How do you get people to message you first?

[Danish_Retard]

Been NTmaxxing. Nobody ever messages me first. During corona I depressionmaxxed and nobody messaged me in 2-3 fucking months. I'm so fucking bitter and resentful of this, how the fuck do normal people have people messaging them?

every time I am reminded of this I don't even feel like trying anymore. It hurts to be this irrelevant man

 

[Deleted member 9699]

Be Chad

 

[JustBeCurry]

be popular problemo solved

 

[Deleted member 8576]

inject

 

[Deleted member 9380]

same

 

[Deleted member 9380]

inject

Tea

 

[Danish_Retard]

be popular problemo solved

inject

shit replies, remove them

 

[Deleted member 8576]

Tea

mmmmmm

 

[Deleted member 6217]

i dont text anyone i havent used my phone in 2 weeks i only message people here on .me
idc abt anyone irl tbh

 

[JMax]

Be mysterious

 

[Danish_Retard]

Be mysterious

elab

 

[Swolepenisman]

Looks like this

 

[Deleted member 9003]

I stopped messaging my friends but they still message me

 

[JMax]

elab

 

[Danish_Retard]

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This is perhaps the shittiest reply in the entire thread

 

[lutte]

Shit i know this feel
I have to fight to keep it going. Im nt irl too, i can keep my autismo online for places like this

 

[lutte]

I stopped messaging my friends but they still message me

Chad privilege

 

[JMax]

This is perhaps the shittiest reply in the entire thread

 

[Serial Coomer]

Been NTmaxxing. Nobody ever messages me first. During corona I depressionmaxxed and nobody messaged me in 2-3 fucking months. I'm so fucking bitter and resentful of this, how the fuck do normal people have people messaging them?

every time I am reminded of this I don't even feel like trying anymore. It hurts to be this irrelevant man

Yo how that party went?

 

[Serial Coomer]

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Eric cartman

 

[Danish_Retard]

Yo how that party went?

Nobody wanted to go after the football match and I was tired so I went home.

 

[Jagged0]

Been NTmaxxing. Nobody ever messages me first. During corona I depressionmaxxed and nobody messaged me in 2-3 fucking months. I'm so fucking bitter and resentful of this, how the fuck do normal people have people messaging them?

every time I am reminded of this I don't even feel like trying anymore. It hurts to be this irrelevant man

Be popular/high status u think ur high school jock is not having beta males and femoids hit up his phone 24/7?

 

[Danish_Retard]

Be popular/high status u think ur high school jock is not having beta males and femoids hit up his phone 24/7?

Just be popular bro.

It's true, but doesn't help me when I can't even get people to message me.

 

[Deleted member 4464]

inb4 you need lefort 3 just to have friends, no, there are a lot of subhumans with social circle/many friends but they are still virgins or somehow lucked out with a girl from the social circle

 

[Deleted member 10104]

You only get messaged first when you have something others want.

Social status, looks, fucking prowess, money, etc.

Period.

 

[Tony]

try with

Hi.

 

[Danish_Retard]

You only get messaged first when you have something others want.

Social status, looks, fucking prowess, money, etc.

Period.

It can't be this simple. I see ugly manlets with no social status or money having friend circles and people messaging them on multiple different apps.

 

[Deleted member 10104]

It can't be this simple. I see ugly manlets with no social status or money having friend circles and people messaging them on multiple different apps.

If they have huge friend circles then they have social status you dork.

 

[Timelessbrah]

The same happens to me.

 

[WannaBeA6]

be a 6

 

[Danish_Retard]

The same happens to me.

Does it also make you lose all motivation to NTmaxx?

be a 6

I don't think it's my looks that are keeping me from being NT.

 

[WannaBeA6]

I don't think it's my looks that are keeping me from being NT.

that's what reddit told me

 

[Danish_Retard]

that's what reddit told me

It's over

 

[Deleted member 6577]

Been NTmaxxing. Nobody ever messages me first. During corona I depressionmaxxed and nobody messaged me in 2-3 fucking months. I'm so fucking bitter and resentful of this, how the fuck do normal people have people messaging them?

every time I am reminded of this I don't even feel like trying anymore. It hurts to be this irrelevant man

Why cant u just write to them if u rly need ?

 

[Deleted member 275]

No idea tbh. When I was a kid <12yo I would always have ppl from school and my neighborhood come to my door and ask if I wanted to come and play outside. Best time of my life.

Then suddenly in high school nobody ever wanted to hangout with me after school.

is what it is.

 

[Danish_Retard]

Why cant u just write to them if u rly need ?

You missed the point bro. I already write to people, but I'm always the first to write, nobody ever messages me first.

 

[Danish_Retard]

No idea tbh. When I was a kid <12yo I would always have ppl from school and my neighborhood come to my door and ask if I wanted to come and play outside. Best time of my life.

Then suddenly in high school nobody ever wanted to hangout with me after school.

is what it is.

I've never had this. I've been a socially abused dog all my life. It's brutally over for my neurons.

 

[Danish_Retard]

@Syobevoli why you rage react me bro

 

[Deleted member 275]

@Syobevoli why you rage react me bro

https://looksmax.org/threads/high-t-vs-low-t-trait-reacting-rage-vs.221139/

 

[Vvvvxxxx]

I unironically think it’s about personality. Unfortunately that’s predetermined by genetics. Some people just have a personality that’s well suited to having friends

 

[Danish_Retard]

I unironically think it’s about personality. Unfortunately that’s predetermined by genetics. Some people just have a personality that’s well suited to having friends

I refuse to believe this. I need to be able to improve. Otherwise it's all cope.

 

[Deleted member 4430]

inb4 you need lefort 3

 

[randomuser2407]

Dude, it's literally in the name of the website you are on. You must looksmax, women only message first when the guy is so good looking that she is afraid that she isn't going to get him, if you're a normie like me, it's not enough because she'll know that you don't have many options. Women can sense that shit, when I looked subhuman before my double jaw surgery and a girl saw that I had tinder installed on my phone she laughed at me, and at one point a girl mocked me for being too skinny because the tall men that she meets in her country (scotland) are much fatter and more muscular.

 

[Deleted member 3479]

Pisses me off too, i decided to cut off one of my highschool best friends bcz he never msgs me or initiates anything it is always me who does it and apart from 2 people i do not talk to any of my HS friends anymore except occasionally they dont even talk to each other anymore everyone just drifted apart.

In college everyone is too busy and too poor to do anything so no one does crap, i intend to join clubs, gyms, sports centers once i graduate and have time to expand my social circle and make more laid back friends

 

[RemoveNormalfags]

2-3 fucking months.

years for me.

 

[ToursOverBoyo2020]

Be Chad

 

[ToursOverBoyo2020]

I'm in same boat, if I don't initiate convos with people well then convos don't start. This is how I went 3 years without interacting with a girl.

 

[Timelessbrah]

Does it also make you lose all motivation to NTmaxx?


I don't think it's my looks that are keeping me from being NT.

I'm already somewhat NT maxed when it comes to social settings and such, the problem is, that (as some users already said) I am nothing to others, my value is close to zero to others and so I ain't worth shit to message. I need is to create value for myself.

 

[Danish_Retard]

Dude, it's literally in the name of the website you are on. You must looksmax, women only message first when the guy is so good looking that she is afraid that she isn't going to get him, if you're a normie like me, it's not enough because she'll know that you don't have many options. Women can sense that shit, when I looked subhuman before my double jaw surgery and a girl saw that I had tinder installed on my phone she laughed at me, and at one point a girl mocked me for being too skinny because the tall men that she meets in her country (scotland) are much fatter and more muscular.

I didn't mean with foids, I barely talk to any. I mean just regular guys.

years for me.

Damn bro. You have my sympathies. What have you done to try to NTmaxx?

I'm already somewhat NT maxed when it comes to social settings and such, the problem is, that (as some users already said) I am nothing to others, my value is close to zero to others and so I ain't worth shit to message. I need is to create value for myself.

How would we create value for ourselves?

 

[Timelessbrah]

I didn't mean with foids, I barely talk to any. I mean just regular guys.


Damn bro. You have my sympathies. What have you done to try to NTmaxx?


How would we create value for ourselves?

The easiest way, aside from improving looks, is to gain status and do as many group activities and have as many common interests as possible. Most people that message each other are to talk about random shit, group meetings and music or games they like.