How do you even get a social circle? (cortisol spike)

[Deleted member 23218]

This post spiked my cotrisol hard

(warning LONG) Instead of trying to re-create undergrad post-college JUST ACCEPT you messed up your life, and go on a NEW path!

For you lazy illiterate niggers: TLD;R: Basically you messed up your life in undergrad by rushing to your dorm after class, gaming/watching mgtow/blackpill videos/failing to network etc. JUST ACCEPT you messed up your life, stop feverishly trying to live like a frat-stud post-college pursuing...

looksmax.org

I think this is gonna be me some day and maybe even now. I am a sophmore and havent made a single friend in college and rarely talk to others and never gone to a party. How do i change this. For context, i am not autistic, i am just a high inhib introvert.

@rand anon
@defezman
@FailedNormieManlet

 

[Deleted member 23218]

Spiked my cortisol sop hard i am crying

 

[Deleted member 19174]

Nigga i don’t even know. I’ve never struggled with making friends. Do you have a roomate? Do you have niggas that you talk to in class? If you do, I guess just push forward with those relationships and figure out if they are going to certain social events.

 

[Deleted member 9003]

step 1) go outside
Step 2) talk

 

[DickLatinCel]

You have to bring something to the table. Be good-looking, wealthy, able to pull women, jestermax (make people laugh constantly), just be black ( women love to fuck niggers), be big as fuck ( the protector of the tribe)

 

[Deleted member 23218]

Nigga i don’t even know. I’ve never struggled with making friends. Do you have a roomate? Do you have niggas that you talk to in class? If you do, I guess just push forward with those relationships and figure out if they are going to certain social events.

I have no roomate and i was invited to parties last yhear but i was too hiogh inhib to go. No one really talks to m,e in class tbh i just sit there

 

[Deleted member 23218]

step 1) go outside
Step 2) talk

Who do i talk to isnt it akward to talk to sonmeone you dont know?

 

[Deleted member 23218]

You have to bring something to the table. Be good-looking, wealthy, able to pull women, jestermax (make people laugh constantly), just be black ( women love to fuck niggers), be big as fuck ( the protector of the tribe)

Im just a mtn currycel of above average height

 

[Deleted member 23772]

ive noticed that alot of people just dont want any new friend because they already have stable friendship with their main homies. Same here too, i have like 2 friends i can count on and chill so normally im not in a mood to get to know new people, which kinda both bad and good. The rest of my "friends" are not really friends i can just ask to chill out one place or visit each other home or just randomely ask something spontanously.

 

[M3R]

Im just a mtn currycel of above average height

To be honest it might be hard. I think the best way is to meet someone with similar interest like raving, metal or anything because they'll like you right away because these are niches and then after getting to know them you'll meet their friends hopefully. And the other good way is to work at the bar, hotel or other places where young normies work. Befriend them and try to hang out with them.

 

[M3R]

I have no roomate and i was invited to parties last yhear but i was too hiogh inhib to go. No one really talks to m,e in class tbh i just sit there

Bro you're dumb. I was high inhib too but you just have to go to events like that and get used to it.

 

[Deleted member 23218]

To be honest it might be hard. I think the best way is to meet someone with similar interest like raving, metal or anything because they'll like you right away because these are niches and then after getting to know them you'll meet their friends hopefully. And the other good way is to work at the bar, hotel or other places where young normies work. Befriend them and try to hang out with them.

im gonna treyu to fin d a club to join, maybe basketball, i used to play

 

[rand anon]

sophmore and havent made a single friend in college

Sorry bhai, it's likely a wrap. Most social circles develop during the first 2-3 weeks of college and solidify after a month or 2. If u end up getting roommates at some point and they invite u out to stuff u can still go but it won't be the same

 

[Deleted member 23218]

Bro you're dumb. I was high inhib too but you just have to go to events like that and get used to it.

I know i regret it. I was subhuman back then so high inhib (I ascended slightly with lifts, lean, and skincare maxxing)

 

[Deleted member 19174]

I have no roomate and i was invited to parties last yhear but i was too hiogh inhib to go. No one really talks to m,e in class tbh i just sit there

So you were invited and still never went? I’m sorry to say brodie but…

 

[Deleted member 23218]

Sorry bhai, it's likely a wrap. Most social circles develop during the first 2-3 weeks of college and solidify after a month or 2. If u end up getting roommates at some point and they invite u out to stuff u can still go but it won't be the same

brootal

 

[Deleted member 23218]

So you were invited and still never went? I’m sorry to say brodie but…

They invited me twice im retarted. I couldf have had m,ogger sopcial circle there were lots of girls

 

[Deleted member 23218]

So you were invited and still never went? I’m sorry to say brodie but…

thers gotta be something i can do i dont care if i dont get laid male friends are fine. Should i join an ethnic club?

 

[Deleted member 19174]

thers gotta be something i can do i dont care if i dont get laid male friends are fine. Should i join an ethnic club?

Yea, do that and seize every opportunity to socialize. Your inhib levels are insane

 

[rand anon]

brootal

I'm in the same situation kek

thers gotta be something i can do i dont care if i dont get laid male friends are fine. Should i join an ethnic club?

yeah u can try, but tbh I haven't seen even normie ethnic guys be friendless, even the fobs kek, they compensate for their subhumanity by being hyper NT (which is also genetic ofc)

 

[Deleted member 23218]

Yea, do that and seize every opportunity to socialize. Your inhib levels are insane

I can join the curry club and a sports club maybe. I used to be decent at basketball when i was on team I can cook some dudes.

 

[Deleted member 23218]

I'm in the same situation kek

yeah u can try, but tbh I haven't seen even normie ethnic guys be friendless, even the fobs kek, they compensate for their subhumanity by being hyper NT (which is also genetic ofc)

If i join the muslim club can i get a hoejabi?

 

[Deleted member 19174]

I can join the curry club and a sports club maybe. I used to be decent at basketball when i was on team I can cook some dudes.

Yea start playing pickup niggerball games at your college gym. My roommate plays and has made some friends with other niggerball players.

 

[M3R]

I know i regret it. I was subhuman back then so high inhib (I ascended slightly with lifts, lean, and skincare maxxing)

You fucked up but don't listen to these autists who say it's over. You literally just have to find someone who likes you and wants to be friends. If you are lucky then he might be an extrovert who will introduce you to his own friends. Still you should try what I've suggested earlier. Niches and NT working places are great for finding social circles.

 

[Deleted member 21661]

I have 0 friends we will see how I make friends when I return to college soon

 

[rand anon]

If i join the muslim club can i get a hoejabi?

The meme that it's easy to get laid in college is such a myth. You either hve to be chad, or hve a huge social circle. Maybe u can get a ONS but keeping a gf as a subchad when she finds out ur friendless doesn't seem likely

 

[rand anon]

@HimmyButler A friendless chad has it on easy mode jfl. It works the opposite way for him, he gets a gf and she's so infatuated with his looks that she'll merge him into her own social circle

 

[ripcordgod1]

This post spiked my cotrisol hard

(warning LONG) Instead of trying to re-create undergrad post-college JUST ACCEPT you messed up your life, and go on a NEW path!

For you lazy illiterate niggers: TLD;R: Basically you messed up your life in undergrad by rushing to your dorm after class, gaming/watching mgtow/blackpill videos/failing to network etc. JUST ACCEPT you messed up your life, stop feverishly trying to live like a frat-stud post-college pursuing...

looksmax.org

I think this is gonna be me some day and maybe even now. I am a sophmore and havent made a single friend in college and rarely talk to others and never gone to a party. How do i change this. For context, i am not autistic, i am just a high inhib introvert.

@rand anon
@defezman
@FailedNormieManlet

nigga its time to take corticosteroids and blockers so we can ascend

 

[Deleted member 19174]

The meme that it's easy to get laid in college is such a myth. You either hve to be chad, or hve a huge social circle. Maybe u can get a ONS but keeping a gf as a subchad when she finds out ur friendless doesn't seem likely

The only niggas I know that get laid regulary are frat HTNs tbh. It's just as diffcult to get laid in college than in the real world.

 

[Deleted member 23218]

@HimmyButler A friendless chad has it on easy mode jfl. It works the opposite way for him, he gets a gf and she's so infatuated with his looks that she'll merge him into her own social circle

brootal. I just want a ons/ escort to lose virginity and have social circle, I am fine with male friends

 

[rand anon]

I am fine with male friends

Your best bet is moving to a new place with roommates. They'll invite u out to stuff so you feel more comfortable living around them. The hard part with this is if they mog you u likely aren't gonna want to do shit with them, especially after getting blackpilled. That's my situation currently, all my roommates are tall White htns jfl

 

[M3R]

brootal. I just want a ons/ escort to lose virginity and have social circle, I am fine with male friends

It's not worth getting an escort lol. Just drink alcohol before and you should know what to do from porn. It's not even hard. Most guys suck at sex anyway.

Edit: Escorts are for desperated or truecel dudes

 

[Deleted member 23218]

Your best bet is moving to a new place with roommates. They'll invite u out to stuff so you feel more comfortable living around them. The hard part with this is if they mog you u likely aren't gonna want to do shit with them, especially after getting blackpilled. That's my situation currently, all my roommates are tall White htns jfl

Im at least tallish is so the mog isnt too brootal for me. I dont want to gwet roomates thogh because i need priovate space for penis enlargement. I had a bropotal experience with nt pill last year. The guy who ninvited me to the parties was an nt maxxed 5'8 mtn currycel and i saw im going to rooms at nigh with girls in elevators and talking about how he woke up with naked girls next to im its too brootal i cant handle it

 

[Deleted member 23218]

It's not worth getting an escort lol. Just drink alcohol before and you should know what to do from porn. It's not even hard. Most guys suck at sex anyway.

Edit: Escorts are for desperated or truecel dudes

I am desperate thho i am 20 khhv, i need to lose my v card asap it wont happen any othher way

 

[rand anon]

It's not worth getting an escort lol. Just drink alcohol before and you should know what to do from porn. It's not even hard. Most guys suck at sex anyway.

Well he needs to get a girl interested first jfl

Edit: Escorts are for desperated or truecel dudes

I think it depends, if it solely just for the sake of losing virginity it should be fine. But most want to feel physically desired and wanted, u won't get that from an escort

I had a bropotal experience with nt pill last year. The guy who ninvited me to the parties was an nt maxxed 5'8 mtn currycel and i saw im going to rooms at nigh with girls in elevators and talking about how he woke up with naked girls next to im its too brootal i cant handle it

Brutal. Idk how some users here still deny the NTpill lol

 

[GloGang300]

Nigga i don’t even know. I’ve never struggled with making friends. Do you have a roomate? Do you have niggas that you talk to in class? If you do, I guess just push forward with those relationships and figure out if they are going to certain social events.

I thought u were non-nt bro...

 

[Deleted member 15067]

I have a social circle and it just makes me suicidal when they all have the confidence to approach girls every once and a while and get lucky while I’m scared as fuck

 

[Deleted member 19174]

I thought u were non-nt bro...

I consider myself nonNT

 

[M3R]

I am desperate thho i am 20 khhv, i need to lose my v card asap it wont happen any othher way

I won't say it for you but it should. If you go to a party/bar/club and you find some hoe that likes you then either she will initiate kissing or you should just go for it and then you go from there. I though similarly in the past but it's easy. Remember that most dudes, even those who get laid are not good at sex/escalating or kissing so you're not at an disadvantage.

Just read up some tutorials or watch porn.

 

[M3R]

Well he needs to get a girl interested first jfl

I think it depends, if it solely just for the sake of losing virginity it should be fine. But most want to feel physically desired and wanted, u won't get that from an escort

Brutal. Idk how some users here still deny the NTpill lol

Okay, i'll give you that. First you have to find interested girl but if you're at least a MTN then it's not even that hard. Some LTB will come sooner or later.

You can lose virginity by escort but at his age most hoes only had encounters with dudes who in majority sucked at kissing, fucking and everything so if he reads some tutorials and learns from porn he will be as a virgin better than them lmao

 

[rand anon]

First you have to find interested girl but if you're at least a MTN then it's not even that hard. Some LTB will come sooner or later.

Idk bro, too many users on here are MTN virgins well into their 20s cause they aren't NT

 

[Deleted member 23218]

Idk bro, too many users on here are MTN virgins well into their 20s cause they aren't NT

will gymaxx save me? I have goot shoulder to waist and decent frame. Ill do anyways becvause it helps m,e relax but just wwondering.

 

[M3R]

Idk bro, too many users on here are MTN virgins well into their 20s cause they aren't NT

You're right but that's the problem. Only HTN+ can achieve anything without proper social circle (even then they'll be at a disadvantage). Everyone here should try their hardest to find friends and maintain relations. People are tribal/social af. I'm not NT but I don't even have to, the only thing you have to do is to get better at socialising and get friends... and then hope that they introduce you to their friends/social circle.

 

[rand anon]

the only thing you have to do is to get better at socialising and get friends... and then hope that they introduce you to their friends/social circle

That's what I mean by "NT" though, most of us don't hve the ability to do this

 

[Gaygymmaxx]

This post spiked my cotrisol hard

(warning LONG) Instead of trying to re-create undergrad post-college JUST ACCEPT you messed up your life, and go on a NEW path!

For you lazy illiterate niggers: TLD;R: Basically you messed up your life in undergrad by rushing to your dorm after class, gaming/watching mgtow/blackpill videos/failing to network etc. JUST ACCEPT you messed up your life, stop feverishly trying to live like a frat-stud post-college pursuing...

looksmax.org

I think this is gonna be me some day and maybe even now. I am a sophmore and havent made a single friend in college and rarely talk to others and never gone to a party. How do i change this. For context, i am not autistic, i am just a high inhib introvert.

@rand anon
@defezman
@FailedNormieManlet

lol feels bad

it took me 2 months of subjecting myself to unnecessary socialization to become 80% normal in conversation

ive been funny naturally since i was younger so that kinda helps if youre just completely unsocialized its much harder tho

 

[khvirgin]

i dont think anyone tried to socialize as much as me recently and I still dont have a "social circle"
i have friends though

 

[Dr. Bludy]

This post spiked my cotrisol hard

(warning LONG) Instead of trying to re-create undergrad post-college JUST ACCEPT you messed up your life, and go on a NEW path!

For you lazy illiterate niggers: TLD;R: Basically you messed up your life in undergrad by rushing to your dorm after class, gaming/watching mgtow/blackpill videos/failing to network etc. JUST ACCEPT you messed up your life, stop feverishly trying to live like a frat-stud post-college pursuing...

looksmax.org

I think this is gonna be me some day and maybe even now. I am a sophmore and havent made a single friend in college and rarely talk to others and never gone to a party. How do i change this. For context, i am not autistic, i am just a high inhib introvert.

@rand anon
@defezman
@FailedNormieManlet

Over

 

[Gaygymmaxx]

After getting like 5 friends and hanging out with them often its easy to get way more, ive been introduced to a bunch of mutuals, a lot of them happen to be on adderall for some reason too lol

 

[M3R]

That's what I mean by "NT" though, most of us don't hve the ability to do this

Cope. I'll give you that I've started early transitioning from no-life to "cool guy" in high school but now that I look at it.. I was really high inhib borderline autistic in high school but right now in college I am seen as one of the coolest dude in my college class. And it's not like at the end of high school I was there. I only started to participate in parties and shit in college. It's all about putting in work into socialising and befriending people who want to hang out with you. Also alcohol and drugs help a lot so it's your choice to use them or not but if you're in bad position now then it's better to do them.

 

[Deleted member 23778]

Idk but imagine every guy you know being married and having children. If I tried to hang out with younger guys I know it would make me cringe. No social circle for mid 30s niggas without a wife and kids