How many irl friends do you guys have?

WonkyChin186 said:
1

used to be 4 but I have the most insane ridiculous stories ever
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im ngl for the friends i had i never lost them from conflict
idk maybe im a pushover
 
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isis_Bleach said:
damn i always just ate alone and used my phone
never felt embarassed of it
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stems from self-conscious
just thinking about ppl seeing me alone eating lunch makes me think they'll view me as pathetic and a loser
guarantee nobody cared but ye
 
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Shirobon said:
stems from self-conscious
just thinking about ppl seeing me alone eating lunch makes me think they'll view me as pathetic and a loser
guarantee nobody cared but ye
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just try get yourself out there more dude meet new people and just be more confident
 
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Goldenboy. said:
just try get yourself out there more dude meet new people and just be more confident
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would be easy if i was in public school but not a lot of chances outside ig
 
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like ones i'd regularly go out with like 7
 
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Like 5 close ones
 
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proxxyy11 said:
inevitable, but you have to think of the brighter side


wasn't kinda implying that you were, but i'm sure it made you 100x more nice to people, also you don't have an annoying personality. i've always thought that too (because most of my friends eventually distanced themselves from me after a bit, which is one of the worst feelings you can have), but you're always going to find someone who will always love you and your company


i was popular because i wasn't socially anxious, i realized to actually be friends with people i had to talk to everyone and stop being an introverted chud. so i literally went up to everyone, talked to them, made jokes (both to them, and in class), and eventually everyone just knew my name and i made lots of friends

i think saying popular is the wrong term now that i think about it, i was just well-known. popular usually implies being a bully somewhat

also i kind of fit in with everyone, once i put forth my personality: i was semi-smart so i hung out with the autistic chinese nerds whenever i could, i wasn't really sporty but i was in a lot of sport clubs (mostly so i can just talk to new people), and i was just funny/used to ldar in the library on my phone and just talk to randoms in my school with my friend group (that consisted of 5 people) (and made fun of people behind their backs)

i used to go too far with the jokes to the point where i've been suspended once (didn't go on my record, but yea)

+ i did all of this when i wasn't really good looking either, which was kinda crazy (since most people cope that looks are what is holding them back from making a lot of friends)

this all stemmed from realizing that i'll be a lonely loser with nothing to live for if i continued to be an antisocial chud and complain about my life 24/7


rant, probably a dnr, but yea just wanted to say that lives can truly turn around socially if you try
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Yeah mirin, looks really don’t matter in highschool as much as everyone makes them out to be. It’s more about status, and who you’re friends with. I know ltns who have mtb girlfriends, meanwhile I know a lhtn who can’t even get a girlfriend because hes nd.
 
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mltn2mtn said:
Yeah mirin, looks really don’t matter in highschool as much as everyone makes them out to be. It’s more about status, and who you’re friends with. I know ltns who have mtb girlfriends, meanwhile I know a lhtn who can’t even get a girlfriend because hes nd.
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i dunno i feel like they matter a bit
 
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mltn2mtn said:
Yeah mirin, looks really don’t matter in highschool as much as everyone makes them out to be. It’s more about status, and who you’re friends with. I know ltns who have mtb girlfriends, meanwhile I know a lhtn who can’t even get a girlfriend because hes nd.
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though they do help you a lot in being popular, it really doesn't matter at the end of the day if your personality is almost top tier
 
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Shirobon said:
i dunno i feel like they matter a bit
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my nigga ofc u can't be hideous (people wouldn't wanna look at you) but atp it's just basic grooming and smelling good, unless you're a burn victim too

i promise you i wasn't even close to being average in hs but i was still popular
 
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proxxyy11 said:
though they do help you a lot in being popular, it really doesn't matter at the end of the day if your personality is almost top tier
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ye ive got such a bland personality sadly
 
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isis_Bleach said:
damn i always just ate alone and used my phone
never felt embarassed of it
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might be a good thing but pretty sure that's just low awareness. you should always be thinking about how others perceive you, so you're the best version of yourself

still a good thing in terms of happiness tho
 
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Two. Used to have a huge group in high school but that was ages ago.
 
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Shirobon said:
ye ive got such a bland personality sadly
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i didn't really have a good personality either, which is why (as i said) i didn't really talk to anyone or have a lot of friends to begin with

but personalitymaxxing is easy as fuck, you just have to put yourself out there in the first place, and then you'll slowly learn the rest and figure out how to make others like you
 
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psychopathic said:
but that was ages ago.
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weren't real friends then

you really only need 2 close friends (or even 1) in your life, more than that i'd argue is a distraction

but if they were your real friends, they'd either contact you to reunite or you'd do the contacting - but since you guys fell out right after high school that means your friendship wasn't really that tight-knit
 
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proxxyy11 said:
i didn't really have a good personality either, which is why (as i said) i didn't really talk to anyone or have a lot of friends to begin with

but personalitymaxxing is easy as fuck, you just have to put yourself out there in the first place, and then you'll slowly learn the rest and figure out how to make others like you
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yea ig im def gonna work on it :CarlosPls:
 
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proxxyy11 said:
weren't real friends then

you really only need 2 close friends (or even 1) in your life, more than that i'd argue is a distraction

but if they were your real friends, they'd either contact you to reunite or you'd do the contacting - but since you guys fell out right after high school that means your friendship wasn't really that tight-knit
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I graduated in 2016 and I robbed one of them at knife point because of stolen money. So no they weren't real friends. The friends I have now are, and they aren't from my high school.
 
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a lot of ppl I talk to at school but I have about 3 ppl I consistently hang out with outside of school
 
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Like 5 that I really fw
 
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Shirobon said:
i was also lowk the group punchingbag for jokes and insults
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because you were antisocial? why were you the punching bag? are you just ugly as fuck?

figure out what the reason is and fix it bro - but at the same time, they weren't your friends to begin with

if your "group" targets one person, then that just means they subconciously despise that person

yea in my friend group we made fun of each other, but it was to everyone, not one person. atp that's just weird

hope u realized that

Shirobon said:
ye maybe i am a little more empathetic bc ik first hand how lonely people can feel,
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see, at least you gained something out of it

Shirobon said:
just wish things could've went different in that year
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shouldn't be regretful about anything, i don't regret eating with my teachers and hiding from people in my school - it made me a stronger person

Shirobon said:
Yea i mean for most of highschool i was pretty antisocial
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are you different now? it all just happens when you learn to stop being so socially anxious, yea it's easier said than done - but it really is easy as fuck. at some point you just kinda have a breaking point, where you'd do anything to have a friend (which is what happened to me) so i literally went all out and talked to deadass everyone and tried to become friends with them, my anxiety just sort of became null
 
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psychopathic said:
I graduated in 2016 and I robbed one of them at knife point because of stolen money. So no they weren't real friends. The friends I have now are, and they aren't from my high school.
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aura, glad you dropped fake friends and know who your real friends are
 
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proxxyy11 said:
because you were antisocial? why were you the punching bag? are you just ugly as fuck?

figure out what the reason is and fix it bro - but at the same time, they weren't your friends to begin with

if your "group" targets one person, then that just means they subconciously despise that person

yea in my friend group we made fun of each other, but it was to everyone, not one person. atp that's just weird

hope u realized that


see, at least you gained something out of it


shouldn't be regretful about anything, i don't regret eating with my teachers and hiding from people in my school - it made me a stronger person


are you different now? it all just happens when you learn to stop being so socially anxious, yea it's easier said than done - but it really is easy as fuck. at some point you just kinda have a breaking point, where you'd do anything to have a friend (which is what happened to me) so i literally went all out and talked to deadass everyone and tried to become friends with them, my anxiety just sort of became null
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i dunno but it wasn't everyone from the friend group
and i just kinda payed no mind to it

i wouldn't say im different now im still socially anxious mostly because i haven't had enough exposure thanks to online school but I'll be getting a job soon so
 
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Shirobon said:
i dunno but it wasn't everyone from the friend group
and i just kinda payed no mind to it

i wouldn't say im different now im still socially anxious mostly because i haven't had enough exposure thanks to online school but I'll be getting a job soon so
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are you in college? high school?

i feel like jobs are the worst way to make friends since the age groups vary a lot, probably the first place to start becoming less socially anxious im ngl
 
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proxxyy11 said:
are you in college? high school?

i feel like jobs are the worst way to make friends since the age groups vary a lot, probably the first place to start becoming less socially anxious im ngl
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still in highschool
 
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