How tf do you get mental damage from being an incel

[Deleted member 14303]

Like fr I don’t understand when people say “if you don’t lose virginity by 21 you will get PERMANENT mental damage” like your body knows exactly when you hit 21 your brain just starts eating shit, I don’t think it’s virginity that gives you mental damage I think it’s rotting all day and being lonely, having no human connection damages your brain which is what a lot of people do

 

[germanlooks]

I don’t think it’s virginity that gives you mental damage

For me it definitely is the main thing. Not being desired by the other gender gives you mental damage

 

[Matthias8272]

I assume it's because if you're unable to get women there's an underlying issue whether it be mental or physical, which will influence all aspects of someone's life causing mental damage

 

[Deleted member 275]

Like fr I don’t understand when people say “if you don’t lose virginity by 21 you will get PERMANENT mental damage” like your body knows exactly when you hit 21 your brain just starts eating shit, I don’t think it’s virginity that gives you mental damage I think it’s rotting all day and being lonely, having no human connection damages your brain which is what a lot of people do

obviously the mental damage comes over-time.

Also inceldom is more than just virginity lol. Imagine thinking that a 21yo CHAD that has girls giving him ioi's nonstop, but he is a virgin because of RELIGION.

Is in any way the same as an ugly guy that gets treated with disgust. And can't lose his virginity despite wanting to.

Obviously the second guy gets mentally damaged by this, while the first guy doesnt, despite both being virgins.

 

[aBetterMii]

Tbh depending on the person it can be permanent by not losing it before 18, but it really has to do with upbringing, if you have a shitty dad, you look for attention and affirmation from girls or guys you like, if you have a shitty mom you become a phsycopath serial killer, if you have good parents you are most likely not gonna need as much validation from peers

 

[Gonthar]

You just start going crazy little by little, until one day you wake up and are completely insane...

 

[Deleted member 14303]

if you have a shitty dad, you look for attention and affirmation from girls or guys you like, if you have a shitty mom you become a phsycopath serial killer, if you have good parents you are most likely not gonna need as much validation from peers

Good insight

 

[Chinacurry]

For me it definitely is the main thing. Not being desired by the other gender gives you mental damage

Yep defo, and it doesn't need to be 21, it's just by a certain age.

The mental damage from being incel seriously affects you and stops u being able to do other shit in life

 

[coping_mmanlet]

I dont think this is a common assumption within blackpill communities. I dont think really any incels think that lack of sex causes mental damage. Its more the, constantly repulsing women (getting disgusted stares, made fun of for looks behind ur back etc) or lack of respect from other men (whether it be being treated kindly or chads bumping into you trying to subvert you)

 

[Deleted member 5189]

Yes, that's what they mean when they say that.