How Social Media Ruined Love & Blackpilled Life [High IQ users GTFIH]

[HighIQ ubermensch]

Addressing Myself & Like Minded young people

Spoiler: Introduction

In this thread I would talk about people losing their naivety by taking the blackpill
I will be talking about both the pros & cons of taking the blackpill & I would also express my worries about future of blackpillers.
I will touch up on crafting a strategy centered around this newfound knowledge especially for the young one's.

Spoiler: Where it all started

Social media ruins it for everybody trying to find love because you have all these jaded bitter people misguiding & polluting children's mind.
You were supposed to search how to kiss & how to propose, not the dirty dating tricks & horror dating stories of old people.
You don't need to go through a heartbreak to become jaded nowdays.
You have all these Redpillers inducing avoidant anxious attachment style in impressionable teens.

You took the Blackpill,. It's already over for any hopes of "True Love". You are a eugenicist not a lover.

Spoiler: Blackpill Curse, No Going Back

I think the blessed are the one's who got into LTR in High School without watching social media.
Even If they break up they've already experienced "True Love".
They once thought they found the one, experienced comfort & love that was mythical.

Even if you get the time, you can't experience it because you simply can't just believe in it.
You know that Infatuation fades away, you can't just date & experience love for an year & start slaying.
You can't just have breakup in mind & experience mythical love.

You already know about how dating in 30s happen & you understand it.
You understand what old people are saying when they talk about dating.
It's not like before when you heard, "You don't know who's compatible with you until you date multiple people" & you found it stupid & nonsensical.
You heard about honeymoon stage but didn't put any thoughts to it.

• You do actually understand it now, you know how personality is shaped in childhood/by genetics (depends on what you believe).
• You know how arguments between couples happen & how some people are just compatible than others because of their neurochemistry.
• You know the importance & danger of Experience.
• You are weak because you aren't experienced but also too knowledgeable to be naive.
• You know what relationship skills actually are, You know how they're built, you can see it in action, you just don't possess it.
• Even If you're young & your piers might be naive, you can't experience what they can because you already know too much.4

there's no going back

• Spoiler: Price to Pay

  • Loss of innocence
  • Spending time in a dark part of internet
  • Spending precious money
  • The humiliation of being grifted by psychopathic Influencers
  • Studying about aesthetics like your life depends on it
  • being insecure about flaws others don't know exist
  • Going Under Knife
  • Feeling lost n lost
  • Then trying too hard to fit in society after you became ND because of Blackpill.

  [*]you can't fit in cuz you know your peers are stupid redpiller normies & you can't relate.
  You know you can only gain 50lb muscles after perfect 5 years training, you know haircuts aren't enough, you know clothes ain't it
  You know you won't become shredded ronaldo in 1 year of Training, you know genes, female gaze, you know what works.

Spoiler: Desire for Compensation/reward

You realize It's unfair for you to date below your looks level after you fantasize about surgeries & worry about your flaws while others don't.
You want rewards in exchange for misery & accepting uncomfortable truth.
For the price you payed

You will use all the tools in your arsenal

• STEROIDS
• SURGERIES
• MAKE-UP
• DRUGS & MEDICATIONS

wanting to absolutely obliterate the unaware one's
It's as if you found the cheat-code to life

@Clavicular is an example of this,
He doesn't use & explore substances to benefit from it but rather he wants compensation for being in this community.
He wants to believe taking blackpill was a blessing. He wants to believe he has a massive advantage over others.
He used it & got some benefits, he got a dopamine hit from it & wants more & more. He won't stop, He wants rhino & other surgeries to become better looking.


It's a brutal competition & you wanna do anything to get ahead.
You are ahead of bearded buzzcut ogres, acnecels, natty gymcels & the one's who don't use lifts.

Now you're good with identifying legitimate products & don't get grifted easily,
You're ahead of other not just in aesthetic knowledge but many other things simply by recognizing power of genetics.
You are realistic like a 30 years old because you know the IQ-Pill & Family-Pill, You won't fall for Get rich quick schemes & save your time.
You know the importance of youth, fun & connections. You won't spend your uni days grindin & hustling in some Get Rich Quick scam scheme.

You got some experience with acquiring exclusive stuff & you know how powerful & superior drugs are.

It's like liberation & reward for bearing all the discomfort, insecurities, low self-esteem & humiliation.
It's like the divine fruit of wisdom.

Limitations:

We don't know If this is the right path,
A lot of challenges are awaiting us

• Regrets about life choices
• Emptiness, Lack of Satisfaction
• Slippery slope & risks of Drugs, Steroids & Hardmaxxing
• Unknown Risks
• Overlooking other crucial aspects of life
• Failing to acquire resources or results & collapse of the plan.

I don't know If It's a blessing or a curse, but I would like your thoughts on it.

Spoiler: Tagging Philosophy Enthusiasts, will add more

@Zeekie

Inb4 untermensch replies (DNR, 0 etc.)

 

[nobodylovesme]

dnr

 

[HighIQ ubermensch]

dnr

 

[xyukeeee]

Dnrd but it might be a high iq thread

 

[HighIQ ubermensch]

bump

 

[Jager]

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[nobodylovesme]

Not a molecule

 

[PoopyFartGamer]

The concept of love itself is a jewish propaganda made to make men weak. We're animals, reproduction is a reward for the best individuals of the species. They made u believe and expect that a girl will love u even if ur an ugly loser bum bcs of some "muh true love".

 

[Zeekie]

I appreciate this analysis, this is essentially a black-pilled forum, so the bp is MASSIVELY glazed by its users without choosing to acknowledge its problems, just like any pill, the bp also has its issues. I'm definitely blackpilled, but I'd like to think that to some extent I avoid the major pitfalls of the philosophy, probably due to personal experience, I'm not ugly... but I'm not attractive either, I'd just say massively average, but I've thankfully had the chance to experience some early teenage love and subsequent relationships, so I never became naive enough to believe "if you're no chad you'll never find love", that's just a lie incels tell themselves to justify their inadequacy.

• So if you care this is my take:

The blackpill is built on the idea that once you know how things work (genetics, looks, status), it’s over. But that’s only true if you believe love has to be some mythical perfect thing. Yeah, social media made people cynical, but humans still crave connection no matter how much they intellectualize it and even if infatuation fades, people still build deep bonds over time. If you accept that love isn’t magic (which is the most realistic thing to do) but a mix of biology, timing and shared life, it stops feeling that "fake". Like, you don’t stop eating food just because you know how digestion works or what makes a food "delicious", maybe you get a new perspective on it, but you can still get pleasure out of the experience. Aside from not believing that love has to be this "Disney-like" perfect thing, my personal method is blissful ignorance, whenever I find myself in these nihilistic patterns, I just turn my brain off and choose to ignore it and ironically that works many times. I mean, the more we try to intellectualize stuff, the more disconnected from reality we become, the human experience is too complex to try and reduce it to a single formula, like trying to find Laplace’s Demon. But the human experience is too complex to fully model. Even if you understand all the biology (attraction, neurochemistry), psychology (attachment styles), and sociology (status, looks, competition), you still can’t completely predict or control how relationships will unfold.

Essentially the way I see it just existentialism rebranded, From a certain point of view you can equate the blue, black and redpill to certain philosophies (like Nietzche's nihilism, Camus' absurdism, etc.), thankfully philosophers have been debating these topics for hundreds of years coming to conclusions of their own to try and "deny" all of this hypothesis. My personal favorite is to just accept that people still want the experience, even if it’s partly fake, the world is absurd and trying to grapple with that fact is absurd onto itself, so why get worked up about? This obviously isn't the most "intellectually honest" response, but it's the one that will cause the least amount of suffering, so I suppose it has some merit.

That's as many thoughts as I have on the matter, beyond that, you're right, about everything.