How is losing close family member

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It's never happened to me yet but it is inevitable of course


what will it be like?
 
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Wait and see.
 
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When my uncle accidentally shot himself or my grand parents died from both sides I just felt empty for a couple of days
 
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I lost my dad at three and don’t even remember his death but I think abt him everyday
Sometimes I’ll see his face in my brother and feel like he lives through him lol
 
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When my uncle accidentally shot himself or my grand parents died from both sides I just felt empty for a couple of days
Rest In Peace to them all
 
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How do you usually cope with things? I can't imagine myself tearing up and crying even if my parents died, not because I don't love them; I love them as much as one can, but because I'm not an expressive person like that.

The closest I got was losing a family member which I interacted with once every month or two, so not a super close one, but still regular enough for me to miss them. I felt empty for a day, then moved on, when I think about them I still feel a bit empty, as if somethings missing in my chest, but that's about it.
 
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my paternal grandfather died when I was visiting my dad's side of family in new Zealand when I was 7. I didn't really speak to him much because I was a really shy and quiet kid, so I didn't build much emotional attachment. when he died though, I just remember feeling really indifferent and numb about it.
 
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i lost my cousin (best friend) over a fight a couple months ago, we don’t talk anymore & it still hurts to this day✌🏻💔
 
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Painful, none of my family member have died
Just no contact
 
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