
DwayneWhite55
I'm 39 and stfu about Asia
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After my x wife finally left me,I tried the online dating scene. And it was just hard as fuck. I got so many horror stories from women. Ones that have scarred the shit out of me.
But I turned into a true cel at some point. They tell you to keep trying,it's a numbers game. If one rejects you don't let it phase you,try again. It's all bullshit really. Looks aren't really subjective.
The only places I can try for women are online,which I can't get any to respond to me or actually want to talk to me. At work where I'm scared to even attempt anymore but I have. And public places by myself? Which I don't have the balls to do that and take a harsh rejection.
So let's say I lower my standards, I'm 39 ill take about anything ALMOST. I go for girls I think I should be able to get. But no,they say they have a boyfriend, they say they aren't looking right now,they have horrible shitty bitchy personality. Or maybe they talk real nice it doesn't matter they will say they aren't looking for anything.
Then you see girls with guys at my job and I think he's not better then me,but yet there he is with this girl. She would never leave him for me,if I was low inhibition I could try for her while she's not with her ugly boyfriend, but she would just tell him ,then there would be a physical confrontation or they'd try to get me fired from my job.
So you don't try for a long time to save your dignity and self esteem. You just watch porn and die to have a woman. Then you come across a really nice girl,she's holding eye contact she's smiling, she's talking to you. So you think this is your chance ,this might be attraction. So you try to get her number,oh no sorry I'm not looking for anything right now. You find out they was just being nice and just talking to you. So how you supposed to know when to make a Move? They just expect you to be a sexual?
The bad thing about being a guy is you get labeled a creep for trying. Women do not. They don't even have to try ,just be seen. And I'm talking about any age I'd go for a 50 year old woman,maybe 60 if she's kind of attractive and treats me well. But nope,doesn't matter the age. You are just stuck in this cycle of rejection.
It's hell on earth
But I turned into a true cel at some point. They tell you to keep trying,it's a numbers game. If one rejects you don't let it phase you,try again. It's all bullshit really. Looks aren't really subjective.
The only places I can try for women are online,which I can't get any to respond to me or actually want to talk to me. At work where I'm scared to even attempt anymore but I have. And public places by myself? Which I don't have the balls to do that and take a harsh rejection.
So let's say I lower my standards, I'm 39 ill take about anything ALMOST. I go for girls I think I should be able to get. But no,they say they have a boyfriend, they say they aren't looking right now,they have horrible shitty bitchy personality. Or maybe they talk real nice it doesn't matter they will say they aren't looking for anything.
Then you see girls with guys at my job and I think he's not better then me,but yet there he is with this girl. She would never leave him for me,if I was low inhibition I could try for her while she's not with her ugly boyfriend, but she would just tell him ,then there would be a physical confrontation or they'd try to get me fired from my job.
So you don't try for a long time to save your dignity and self esteem. You just watch porn and die to have a woman. Then you come across a really nice girl,she's holding eye contact she's smiling, she's talking to you. So you think this is your chance ,this might be attraction. So you try to get her number,oh no sorry I'm not looking for anything right now. You find out they was just being nice and just talking to you. So how you supposed to know when to make a Move? They just expect you to be a sexual?
The bad thing about being a guy is you get labeled a creep for trying. Women do not. They don't even have to try ,just be seen. And I'm talking about any age I'd go for a 50 year old woman,maybe 60 if she's kind of attractive and treats me well. But nope,doesn't matter the age. You are just stuck in this cycle of rejection.
It's hell on earth