luuk
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More and more I’m realising that my looks aren’t capping me at all I’ve got a lot of IOIs recently I’m just too high inhibition to do anything if they don’t make a move or overtly signal me to do so which is why literally every sexual encounter I’ve had was drunk and partially initiated by the girl
Pharmacology is COPE for this purpose its not sustainable, you won’t always be intoxicated (I don’t just want to pull in the club I actually wanna BE low inhibition) they’re bad for your health and a looksmin over time (yes even the trendy niche alcohol alternative GABAergics you guys always sperg out about) and they don’t even work very well at least not for me.
I get that its psychological but how do I fix it? I don’t even have social anxiety its just an incredibly rigid ND self-policing system ingrained in my neurocircuitry. I can talk to people fine its just that I have a cop in my mind stopping me from doing anything inappropriate or vunerable (which is absolutely necessary to get a girl) and my attempts at ignoring it hasn’t worked, probably because the “first step” is too big every time, evidently I need to be gradual with it. Does anyone have any experience with this?
Pharmacology is COPE for this purpose its not sustainable, you won’t always be intoxicated (I don’t just want to pull in the club I actually wanna BE low inhibition) they’re bad for your health and a looksmin over time (yes even the trendy niche alcohol alternative GABAergics you guys always sperg out about) and they don’t even work very well at least not for me.
I get that its psychological but how do I fix it? I don’t even have social anxiety its just an incredibly rigid ND self-policing system ingrained in my neurocircuitry. I can talk to people fine its just that I have a cop in my mind stopping me from doing anything inappropriate or vunerable (which is absolutely necessary to get a girl) and my attempts at ignoring it hasn’t worked, probably because the “first step” is too big every time, evidently I need to be gradual with it. Does anyone have any experience with this?