how do you even learn to talk to your friends normally

[iblamemyself!]

so like i used to be ugly as hell and had zero friends growing up and now that i finally have some i legit dont know how to act. i never talk to my male friends online and barely talk irl. i never get invited to their houses or to hang out either. meanwhile my sisters talk to their friends all day every day on snap or face time like it's nothing. i cant even keep a 10 min convo unless we havent talked in a long time or its someone new. I never call people, like never. And even if I did i dont know what id say
how do you fix this. how do you actually learn to interact like a normal person. any advice from ppl who went through this.

 

[Panchitosbroncs]

Just lock in bhai, try to be as NT as possible

 

[why not me?]

if youre htn you have no reason to act like a monkey

 

[RetaRetaReta]

so like i used to be ugly as hell and had zero friends growing up and now that i finally have some i legit dont know how to act. i never talk to my male friends online and barely talk irl. i never get invited to their houses or to hang out either. meanwhile my sisters talk to their friends all day every day on snap or face time like it's nothing. i cant even keep a 10 min convo unless we havent talked in a long time or its someone new. I never call people, like never. And even if I did i dont know what id say
how do you fix this. how do you actually learn to interact like a normal person. any advice from ppl who went through this.

Are you actually good looking now or are you slightly less ugly? Because people tend to be way more receptive to above average looking people. Which makes me think you might just be slightly less ugly, but far from good looking

 

[softymaxer]

so like i used to be ugly as hell and had zero friends growing up and now that i finally have some i legit dont know how to act. i never talk to my male friends online and barely talk irl. i never get invited to their houses or to hang out either. meanwhile my sisters talk to their friends all day every day on snap or face time like it's nothing. i cant even keep a 10 min convo unless we havent talked in a long time or its someone new. I never call people, like never. And even if I did i dont know what id say
how do you fix this. how do you actually learn to interact like a normal person. any advice from ppl who went through this.

smoke weed to become NT but low inhib

 

[sebchi]

small talk is powerful, I am sure there are several threads on this site that can help with that and watch youtube videos on conversation and small talk. if you cant talk to people its because you simply dont have that comfort yet.

find common interests and send them stupid shit if they are humorous.

looks should not have a play, sub 3's will have friends regardless if the friends are sub3's or not. basic communication skills brotha.

 

[iblamemyself!]

Are you actually good looking now or are you slightly less ugly? Because people tend to be way more receptive to above average looking people. Which makes me think you might just be slightly less ugly, but far from good looking

Before and afters


Mostly puberty and weight loss but im extremely recessed from the side

 

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Before and afters
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Mostly puberty and weight loss but im extremely recessed from the side

looking good, maybe u just need to work on your social skills. Play a team sport or something