How do you mask Autism?

[EugenicsIsLaw]

I have social anxiety and probably have autism.

For NTs: How do people recognise someone is autistic? How do you recognise it, what are the signs that they give away?

For NDs: How can I mask my autism and blend in with normies? Why can everyone almost sense it in me even when I try to mask or “be myself” I still seem to give it away and nobody wants to befriend me. I have never been in an LTR with a woman but I am successful at getting hookups.

 

[incellooser]

i try to be funny around new people and most of the times they like me, i do have issuses with keeping people as friennds tho

 

[AleksandR12]

I have social anxiety and probably have autism.

For NTs: How do people recognise someone is autistic? How do you recognise it, what are the signs that they give away?

For NDs: How can I mask my autism and blend in with normies? Why can everyone almost sense it in me even when I try to mask or “be myself” I still seem to give it away and nobody wants to befriend me. I have never been in an LTR with a woman but I am successful at getting hookups.

pregab

 

[russiangirlsmog]

I notice when someone is nd if they have a hard time participating in convos/are very akward, if nts are nice around you (like me) then they will include you and ask you questions and let You Talk so then you don’t have a hard time participating, altough many nts just bully the nd one which really is the norm lmao

 

[EugenicsIsLaw]

pregab

Doesnt work plus retarded non sustainable solution

 

[EugenicsIsLaw]

i try to be funny around new people and most of the times they like me, i do have issuses with keeping people as friennds tho

Ive tried that and its just performative jestermaxxing. Honestly hate having to perform for others to approve and the exact same thing happnes, I never become their friends. They form friend groups and exclude me then they just become that half nice person who i see and make small talk to but never invite me out ever.

I have literally never been invited out somewhere ever in my life, It too me until about 14 to realise that people meet up often outside of school. I didn’t even understand the concept of life outside of sleeping, eating and studying. I am honestly not even trolling when I say nobody has ever invited me out to make plans with me. I spoke to a cbt therapist and all she did was yap about “changing my thought process” and said she wouldn’t be able to help me make friends by understanding social cues or that sort of thing.

I hate it when NTs tell me not to mask when they themselves are repulsed by austists, people don’t like autistic people, why can’t we all just understand this. The only way is to mask, that is the only way and nobody tells me how to do this. All I want to know is what I am doing wrong and what I need to do.

 

[rayane.thnjt]

js socialise

 

[incellooser]

Ive tried that and its just performative jestermaxxing. Honestly hate having to perform for others to approve and the exact same thing happnes, I never become their friends. They form friend groups and exclude me then they just become that half nice person who i see and make small talk to but never invite me out ever.

I have literally never been invited out somewhere ever in my life, It too me until about 14 to realise that people meet up often outside of school. I didn’t even understand the concept of life outside of sleeping, eating and studying. I am honestly not even trolling when I say nobody has ever invited me out to make plans with me. I spoke to a cbt therapist and all she did was yap about “changing my thought process” and said she wouldn’t be able to help me make friends by understanding social cues or that sort of thing.

I hate it when NTs tell me not to mask when they themselves are repulsed by austists, people don’t like autistic people, why can’t we all just understand this. The only way is to mask, that is the only way and nobody tells me how to do this. All I want to know is what I am doing wrong and what I need to do.

Yeah same bro, I’m 19 and have never been invited to a party or anything like that, if I make friends they eventually start excluding me, now I only have 1 friend who I only go to the gym with, no one else, i fucking hate it

 

[incellooser]

Ive tried that and its just performative jestermaxxing. Honestly hate having to perform for others to approve and the exact same thing happnes, I never become their friends. They form friend groups and exclude me then they just become that half nice person who i see and make small talk to but never invite me out ever.

I have literally never been invited out somewhere ever in my life, It too me until about 14 to realise that people meet up often outside of school. I didn’t even understand the concept of life outside of sleeping, eating and studying. I am honestly not even trolling when I say nobody has ever invited me out to make plans with me. I spoke to a cbt therapist and all she did was yap about “changing my thought process” and said she wouldn’t be able to help me make friends by understanding social cues or that sort of thing.

I hate it when NTs tell me not to mask when they themselves are repulsed by austists, people don’t like autistic people, why can’t we all just understand this. The only way is to mask, that is the only way and nobody tells me how to do this. All I want to know is what I am doing wrong and what I need to do.

Well if u need someone to talk to I’m open bro

 

[EugenicsIsLaw]

Well if u need someone to talk to I’m open bro

Thanks bhai. Empathy in .org, rare.

 

[EugenicsIsLaw]

Yeah same bro, I’m 19 and have never been invited to a party or anything like that, if I make friends they eventually start excluding me, now I only have 1 friend who I only go to the gym with, no one else, i fucking hate it

I am also 19. I hate knowing that my life is slowly going away ans I am meant to be living my best years yet I don’t experience anything but misery whilst I see everyone else having fun. Normies have their minds occupied with what they will do in the weekend or next holiday, they would not be able to survive 2 weeks of my life.

 

[incellooser]

I am also 19. I hate knowing that my life is slowly going away ans I am meant to be living my best years yet I don’t experience anything but misery whilst I see everyone else having fun. Normies have their minds occupied with what they will do in the weekend or next holiday, they would not be able to survive 2 weeks of my life.

True yeah, I live day by day with nothing to look forward too, it’s just an endless cycle

 

[jeremyy]

I have social anxiety and probably have autism.

For NTs: How do people recognise someone is autistic? How do you recognise it, what are the signs that they give away?

For NDs: How can I mask my autism and blend in with normies? Why can everyone almost sense it in me even when I try to mask or “be myself” I still seem to give it away and nobody wants to befriend me. I have never been in an LTR with a woman but I am successful at getting hookups.

You dont

 

[AleksandR12]

Doesnt work plus retarded non sustainable solution

short term solution like when u go out or sum but yeah for daily use pretty retarded