How many guys are actually like me? Never ending cycle of rejection

DwayneWhite55

DwayneWhite55

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After my x wife finally left me,I tried the online dating scene. And it was just hard as fuck. I got so many horror stories from women. Ones that have scarred the shit out of me.

But I turned into a true cel at some point. They tell you to keep trying,it's a numbers game. If one rejects you don't let it phase you,try again. It's all bullshit really. Looks aren't really subjective.

The only places I can try for women are online,which I can't get any to respond to me or actually want to talk to me. At work where I'm scared to even attempt anymore but I have. And public places by myself? Which I don't have the balls to do that and take a harsh rejection.

So let's say I lower my standards, I'm 39 ill take about anything ALMOST. I go for girls I think I should be able to get. But no,they say they have a boyfriend, they say they aren't looking right now,they have horrible shitty bitchy personality. Or maybe they talk real nice it doesn't matter they will say they aren't looking for anything.

Then you see girls with guys at my job and I think he's not better then me,but yet there he is with this girl. She would never leave him for me,if I was low inhibition I could try for her while she's not with her ugly boyfriend, but she would just tell him ,then there would be a physical confrontation or they'd try to get me fired from my job.

So you don't try for a long time to save your dignity and self esteem. You just watch porn and die to have a woman. Then you come across a really nice girl,she's holding eye contact she's smiling, she's talking to you. So you think this is your chance ,this might be attraction. So you try to get her number,oh no sorry I'm not looking for anything right now. You find out they was just being nice and just talking to you. So how you supposed to know when to make a Move? They just expect you to be a sexual?

The bad thing about being a guy is you get labeled a creep for trying. Women do not. They don't even have to try ,just be seen. And I'm talking about any age I'd go for a 50 year old woman,maybe 60 if she's kind of attractive and treats me well. But nope,doesn't matter the age. You are just stuck in this cycle of rejection.

It's hell on earth
 
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Just whoremax man. If you keep getting rejected don’t keep trying. Your virility decreases day by day and you’re 39, whoremaxxing is your best bet.
 
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Not many guys tbh, most men either stay with one woman, give up after divorce (so no rejections) or they luck out after a few trys and have another LTR/marriage. Never ending cycles of rejections are rare. Most guys would give up fast and cope with "All women are whores, I don't even need them."
 
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Not many guys tbh, most men either stay with one woman, give up after divorce (so no rejections) or they luck out after a few trys and have another LTR/marriage. Never ending cycles of rejections are rare. Most guys would give up fast and cope with "All women are whores, I don't even need them."
Yeah true,I've been strong and relentless in my life and just kept trying. Gets me nowhere really. But it's nothing but pain and torture. Life isn't supposed to be lived like this.
 
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I’ve been rejected time after time so I don’t bother with women at all anymore
 
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Just whoremax man. If you keep getting rejected don’t keep trying. Your virility decreases day by day and you’re 39, whoremaxxing is your best bet.
I figure you might as well watch porn,you get no validation from paying for it with a bunch of restrictions and she isn't even into you.
 
Is that u in avatar,?
 
I’ve been rejected time after time so I don’t bother with women at all anymore
I come across too many at work that's why I hate my job,I honestly rather have them be out of sight out of mind.
 
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Some guy morphed me twice,I don't know what happened to him
What do u resll look like sorry my typing is shit i live in a car and my phone is died so I'm using mg shitty old android pgone
 
What do u resll look like sorry my typing is shit i live in a car and my phone is died so I'm using mg shitty old android pgone
I'm not showing my picture again so it will be shown all over the forum again and talked shit about.
 
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Just whoremax man. If you keep getting rejected don’t keep trying. Your virility decreases day by day and you’re 39, whoremaxxing is your best bet.
Why wouldn't he keep trying? What has he got to lose anymore, nothing. You can't strike gold if you don't even try.
 
I'm not showing my picture again so it will be shown all over the forum again and talked shit about.
Pm me then so only I can talk shit about it jk bro I doubt u uglier than me
 
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I figure you might as well watch porn,you get no validation from paying for it with a bunch of restrictions and she isn't even into you.
No. Porn is literally the worst thing, it keeps you barely satisfied in your prison cell. No, that's no kind of life. Quit it for good, and you'll be forced to be innovative and charming to women to get your sexual pleasure. If you always have that option to just go home to jerk off, if she's not going to open up her legs instantly, are you really even going to try? Cut the safety nets and go all in.
 
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Why wouldn't he keep trying? What has he got to lose anymore, nothing. You can't strike gold if you don't even try.
It's a double edged sword though. Don't try and get nothing,or lose self esteem ,dignity ,and be called a ugly harrasser. Try online? And watch you waste your time and feel like shit
 
No. Porn is literally the worst thing, it keeps you barely satisfied in your prison cell. No, that's no kind of life. Quit it for good, and you'll be forced to be innovative and charming to women to get your sexual pleasure. If you always have that option to just go home to jerk off, if she's not going to open up her legs instantly, are you really even going to try? Cut the safety nets and go all in.
The last time I didn't watch porn I was in a homeless shelter lol it did me no good. But it's something I havnt really tried.
 
It's a double edged sword though. Don't try and get nothing,or lose self esteem ,dignity ,and be called a ugly harrasser. Try online? And watch you waste your time and feel like shit
Man can do wonders where there is no other option than to succeed. Quit porn and fapping, until you get it going with a woman. You'll find a way to get some woman excited, after all, those other ugly fucks did, too. You think they're some rocket scientists? No, they're dumb fucks just like you or me, if they can do it, so can you. And if you're trying to warm up a woman in dating app, don't say something from some ''how to get woman smoking with these texts'' article. Say something a bit cheeky like ''you up for some fun?''
 
Man can do wonders where there is no other option than to succeed. Quit porn and fapping, until you get it going with a woman. You'll find a way to get some woman excited, after all, those other ugly fucks did, too. You think they're some rocket scientists? No, they're dumb fucks just like you or me, if they can do it, so can you. And if you're trying to warm up a woman in dating app, don't say something from some ''how to get woman smoking with these texts'' article. Say something a bit cheeky like ''you up for some fun?''
It's something to think about doing ,don't know how good I'll do on it ,thanks though
 
Maybe I am idk. The only positive is I'm young
 
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It's something to think about doing ,don't know how good I'll do on it ,thanks though
Now this seems to be your problem. You think about doing something, instead of just doing it. What the hell have you got to lose?
 
Maybe I am idk. The only positive is I'm young
If you are young you got some potential. Looksmaxing is a real thing and I did it. In high-school I went through a period I tried growing my hair long like my dad,cause he used to slay with long hippie hair. I was really skinny because of medical problems. And my teeth crowded on me ,I went through a period I was 18 and looked 40 or something.

Then I got braces , start cutting my hair shorter and trying to get good hair cuts ,I gained a little weight,and start working out at the gym. I started to look cute for a 5'7 guy. And soon as I did I met my x wife and she threatened suicide if she didn't have me. But I didn't have a career so I fucked up. And wasted valuable time.

When you are young you can have goals and achieve them ,you don't have child support ruining your life and taking your license away from you. You can do any type of trade or schooling,but don't get into debt with it or they won't let you back in. I wish I could hit the reset button on my life.
 
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Now this seems to be your problem. You think about doing something, instead of just doing it. What the hell have you got to lose?
Nothing,that's why I'm considering trying it. I've been thinking I need to clean my life up I got some addictions that fuck my life up. Like cigarettes, pop ,internet . But it's hard, when you are just so used to doing everything like you are wired to do it.
 
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Why wouldn't he keep trying? What has he got to lose anymore, nothing. You can't strike gold if you don't even try.
Well I figured it’d save him his time and energy. At 39 most men are almost universally undesirable for their looks. Only status, money and model tier looks can save you at that age, which clearly isn’t the case for OP. But I suppose you’re also right.
 
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I’ve been rejected time after time so I don’t bother with women at all anymore
You’ll get a cute lightskin with a perfect ass one day, we all will…

 
After my x wife finally left me,I tried the online dating scene. And it was just hard as fuck. I got so many horror stories from women. Ones that have scarred the shit out of me.

But I turned into a true cel at some point. They tell you to keep trying,it's a numbers game. If one rejects you don't let it phase you,try again. It's all bullshit really. Looks aren't really subjective.

The only places I can try for women are online,which I can't get any to respond to me or actually want to talk to me. At work where I'm scared to even attempt anymore but I have. And public places by myself? Which I don't have the balls to do that and take a harsh rejection.

So let's say I lower my standards, I'm 39 ill take about anything ALMOST. I go for girls I think I should be able to get. But no,they say they have a boyfriend, they say they aren't looking right now,they have horrible shitty bitchy personality. Or maybe they talk real nice it doesn't matter they will say they aren't looking for anything.

Then you see girls with guys at my job and I think he's not better then me,but yet there he is with this girl. She would never leave him for me,if I was low inhibition I could try for her while she's not with her ugly boyfriend, but she would just tell him ,then there would be a physical confrontation or they'd try to get me fired from my job.

So you don't try for a long time to save your dignity and self esteem. You just watch porn and die to have a woman. Then you come across a really nice girl,she's holding eye contact she's smiling, she's talking to you. So you think this is your chance ,this might be attraction. So you try to get her number,oh no sorry I'm not looking for anything right now. You find out they was just being nice and just talking to you. So how you supposed to know when to make a Move? They just expect you to be a sexual?

The bad thing about being a guy is you get labeled a creep for trying. Women do not. They don't even have to try ,just be seen. And I'm talking about any age I'd go for a 50 year old woman,maybe 60 if she's kind of attractive and treats me well. But nope,doesn't matter the age. You are just stuck in this cycle of rejection.

It's hell on earth
Are you gym maxxed
 
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Yeah true,I've been strong and relentless in my life and just kept trying. Gets me nowhere really. But it's nothing but pain and torture. Life isn't supposed to be lived like this.
Yes what i was telling you the whole time, find another way always.
 
I feel you Dwayne I have the same problems
 
never approached a woman tbh so i dont know. but I would expect that too. I'm already mentally unstable anyway, it would only fuck me up even more mentally.
 
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you're the same age as him, you should follow his path, mog and whore-maxing


but that's really brutal especially with your face, i can't even see you getting respected by other men
Honestly yeah,it's weird because some times guys will act cool with me, but just size alone they get cocky ,I've stood up for myself plenty. But it's nothing like the disrespect I get online. But I do get disrespect from a lot of customers because they figure they can get away with it.
 
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After my x wife finally left me,I tried the online dating scene. And it was just hard as fuck. I got so many horror stories from women. Ones that have scarred the shit out of me.

But I turned into a true cel at some point. They tell you to keep trying,it's a numbers game. If one rejects you don't let it phase you,try again. It's all bullshit really. Looks aren't really subjective.

The only places I can try for women are online,which I can't get any to respond to me or actually want to talk to me. At work where I'm scared to even attempt anymore but I have. And public places by myself? Which I don't have the balls to do that and take a harsh rejection.

So let's say I lower my standards, I'm 39 ill take about anything ALMOST. I go for girls I think I should be able to get. But no,they say they have a boyfriend, they say they aren't looking right now,they have horrible shitty bitchy personality. Or maybe they talk real nice it doesn't matter they will say they aren't looking for anything.

Then you see girls with guys at my job and I think he's not better then me,but yet there he is with this girl. She would never leave him for me,if I was low inhibition I could try for her while she's not with her ugly boyfriend, but she would just tell him ,then there would be a physical confrontation or they'd try to get me fired from my job.

So you don't try for a long time to save your dignity and self esteem. You just watch porn and die to have a woman. Then you come across a really nice girl,she's holding eye contact she's smiling, she's talking to you. So you think this is your chance ,this might be attraction. So you try to get her number,oh no sorry I'm not looking for anything right now. You find out they was just being nice and just talking to you. So how you supposed to know when to make a Move? They just expect you to be a sexual?

The bad thing about being a guy is you get labeled a creep for trying. Women do not. They don't even have to try ,just be seen. And I'm talking about any age I'd go for a 50 year old woman,maybe 60 if she's kind of attractive and treats me well. But nope,doesn't matter the age. You are just stuck in this cycle of rejection.

It's hell on earth
Get a mail order bride from Philippines
 
Honestly yeah,it's weird because some times guys will act cool with me, but just size alone they get cocky ,I've stood up for myself plenty. But it's nothing like the disrespect I get online. But I do get disrespect from a lot of customers because they figure they can get away with it.
I looked at that guy's page and he's built and looks like he's on roids , and I've thought about gym maxing but I just don't have the energy really to do it with how shitty my life is and working a full time Job. I've lifted before and tried to lose weight and I looked uglier and puny looking.
 
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