How good looking do you have to be to get approached by girls?

[heedandfail]

I'm not a chad or anything so this doesn't happen to me? Only been messaged may 5 times first out of hundreds of matches. How good-looking do you actually have to be to get approached first in person? I feel like it happens but definitely not as common as some on this form lead you to believe. Girls are high inhib asf and scared of rejection so even if you are super good looking I doubt it's common you get approached by good looking women.

 

[New Poster]

You need to be at least top 25% or have status

 

[heedandfail]

You need to be at least top 25% or have status

Top 25% huh. You actually believe these guys are just getting approached by random, SOBER, girls? Or only at drinking spots. I don't go out and drink, maybe I should

 

[Foreverbrad]

I would say top 2-3% from observation. To be honest I’ve literally never seen a guy do a cold approach either though.

 

[Enfant terrible]

I'm not a chad or anything so this doesn't happen to me? Only been messaged may 5 times first out of hundreds of matches. How good-looking do you actually have to be to get approached first in person? I feel like it happens but definitely not as common as some on this form lead you to believe. Girls are high inhib asf and scared of rejection so even if you are super good looking I doubt it's common you get approached by good looking women.

Not that good looking mabye a 6/10.
I was out with women and the boys before and the guys women approach are not that good looking like chad.
The guys i went out with and i are also not that good looking but above average and most of us got approached before.

 

[heedandfail]

I would say top 2-3% from observation. To be honest I’ve literally never seen a guy do a cold approach either though.

I've cold approached like 3 times. 1 ending in a number. next two had boyfriends. Kids on this sub who have never approached don't understand that every girl at the time you approach is sexually available. A lot of girls will be taken, or their pet died, or literally anything could be a reason. It's a numbers game at the end of the day and I cringe every time i see kids on here with the mindset of if you are good looking enough literally EVERY girl will be available and fuck you. Just not the case

 

[heedandfail]

Not that good looking mabye a 6/10.

I think higher than that, but depends on what setting. Drunk girls at the club or in broad daylight sober

 

[Enfant terrible]

I think higher than that, but depends on what setting. Drunk girls at the club or in broad daylight sober

I was out with women and the boys before and the guys women approach are not that good looking like chad.
The guys I went out with and I are also not that good looking but above average and most of us got approached before.

 

[Foreverbrad]

I've cold approached like 3 times. 1 ending in a number. next two had boyfriends. Kids on this sub who have never approached don't understand that every girl at the time you approach is sexually available. A lot of girls will be taken, or their pet died, or literally anything could be a reason. It's a numbers game at the end of the day and I cringe every time i see kids on here with the mindset of if you are good looking enough literally EVERY girl will be available and fuck you. Just not the case

Yeah, having a boyfriend won’t stop them if you’re Chad JFL

 

[Enfant terrible]

I think higher than that, but depends on what setting. Drunk girls at the club or in broad daylight sober

I got approached in broad daylight like two times. Its defiently rare.

 

[heedandfail]

I was out with women and the boys before and the guys women approach are not that good looking like chad.
The guys i went out with and i are also not that good looking but above average and most of us got approached before.

NT tbh that you have a group of decent-looking boys to go out with. don't have that, unfortunately. and boys i do have aren't into that lifestyle.

How often when you go out, do you actually see a guy who looks like chad? These guys are actually rare af IRL and most women are not going to be able to interact with him so they setting for slightly less for the night

 

[heedandfail]

Yeah, having a boyfriend won’t stop them if you’re Chad JFL

Depends on the girl? If she's really into the relationship fuck no you'd be surprised. If she's promiscuous or the relationship is shit then yeah everything is situational. Also a chad approaching a girl IRL is rare af because chads IRL are also rare af

 

[heedandfail]

I got approached in broad daylight like two times. Its defiently rare.

rare af tbh

 

[Allornothing]

MTN minimum to be approached rarely in bars/clubs. Chadlite minimum to be approached rarely in public.

 

[heedandfail]

MTN minimum to be approached rarely in bars/clubs. Chadlite minimum to be approached rarely in public.

This sounds most realistic tbh. It's the rarely part. Guys on here think if you are a certain lookslevel that as soon as you step outside girls witll approach. shit don't work like that.

 

[New Poster]

Top 25% huh. You actually believe these guys are just getting approached by random, SOBER, girls? Or only at drinking spots. I don't go out and drink, maybe I should

Yeah, probably something like this. It might be more subtle at the lower end of that range. It might be girls asking a stupid question out of nowhere, but you will get something if you're out enough. It will be more obvious when you're toward the top. Girls will give you phone numbers, be more obvious about it, etc.

 

[Enfant terrible]

This sounds most realistic tbh. It's the rarely part. Guys on here think if you are a certain lookslevel that as soon as you step outside girls witll approach. shit don't work like that.

Yeah, my brother was pretty good looking in his youth like a chadlite and I was out with him often.
Alot of iois but no approaches during daylight.

 

[Enfant terrible]

NT tbh that you have a group of decent-looking boys to go out with. don't have that, unfortunately. and boys i do have aren't into that lifestyle.

How often when you go out, do you actually see a guy who looks like chad? These guys are actually rare af IRL and most women are not going to be able to interact with him so they setting for slightly less for the night

I try to go out once a week if i can because old is not for me tbh.
I max see a chadlite outside in a 1 mio city. Never saw a actual psl chad so far in the party district.

 

[fukmylyf]

im htn, get approached often, but also get IODs. Probably 50/50 tbh. Things were much better for me before the pandemic

 

[Allornothing]

Also just remembered you can’t look low trust or it’s over.

 

[St.TikTokcel]

I'm not a chad or anything so this doesn't happen to me? Only been messaged may 5 times first out of hundreds of matches. How good-looking do you actually have to be to get approached first in person? I feel like it happens but definitely not as common as some on this form lead you to believe. Girls are high inhib asf and scared of rejection so even if you are super good looking I doubt it's common you get approached by good looking women.

6 PSL

 

[heedandfail]

I try to go out once a week if i can because old is not for me tbh.
I max see a chadlite outside in a 1 mio city. Never saw a actual psl chad so far in the party district.

yes bro its rare af to see a true chad. That's why the psl scale doesn't transfer over to real world. Chad lites and HTN are more common and I see them with cute girls all the time

 

[heedandfail]

im htn, get approached often, but also get IODs. Probably 50/50 tbh. Things were much better for me before the pandemic

Why, did you put on weight over the pandemic?

 

[Orc]

you only need to be neutral facially to be approached but you do need features that halo you.

 

[heedandfail]

you only need to be neutral facially to be approached but you do need features that halo you.

Like height, frame or you mean facial features that halo you

 

[cytoplasm]

Considering ive been approached before, not that good looking

 

[heedandfail]

Considering ive been approached before, not that good looking

Explain, in detail. At a bar, at a store? She came up and said something blatant like you're cute or just made conversation?

 

[PointOfNoReturn]

PSL 6

 

[cytoplasm]

Explain, in detail. At a bar, at a store? She came up and said something blatant like you're cute or just made conversation?

Once at a doctor's office, once at a bus stop. Both times was asked for my name. I was a teen back then and the girls were around my age

 

[fukmylyf]

Why, did you put on weight over the pandemic?

no. idk why, maybe i just look older

 

[Orc]

Like height, frame or you mean facial features that halo you

all of the above.

you can have a mostly neutral features with some that stand out, most models are like this, they're not necessarily handsome but they've got something that draws in attention.

being approachable is mostly about not having any negative features, rather than positive features.

 

[Deleted member 13626]

I’m HTN both rated by psl autists and normies etc so i’m not average 5/10 but i don’t think im that special like 7 or 8

But i got ratings varying from 6 to 7 . Highest being 8, lowest being 5 . Most were 6 Depends on the eye of the beholder.

I got cold approached by htbs and lower at school and obvs theyre sober. Never seen a stacylite or stacy so can’t tell

Tldr: depends on lots of factors. Just be above average sexappealmaxxed to some extent and don’t be a manlet and dress well worked for me.

 

[heedandfail]

I’m HTN both rated by psl autists and normies etc so i’m not average 5/10 but i don’t think im that special like 7 or 8

But i got ratings varying from 6 to 7 . Highest being 8, lowest being 5 . Most were 6 Depends on the eye of the beholder.

I got cold approached by htbs and lower at school and obvs theyre sober. Never seen a stacylite or stacy so can’t tell

Tldr: depends on lots of factors. Just be above average sexappealmaxxed to some extent and don’t be a manlet and dress well worked for me.

That lit brah, what's a manlet to you? I'm 5'10

 

[heedandfail]

all of the above.

you can have a mostly neutral features with some that stand out, most models are like this, they're not necessarily handsome but they've got something that draws in attention.

being approachable is mostly about not having any negative features, rather than positive features.

huh, thats interesting so you're saying just dont have any big flaws

 

[Deleted member 13626]

That lit brah, what's a manlet to you? I'm 5'10

You have a good height. Some girls may consider it tall. Funmy enough is that the shorter the girl, the less impressed she will be with 5’10. Had a htb that was 5’9-5’10 say i’m tall even tho she was close to my height jfl

Manlet i think is anyone below 5’8-5’9 but it depends on the countrys average

 

[fauxfox]

Getting approached by women is really rare since they're scared of looking desperate

 

[Hero of the Imperium]

interesting

 

[heedandfail]

You have a good height. Some girls may consider it tall. Funmy enough is that the shorter the girl, the less impressed she will be with 5’10. Had a htb that was 5’9-5’10 say i’m tall even tho she was close to my height jfl

Manlet i think is anyone below 5’8-5’9 but it depends on the countrys average

I'm from US so maybe average or slightly above average. That's good though, school is easy mode to be honest

 

[Orc]

Getting approached by women is really rare since they're scared of looking desperate

depends on your age demographic, younger women will never approach you and only ever give you glances, but if you're in your later twenties you will start to be approached by the more desperate women around that age.

 

[badamj]

It’s rare but it happens, I’ve seen it. Two girls came up to someone I knew and introduced themselves to him

 

[heedandfail]

It’s rare but it happens, I’ve seen it. Two girls came up to someone I knew and introduced themselves to him

In school, bar, out and about?

 

[badamj]

In school, bar, out and about?

At uni campus in day time

And another time at the mall

 

[thereallegend]

quit thinkin like this and be nt

 

[AlexAP]

 

[HarrierDuBois]

I have been cold approached 2 times, and warm approached many times and I'm average.

 

[the BULL]

quit thinkin like this and be nt

NT doesn't matter i could literally spit on a girl and she would still be DTF

 

[Deleted member 23157]

Only average or below average will do it in rare cases. Good looking girls will never approach.

 

[sergeant blackpill]

I think higher than that, but depends on what setting. Drunk girls at the club or in broad daylight sober

i got approached once in broad daylight and once in the club, in broad daylight there was a JB who asked for my snap, and in the club a random foid dragged me up to the dancefloor while i was minding my own business.

 

[Magnum Opus]

Getting approached by women is really rare since they're scared of looking desperate

I commented that on a subreddit of a twitch streamer and another guy replied with the "surely" emoji. Fucking normies.

I'd just like to smack some redditors right in the face, especially with their big egos while looking LTN, those guys think it's a win if a LTB approached them once in their life, wtf nobody cares about them.
It's the same guys that like to believe they mog "looksmaxxers" because they think everyone is incel here while their LTB girlfriend canceled their date 5mins ago.

 

[Deleted member 23157]

Last time women approach me when I was 16 years old.. one time in street and couple of times in school... People here where I live are not very social creatures.. So ITS Extremely rare.