person you are

if you are incel like me u will cope for the next for years

if ur a normie you'll be alright within a week or so.

Im not an incel in like the getting women way. But I dont think I will be able to cope with this anytime soon. Idk my only hopes are that this long distance shit works out. But the fact is,that if she loved me she wouldnt leave like this. She said I have to think rational she have to buy a car and shit. And move out of her parents house but still. But I have severe ADHD and she was the only one that could calm my brain

 

[superpsycho]

Im not an incel in like the getting women way. But I dont think I will be able to cope with this anytime soon. Idk my only hopes are that this long distance shit works out. But the fact is,that if she loved me she wouldnt leave like this. She said I have to think rational she have to buy a car and shit. And move out of her parents house but still. But I have severe ADHD and she was the only one that could calm my brain

i believe you will be alright then

 

[aircraftboi]

i believe you will be alright then

I hope so man. Im wishing you great recovery on your oneitis too.

 

[superpsycho]

I hope so man. Im wishing you great recovery on your oneitis too.

ill never recover

 

[Primalsplit]

Just sleep with other women because she sure as hell won't only be fingering herself for 6 months boyo.

 

[Gamerspyy786]

the way her light blonde hair blew in the wind
everything

dude thinks he’s in a movie

 

[OneCopDayKepRopAway]

ill never recover

It is your Refusal of giving up that keeps you chained down to core, A wisdom comes from experiences that you acknowledge and learn from. Be free, Get free, Don't limit yourself, let it go, You will have to. Problem Is stagnation, you are only true enemy of yourself.

 

[aircraftboi]

Just sleep with other women because she sure as hell won't only be fingering herself for 6 months boyo.

Dont make me sadder than I already am man. Please just dont.

 

[Primalsplit]

Dont make me sadder than I already am man. Please just dont.

Facts don't care about your feelings.

 

[EmperorVon]

 

[aircraftboi]

Facts don't care about your feelings.

Its important to note that before me she hasnt haf sex for 2 years tho.

 

[Primalsplit]

Its important to note that before me she hasnt haf sex for 2 years tho.

There's no reason she would reject a tall German Chad you can't compete with.

 

[Primalsplit]

Its important to note that before me she hasnt haf sex for 2 years tho.

Looool you believed her.

 

[aircraftboi]

There's no reason she would reject a tall German Chad you can't compete with.

She was in germany for the last 2 years broski she couldve had german chads if she wanted to

 

[aircraftboi]

Looool you believed her.

I felt it I didnt have to believe it. That girl was so scared of penetration because she was too tight. But I dont need you to believe me

 

[holytruecoper]

dont worry broski, everything will be good. i will stay with you every single day in .org and hope that she will come back safe from germany. much love

 

[Primalsplit]

She was in germany for the last 2 years broski she couldve had german chads if she wanted to

I felt it I didnt have to believe it. That girl was so scared of penetration because she was too tight. But I dont need you to believe me

This is an unbelievable amount of cope.

 

[superpsycho]

dude thinks he’s in a movie

thats what it felt like

 

[aircraftboi]

This is an unbelievable amount of cope.

Tbh man just let me fope for a few weeks. Ik youre right probably but I rarely felt true love in my life and this is one of those moments. So imma enjoy it for as long as I can then just leave her. I just want to feel this feeling for a few more weeks until she goes to germany

 

[aircraftboi]

dont worry broski, everything will be good. i will stay with you every single day in .org and hope that she will come back safe from germany. much love

holytruecoper. the name says it all but still I love her so imma cope just a little more then I will leave her as it is

 

[holytruecoper]

holytruecoper. the name says it all but still I love her so imma cope just a little more then I will leave her as it is

nooooo. maybe she wont leave you. i still hope someone on this forum finds a truly loving wife but i think her mental health isnt normal since her mother left and dad had cancer so you better pray to anyone for her to come back without a black 6'5 nigger

 

[aircraftboi]

nooooo. maybe she wont leave you. i still hope someone on this forum finds a truly loving wife but i think her mental health isnt normal since her mother left and dad had cancer so you better pray to anyone for her to come back without a black 6'5 nigger

Idk about her mental health she is like a really strong woman tho. She provided for her family and shit. She is like the perfect housewife she can cook clean and do all the chores. Even tho I am scared of her being mentally unwell because of her mother but she left them when she was 14 so idk maybe she was developed by then. Even tho I pray she wont cheat on me. She had a 2 year relationship before me which ended because the guy cheated. Idk what will.happen tho

 

[holytruecoper]

Idk about her mental health she is like a really strong woman tho. She provided for her family and shit. She is like the perfect housewife she can cook clean and do all the chores. Even tho I am scared of her being mentally unwell because of her mother but she left them when she was 14 so idk maybe she was developed by then. Even tho I pray she wont cheat on me. She had a 2 year relationship before me which ended because the guy cheated. Idk what will.happen tho

i probably think nothing will happen bae dont worry, try not cheating on her by yourself pls. everything will be fine and you will marry her and live happy life.

 

[rehabcel]

Holy brutal

 

[aircraftboi]

i probably think nothing will happen bae dont worry, try not cheating on her by yourself pls. everything will be fine and you will marry her and live happy life.

I prolly would cheat on her on a drunken night. When Im NT drunk I would easily cheat sadly. Because I believe she will do it too. But imma try to keep myself back from that

 

[aircraftboi]

Holy brutal

Ik man. Lifes shit tbf

 

[holytruecoper]

I prolly would cheat on her on a drunken night. When Im NT drunk I would easily cheat sadly. Because I believe she will do it too. But imma try to keep myself back from that

ye you will be a fag if you cheat on her. no reps for you today

 

[rehabcel]

Ik man. Lifes shit tbf

I go er if I was you

 

[TYLER IN NARRATOR]

Recently I got a gf. She is super romantic,she is great and beautiful too. It was love at first sight tbh,she said she loves that im intelligent. We went to the gym together,we were watching the stars together,we did every shit thats considered romantic. Never felt this way about a girl before. I thought she is the one im gonna maybe marry in the future. I still hope its her,but thats where the problem came. You have to know,that shw provided for her family for the last 4 years,because her dad had cancer and her mom left them. She worked in germany,because we live in the shithole of Romania. So now that her daf is cured,and her brother is grown up,she just stated that now she has to work for herself too,not just for her family,and she needs to leave for 6 months to germany. She is an introvert so Im not worrying about her partying tbh. Im just fucking unable to cope with this. Im so fucking heartbroken rn tbh. As the beta male I am,I even cried because of this. I tried to convince her,but the problem is,that I am still in school and shes 2 years older than me. So I cant really do much. Im actually fucking heartbroken because of this. All of these years,I've met many girls,slept with them but never met anyone like her. She swears that long distance will work but 6 months is a long ass time. I dont really know what to even do. I needed to write this out so maybe I will stop going down even more,because I feel like im drowning rn. I cant think of anything else. Never met a girl like this. Fuck love tbh.

read every word

 

[TYLER IN NARRATOR]

I prolly would cheat on her on a drunken night. When Im NT drunk I would easily cheat sadly. Because I believe she will do it too. But imma try to keep myself back from that

bro wtff ???

 

[aircraftboi]

ye you will be a fag if you cheat on her. no reps for you today

Prolly wont cheat on her tbh. I never felt true love like this. Idk if I could live without her. But still she prolly doesnt even love me like that. Its just painful to think about even not seeing her for a week.

 

[aircraftboi]

read every word

Thank you man. Threads a little bit long but still thanks

 

[aircraftboi]

bro wtff ???

Im just trying to seem cool tbh. I couldnt cheat on her even with the prettiest stacy. I never felt this way about a girl before. Sadly she's leaving,but still my life wont ever be complete without her

 

[TYLER IN NARRATOR]

Thank you man. Threads a little bit long but still thanks

I mostly dnr long threads like these but I read this one cuz it didn't seem like ramblings

 

[TYLER IN NARRATOR]

Im just trying to seem cool tbh. I couldnt cheat on her even with the prettiest stacy. I never felt this way about a girl before. Sadly she's leaving,but still my life wont ever be complete without her

so will u be in a ldr with her???

 

[Shkreliii]

Recently I got a gf. She is super romantic,she is great and beautiful too. It was love at first sight tbh,she said she loves that im intelligent. We went to the gym together,we were watching the stars together,we did every shit thats considered romantic. Never felt this way about a girl before. I thought she is the one im gonna maybe marry in the future. I still hope its her,but thats where the problem came. You have to know,that shw provided for her family for the last 4 years,because her dad had cancer and her mom left them. She worked in germany,because we live in the shithole of Romania. So now that her daf is cured,and her brother is grown up,she just stated that now she has to work for herself too,not just for her family,and she needs to leave for 6 months to germany. She is an introvert so Im not worrying about her partying tbh. Im just fucking unable to cope with this. Im so fucking heartbroken rn tbh. As the beta male I am,I even cried because of this. I tried to convince her,but the problem is,that I am still in school and shes 2 years older than me. So I cant really do much. Im actually fucking heartbroken because of this. All of these years,I've met many girls,slept with them but never met anyone like her. She swears that long distance will work but 6 months is a long ass time. I dont really know what to even do. I needed to write this out so maybe I will stop going down even more,because I feel like im drowning rn. I cant think of anything else. Never met a girl like this. Fuck love tbh.

Just move to germany aswell, you can make good money with gig jobs
I can help you understand how i made 15k in a year by only working 3 days a week and a van.

 

[aircraftboi]

so will u be in a ldr with her???

Idk man I will try it atleast. I love her too much rn. Maybe it will change but still

 

[aircraftboi]

I mostly dnr long threads like these but I read this one cuz it didn't seem like ramblings

Thanks man. I tried to write out my feelings tbh. Sometimes org feels like a journal to me. I can vent while people can add some great advices too

 

[TYLER IN NARRATOR]

Idk man I will try it atleast. I love her too much rn. Maybe it will change but still

it seems like u really love her so I think u shouldn't give up on her and just spend ur time with friends for those 6 months to feel less lonely

 

[aircraftboi]

Just move to germany aswell, you can make good money with gig jobs
I can help you understand how i made 15k in a year by only working 3 days a week and a van.

I cant move man I have one year left in school. If I graduate ai can follow my dream of being a soldier. My dad was a soldier,my grandpa was a soldier my great grandpa was a soldier. I want to follow that tradition