How many of your matches convert to meet ups ?

[Deleted member 7580]

I get lots of matches but few of them will meet up

Like 1 out of 50
I never message first , but 5-10 out of 50 would message first and then one of them would meet up

This is why I believe matches/sexual messages /flirting mean nothing , guys with experience like @Amnesia would agree. This is why Muh tinder experiments are cope

Now irl I can convert far more girls that give me iois into lays, like really % is sooo much higher , and if she approaches you first then it’ll be even easier

If you’re not a total autist then real life >>> online where she’s talking to 20-50 different guys at same time

 

[Deleted member 14160]

Kinda Low Iq thread. Meetup ratio is indicative of nothing.
chads like @Niko69 probably get around ~1%
and normies probably get higher.
Why? because niko has more meetups but has 100x more matches.

 

[AlexBrown84]

Kinda Low Iq thread. Meetup ratio is indicative of nothing.
chads like @Niko69 probably get around ~1%
and normies probably get higher.
Why? because niko has more meetups but has 100x more matches.

Incel cope

Just face it you’re non NT like me. we’re destined losers

 

[Niklaus Mikaelson]

Kinda Low Iq thread. Meetup ratio is indicative of nothing.
chads like @Niko69 probably get around ~1%
and normies probably get higher.
Why? because niko has more meetups but has 100x more matches.

Like you said, it's really a bad way of indicating wether you're good looking or not, I'll text 2-3 girls if I got time off in the evening when I'm done working and there's always one of them being free (although I do text the girls that texted me first and are closest which highly improves the ratio)

 

[Oberyn]

No old 1/2 1/3with girls I make out at club/bar. Girls are flakey as shit tho

 

[the BULL]

Kinda Low Iq thread. Meetup ratio is indicative of nothing.
chads like @Niko69 probably get around ~1%
and normies probably get higher.
Why? because niko has more meetups but has 100x more matches.

Meet up ratio as girls you would want to meet Is legit
Didn't measure mine but no point since i texted many girls Just for fun
Definitely higher than 1% though

 

[Deleted member 7580]

Kinda Low Iq thread. Meetup ratio is indicative of nothing.
chads like @Niko69 probably get around ~1%
and normies probably get higher.
Why? because niko has more meetups but has 100x more matches.

Idk man I feel like matches only convert to meetups quickly if I’m up and match with someone late at night and ask her to blaze or go for a cruise… otherwise it’s a cope

Real life mogs

 

[Broly]

ive never tried it cause its retarded for a guy like me to

 

[Deleted member 7580]

Also if a girl messages me at 2am and I reply back in the morning (bcz I was sleeping) then I usually never get to meet her lol @ForeverRecession @Niko69

Apps are cope

 

[Niklaus Mikaelson]

Also if a girl messages me at 2am and I reply back in the morning (bcz I was sleeping) then I usually never get to meet her lol @ForeverRecession @Niko69

Apps are cope

I usually finish work around 12-1 am and depending on which day of the week it still works, and when are you planning on seeing them if you're asleep

 

[Deleted member 7580]

I usually finish work around 12-1 am and depending on which day of the week it still works, and when are you planning on seeing them if you're asleep

I start work at 730-8 so sleeping at midnight, but when im not sleeping and reply back then they’d meet up
Otherwise if I reply back at 8 am then I usually don’t hear back from them

 

[the BULL]

I usually finish work around 12-1 am and depending on which day of the week it still works, and when are you planning on seeing them if you're asleep

Are you still meeting girls?

 

[Oberyn]

I start work at 730-8 so sleeping at midnight, but when im not sleeping and reply back then they’d meet up
Otherwise if I reply back at 8 am then I usually don’t hear back from them

I start work at 5 am I wake up at 3.30

 

[the BULL]

I start work at 730-8 so sleeping at midnight, but when im not sleeping and reply back then they’d meet up
Otherwise if I reply back at 8 am then I usually don’t hear back from them

At the end of the day Is still infinitely less of a struggle than approaching irl

 

[Niklaus Mikaelson]

Are you still meeting girls?

Haven't been for 5-6 weeks sadly, being quite busy with work

 

[Deleted member 18840]

Idk its really dependant. On bumble its easy 1/3 or smth

 

[Deleted member 7580]

At the end of the day Is still infinitely less of a struggle than approaching irl

Na

I can go out on weekend , makeout with few of them and hook up with one
Conversion ratio is much higher

Going out frequently is too expensive tho

 

[Deleted member 7580]

I start work at 5 am I wake up at 3.30

What type of work makes you come at 5 am ?

 

[Niklaus Mikaelson]

Na

I can go out on weekend , makeout with few of them and hook up with one
Conversion ratio is much higher

Going out frequently is too expensive tho

I must dissagre, I never go out with the intention of sleeping with anyone anymore, it's way easier to send 3 messeges and be at home, saves you a lot of time and you have a bigger pool to pick from

 

[Oberyn]

Na

I can go out on weekend , makeout with few of them and hook up with one
Conversion ratio is much higher

Going out frequently is too expensive tho

How is it expensive ? Unless you are playing table game

 

[the BULL]

Na

I can go out on weekend , makeout with few of them and hook up with one
Conversion ratio is much higher

Going out frequently is too expensive tho

Yeah but you have to go out, talk to them, eventually experience some IRL REJECTION (God forbid)
Can't be compared with Just talking while laying on your bed and meet her, Who cares if some ghosts you , still less painful than irl

 

[Deleted member 7580]

I must dissagre, I never go out with the intention of sleeping with anyone anymore, it's way easier to send 3 messeges and be at home, saves you a lot of time and you have a bigger pool to pick from

Flaking = rejection

Way higher rejection rate = messed up mental health

Also you’re drinking when going out so it’s fun anyways

 

[the BULL]

How is it expensive ? Unless you are playing table game

I mean if you're going to approach girls you're going to be in a club or a pub. In the streets while walking Is Just a no no

 

[Deleted member 7580]

How is it expensive ? Unless you are playing table game

Uber + if you’re drinking in the club (I don’t buy for anyone else tho)
Also cover

 

[Oberyn]

What type of work makes you come at 5 am ?

Construction. Mfs productivity decreases like 50% after 11am lol. I don’t mind tbh they pay good I’ll change my company in 3-4 months and I’ll be a cubiclecel.

 

[Niklaus Mikaelson]

Flaking = rejection

Way higher rejection rate = messed up mental health

Also you’re drinking when going out so it’s fun anyways

I honestly just prefer having a wine watch some Netflix and then hookup than spending money on transportation, entering fee and drinks outside, it's way easier for me as I won't be hungover the next day so I can still work from the morning. The only downside is the girls that don't want to leave or overstay. Haven't had a flake yet, quite hard when they're already in your apartment imo

 

[Oberyn]

Uber + if you’re drinking in the club (I don’t buy for anyone else tho)
Also cover

College clubs/bars don’t take cover here. I literally live in night life spot the best decision of my life. I only pay for drinks. Uber is a bitch tho they charge you 3x more at least on friday saturday nights

 

[Deleted member 7580]

I honestly just prefer having a wine watch some Netflix and then hookup than spending money on transportation, entering fee and drinks outside, it's way easier for me as I won't be hungover the next day so I can still work from the morning. The only downside is the girls that don't want to leave or overstay. Haven't had a flake yet, quite hard when they're already in your apartment imo

I mean flaking on plans before meeting you or stop replying after few messages

 

[Niklaus Mikaelson]

I mean flaking on plans before meeting you or stop replying after few messages

I guess I haven't had that issue yet, there's always one of the 3 girls I text that are down, are you texting people far away or people that don't text you first?

 

[the BULL]

I guess I haven't had that issue yet, there's always one of the 3 girls I text that are down, are you texting people far away or people that don't text you first?

he means the ones that ghost

 

[Niklaus Mikaelson]

he means the ones that ghost

Just ignore them and if they don't reply withing the 2-3 hours then focus on someone else unless they text back with an another date

 

[MoggerGaston]

Brutal NTpill @Biggdink

jfl at only being able to convert 1 out of 50 matches to a date. Your conversation skills must be brutally non-NT

NTpilled again

 

[Yliaster]

real life mogs in the sense that you have more leeway to demonstrate other values than you would online where they just have your pics to go off of.

 

[Deleted member 12234]

Actually meeting up? Maybe 1 of every 15-20+ women. Being offered to meet up? Maybe 1 out of every 5-6 women. I get a ton of offers but I don't always take the offer. I match with around 40+ women a week so it'd be unrealistic to meet up with 20% of them every week.

 

[Niklaus Mikaelson]

real life mogs in the sense that you have more leeway to demonstrate other values than you would online where they just have your pics to go off of.

Depends on if you're good at presenting yourself in your profile or better at presenting yourself irl

 

[LightSkinNoob]

Every 4-7 matches is a meet up for me

 

[Deleted member 7580]

I guess I haven't had that issue yet, there's always one of the 3 girls I text that are down, are you texting people far away or people that don't text you first?

Almost never message first, no don’t text people far away either

 

[Deleted member 7580]

Brutal NTpill @Biggdink

jfl at only being able to convert 1 out of 50 matches to a date. Your conversation skills must be brutally non-NT

NTpilled again

Idk man , I mean my conversion rate is 10x higher irl, I must be somewhat nt for that

 

[Deleted member 7580]

@Niko69 do you ask them to hangout first message or what ?

 

[Niklaus Mikaelson]

@Niko69 do you ask them to hangout first message or what ?

My bio says I need someone to watch peaky blinders with, so they usually just say text if I want to watch, then and reply that I'm free now

 

[Curry Suicide]

Actually meeting up? Maybe 1 of every 15-20+ women. Being offered to meet up? Maybe 1 out of every 5-6 women. I get a ton of offers but I don't always take the offer. I match with around 40+ women a week so it'd be unrealistic to meet up with 20% of them every week.

Nigger larp

 

[Deleted member 7580]

My bio says I need someone to watch peaky blinders with, so they usually just say text if I want to watch, then and reply that I'm free now

So small talk or anything ?

 

[Niklaus Mikaelson]

So small talk or anything ?

Nope, no small talk

 

[Deleted member 12234]

Nigger larp

Whatever floats your boat

 

[MoggerGaston]

Idk man , I mean my conversion rate is 10x higher irl, I must be somewhat nt for that

irl is non-NT. U have to be good in social-media and internet communication to be NT nowadays.

 

[Deleted member 7580]

Gig

irl is non-NT. U have to be good in social-media and internet communication to be NT nowadays.

Giga cope

That might just mean I’m not very attractive and lookz barely matter irl

 

[makeme183]

I honestly just prefer having a wine watch some Netflix and then hookup than spending money on transportation, entering fee and drinks outside, it's way easier for me as I won't be hungover the next day so I can still work from the morning. The only downside is the girls that don't want to leave or overstay. Haven't had a flake yet, quite hard when they're already in your apartment imo

niko,aren't you scared if a crazy girl/escort/scammer shows up at your place ? (escort will demand money after sex and create a ruckus if you don't pay)
also,what if its a 6 foot 200 pound gay guy larping as a girl , and he rapes you the moment you let him in ?(if you don't have a peep hole)
I generally meet up with girls for coffee/drinks first before inviting them back to my place

 

[Niklaus Mikaelson]

niko,aren't you scared if a crazy girl/escort/scammer shows up at your place ? (escort will demand money after sex and create a ruckus if you don't pay)
also,what if its a 6 foot 200 pound gay guy larping as a girl , and he rapes you the moment you let him in ?(if you don't have a peep hole)
I generally meet up with girls for coffee/drinks first before inviting them back to my place

I live in Denmark so it’s quite safe, also they have to pass 3 doors before they can enter my apartment l, where all of them have cameras outside so I can see who comes in. So I’ve never been scared about someone else showing up tbh, one time I left my watch collection in my apartment ( around 70k usd worth of watches) which I was a bit paranoid about not being there in the morning when I realized, but apart from that I haven’t been worried

Edit: added video - the watches are quite exposed as they’re in my main cabinet with my coffee machine in watch winders

 

[0kami123]

I never get flaked on if we plan to meetup but I get ghosted a lot.

 

[Foreverbrad]

Zero percent out of 100 matches on my 22yo tinder and 400 on my 35yo tinder lol.