How do you even get a social circle? (cortisol spike)

[SecularIslamist]

I'm 28 year old veteran. Not gatekeeping but if you don't make it in education/ late teens you are mostly fucked. How many people do you know that start developing lifelong friendship in mid 20s and beyond? Very few.

I've accepted my loneliness. I made that trade off when educationmaxxing and careermaxxing. I couldn't make it in the former because my 'friends' did not value education and I chose to study rather than chill.

I careermaxxed thinking I'd start afresh in new city but just ended up feeling more alone. I get money out of it but that's about it.

One thing I know for sure is even those who are social circlelmaxxed things get lonely after they leave education too. By their late 20s their reminiscing about their uni days, but by then some decide to have kids and need for social circle is removed.

 

[Deleted member 22924]

most people don't have a social circle due to social media most teenagers spend 8 hours a day on their phone 8 hours at school and sleep 8 hours i'm super non nt but try to do something with friends at least once a week otherwise you'll become even more non nt

 

[Deleted member 23218]

I'm 28 year old veteran. Not gatekeeping but if you don't make it in education/ late teens you are mostly fucked. How many people do you know that start developing lifelong friendship in mid 20s and beyond? Very few.

I've accepted my loneliness. I made that trade off when educationmaxxing and careermaxxing. I couldn't make it in the former because my 'friends' did not value education and I chose to study rather than chill.

I careermaxxed thinking I'd start afresh in new city but just ended up feeling more alone. I get money out of it but that's about it.

One thing I know for sure is even those who are social circlelmaxxed things get lonely after they leave education too. By their late 20s their reminiscing about their uni days, but by then some decide to have kids and need for social circle is removed.

I am still good friends with some guys from high school, but none in colege i go out opf state

 

[Deleted member 22401]

This post spiked my cotrisol hard

(warning LONG) Instead of trying to re-create undergrad post-college JUST ACCEPT you messed up your life, and go on a NEW path!

For you lazy illiterate niggers: TLD;R: Basically you messed up your life in undergrad by rushing to your dorm after class, gaming/watching mgtow/blackpill videos/failing to network etc. JUST ACCEPT you messed up your life, stop feverishly trying to live like a frat-stud post-college pursuing...

looksmax.org

I think this is gonna be me some day and maybe even now. I am a sophmore and havent made a single friend in college and rarely talk to others and never gone to a party. How do i change this. For context, i am not autistic, i am just a high inhib introvert.

@rand anon
@defezman
@FailedNormieManlet

It’s impossible

 

[Vain786]

only started to participate in parties and shit in college.

howd u get into parties

u just go to the college clubs or what

 

[RopeMaxxed]

I am a goddamn NEET.