gymcelled
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Holy shit guys I’m literally buzzing. My life has never been this good.
I was always bullied, shy, quiet, weird, no friend, nerd etc. Literally torturous childhood and teens.
Now I’m 20 and for the first time I finally feel alive.
What changed? I literally just stopped giving a fuck and overthinking.
“Oh but you can’t just stop overthinking, it’s in your brain!!” - Yes u literally can.
I would never do anything with the few friends I had, because I always worried how it could go bad, I’d embarrass myself blah blah blah
Now I jump at any occasion I get. How? I literally just do the opposite of what I would usually do.
“Lets go to the pool tomorrow” What I’d usually think - Ohhh but what if I can’t swim well and they’ll be bothered by me…
SHUT THE FUCK UP. Literally stop thinking and say “Fuck yeah why not”
It will turn out somehow. This is the best shit you can do as an overthinker. Literally just be rational and understand that you won’t fucking die, so no matter what happens, it will be fine.
If you have good people around you they’ll always accept you how you are and laugh by ur side, not at you.
I’ve done more fun things these past few months, than I have in the past 20 years.
Also - stress (cortisol) is killing ur fucking life. Always so stressed… What if… I’m unsure… I can’t choose… What will happen… STFU.
Stress is literally worse than cancer, because there is no help for it and no one takes it seriously. It will fuck ur skin, your health, your emotions, literally everything.
How do you stop stressing? STOP CARING SO MUCH. Stop caring about what others think of u. Stop caring about the little tiny things. Stop fucking worrying so much.
Let your life happen. Ofc take action. But don’t stress it so much.
Last few things that helped me A LOT:
Cut ur long hair. Ive had long hair for the past 6-7 years, and recently I finally had it cut. When they say hair carries memories or some shit. Its true. I feel like a different human being.
The music you listen to dictates your mood.
Some of you mfs underestimate this SO much.
You listen to depressed music and ur surprised that ur life is shit? RETARD.
Listen to some summer house bangers. Listen to justin bieber, pitbull… All these dance-vibe songs will literally turn ur entire day around. How can u be sad when theres a banger playing dude…
That’s about it. Be happy guys. Happiness is so much more than looks. (unless u want a foid. which in 2025 wanting a gf … what r u doing
)
Ask me anything in the comments or tell me to kill myself - I won’t care because ur just random people that won’t affect my life whatsoever
Edit: one last thing. stop worrying about other people so much. few days ago my classmate told me “did u know our old classmate came out as gay??”
Like why the fuck do you care? Why are you wasting ur time and braincells on something so irrelevant to your life? Focus on yourself and your loved ones. No one else matters to you.
I was always bullied, shy, quiet, weird, no friend, nerd etc. Literally torturous childhood and teens.
Now I’m 20 and for the first time I finally feel alive.
What changed? I literally just stopped giving a fuck and overthinking.
“Oh but you can’t just stop overthinking, it’s in your brain!!” - Yes u literally can.
I would never do anything with the few friends I had, because I always worried how it could go bad, I’d embarrass myself blah blah blah
Now I jump at any occasion I get. How? I literally just do the opposite of what I would usually do.
“Lets go to the pool tomorrow” What I’d usually think - Ohhh but what if I can’t swim well and they’ll be bothered by me…
SHUT THE FUCK UP. Literally stop thinking and say “Fuck yeah why not”
It will turn out somehow. This is the best shit you can do as an overthinker. Literally just be rational and understand that you won’t fucking die, so no matter what happens, it will be fine.
If you have good people around you they’ll always accept you how you are and laugh by ur side, not at you.
I’ve done more fun things these past few months, than I have in the past 20 years.
Also - stress (cortisol) is killing ur fucking life. Always so stressed… What if… I’m unsure… I can’t choose… What will happen… STFU.
Stress is literally worse than cancer, because there is no help for it and no one takes it seriously. It will fuck ur skin, your health, your emotions, literally everything.
How do you stop stressing? STOP CARING SO MUCH. Stop caring about what others think of u. Stop caring about the little tiny things. Stop fucking worrying so much.
Let your life happen. Ofc take action. But don’t stress it so much.
Last few things that helped me A LOT:
Cut ur long hair. Ive had long hair for the past 6-7 years, and recently I finally had it cut. When they say hair carries memories or some shit. Its true. I feel like a different human being.
The music you listen to dictates your mood.
Some of you mfs underestimate this SO much.
You listen to depressed music and ur surprised that ur life is shit? RETARD.
Listen to some summer house bangers. Listen to justin bieber, pitbull… All these dance-vibe songs will literally turn ur entire day around. How can u be sad when theres a banger playing dude…
That’s about it. Be happy guys. Happiness is so much more than looks. (unless u want a foid. which in 2025 wanting a gf … what r u doing
)Ask me anything in the comments or tell me to kill myself - I won’t care because ur just random people that won’t affect my life whatsoever
Edit: one last thing. stop worrying about other people so much. few days ago my classmate told me “did u know our old classmate came out as gay??”
Like why the fuck do you care? Why are you wasting ur time and braincells on something so irrelevant to your life? Focus on yourself and your loved ones. No one else matters to you.
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