how the fuck do you get respect from people

[dancs]

I feel the more you talk and get to know someone, the less they respect you. being friendly and doing things for people eventually grows them to loath you. I’m 5-5.5psl and I’m still feeling like people close to you only mug you off. People will always take advantage of you if you let them I feel

 

[Deleted member 13332]

Born nt

 

[dancs]

Born nt

guess not everyone was made to socialise

 

[Deleted member 15405]

Look respectable. It’s all about Looks.

 

[Deleted member 13332]

Look respectable. It’s all about Looks.

No retard go outside, you can get girls without personality if you gl
But respect? No you have to be cool nt guy

 

[dancs]

Look respectable. It’s all about Looks.

Unironically I think looks only gets you so far. I see far uglier guys who are treated with respect

 

[Deleted member 15405]

No retard go outside, you can get girls without personality if you gl
But respect? No you have to be cool nt guy

Unironically I think looks only gets you so far. I see far uglier guys who are treated with respect

I laughed.

 

[Deleted member 13332]

I laughed.

How ugly are you

 

[Deleted member 14677]

disregard females, acquire aesthetics

that’ll get u respect

 

[dancs]

No retard go outside, you can get girls without personality if you gl
But respect? No you have to be cool nt guy

I don’t have an issue with girls it’s just people trampling over or seeming petty and trying to pull you down or make you look worse in social scenarios I feel. Everyone is out for themselves

 

[aBetterMii]

Look as if they were to pull a gun out and shoot them at the slightest sign of disrespect. Ask @badg96 for advice on the serial killer stare

 

[dancs]

disregard females, acquire aesthetics

that’ll get u respect

tbh that’s not entirely true NT average guy with that certain aura can socially humiliate you even 1-2psl points below you

 

[Deleted member 15405]

How ugly are you

Severely. Cursed with knowledge that allows me to know every facial feature that ruins me, that makes me less than sub-human; worse than neanderthals. I am just an atom in space and time.

 

[dancs]

Look as if they were to pull a gun out and shoot them at the slightest sign of disrespect. Ask @badg96 for advice on the serial killer stare

haha might

 

[JosephGarrot123]

It's looks but it's also being able to banter. If you have no bantering/social skills it's hard. Autistic people take things seriously, while normies have NT-humor. Also since I have a lack of emotions, I literally have a hard time connecting with other people and being serious all the time

 

[Deleted member 13332]

Severely. Cursed with knowledge that allows me to know every facial feature that ruins me, that makes me less than sub-human; worse than neanderthals. I am just an atom in space and time.

Thats why you biased. Personality and nt matter so much once you average. Saying looks only matter means its over for 80% guys

 

[Deleted member 13332]

disregard females, acquire aesthetics

that’ll get u respect

Okay than 80% of guys are fucked

 

[dancs]

It's looks but it's also being able to banter. If you have no bantering/social skills it's hard. Autistic people take things seriously, while normies have NT-humor

exactly. I think everyone on this site is doomed by personality as much as looks, even if you ascend you will still have that autism that will be took advantage of socially by NT people

 

[Gonthar]

I feel the more you talk and get to know someone, the less they respect you. being friendly and doing things for people eventually grows them to loath you. I’m 5-5.5psl and I’m still feeling like people close to you only mug you off. People will always take advantage of you if you let them I feel

Write some more info about you: height, weight, body type, your job, how much money do you make, how popular you are, etc...

 

[Deleted member 15405]

Thats why you biased. Personality and nt matter so much once you average. Saying looks only matter means its over for 80% guys

Looks is the first impression. How you perceive things is/can only be allowed through the first impression. For example, if you facially look high trust, the person will believe you are high trust until proven otherwise, which takes a lot of disproving, because of how strong a first impression really is.

 

[JosephGarrot123]

exactly. I think everyone on this site is doomed by personality as much as looks, even if you ascend you will still have that autism that will be took advantage of socially by NT people

Exactly personality does matter. If you are autistic, it's over for you especially in a long term relationship, She'll leave for a NT chad. Of course Looks is king. then personality but it also affects decision making. Amnesia ascended with surgeries, but he's still autistic

 

[Adriana Lima]

Get a prestigious engineering degree like every other shitskin

 

[dancs]

Thats why you biased. Personality and nt matter so much once you average. Saying looks only matter means its over for 80% guys

exactly. I see guys who look like rats who are popular and get respect.

Write some more info about you: height, weight, body type, your job, how much money do you make, how popular you are, etc...

I’m 178cm, white , 18, still in school, work part time in a shop, I’m relatively associated with people my age and go out frequently enough. I have a 95 percentile muscle. I’m high IQ in school but fucked EQ socially I think. I’m awkward but nobody gives a fuck as you are a background character to their life

 

[dancs]

Looks is the first impression. How you perceive things is/can only be allowed through the first impression. For example, if you facially look high trust, the person will believe you are high trust until proven otherwise, which takes a lot of disproving, because of how strong a first impression really is.

I think I’m low trust tbh

 

[Yliaster]

Today if you want people to respect you,just get Clout.How you go about doing that is another story

 

[dancs]

Today if you want people to respect,just get Clout.How you go about doing that is another story

Honestly status is so underrated.

 

[UnderCovrN0rmie]

It's looks but it's also being able to banter. If you have no bantering/social skills it's hard. Autistic people take things seriously, while normies have NT-humor. Also since I have a lack of emotions, I literally have a hard time connecting with other people and being serious all the time

have made friends with a lot of normies and actual spergs and the autistic people have some of the funniest/sickest sense of humors you can find, a lot of them just struggle because they think people take things as seriously as they do

best advice is to just stop caring, don't go out of your way to roast people or whatever but the less you take social interactions seriously the easier they get

 

[JosephGarrot123]

have made friends with a lot of normies and actual spergs and the autistic people have some of the funniest/sickest sense of humors you can find, a lot of them just struggle because they think people take things as seriously as they do

best advice is to just stop caring, don't go out of your way to roast people or whatever but the less you take social interactions seriously the easier they get

that is true tbh, XQC is probably autistic but he has good humor due to that. Good for humor, but long term relationships there will be problems imo unless he pairs with another autistic girl or with a similar mind

 

[dancs]

have made friends with a lot of normies and actual spergs and the autistic people have some of the funniest/sickest sense of humors you can find, a lot of them just struggle because they think people take things as seriously as they do

best advice is to just stop caring, don't go out of your way to roast people or whatever but the less you take social interactions seriously the easier they get

True. 90% of being NT is just not giving a shit about anything, even yourself. You just can’t stop caring about something that matters to you though. You can’t reword your brain. anyone here who cares will always care, you can force yourself to act but inside you will still boil and that will show in one way or another

 

[UnderCovrN0rmie]

that is true tbh, XQC is probably autistic but he has good humor due to that

same with a lot of content creators honestly, the reason a lot of fictional characters get called neurodivergent (PC word for sperg, adhd, etc) is because the people who wrote them are

 

[JosephGarrot123]

same with a lot of content creators honestly, the reason a lot of fictional characters get called neurodivergent (PC word for sperg, adhd, etc) is because the people who wrote them are

true the problem with me is that I care too much of what people say. I can't give a fuck for some reason. I'm too self aware. People say I act weird, but the reason why is that I'm probably autistic, and that's my type of humor. Also I'm scared of being boring

 

[UnderCovrN0rmie]

True. 90% of being NT is just not giving a shit about anything, even yourself. You just can’t stop caring about something that matters to you though. You can’t reword your brain. anyone here who cares will always care, you can force yourself to act but inside you will still boil and that will show in one way or another

well if you do it enough your brain patterns will eventually change to it, can literally force yourself to smile all day and you'[ll feel happier than you would otherwise jfl

but yeah, can't just do sigma grindsets unironically and become a chad

 

[DesperadoRatado]

height

i have tall guys in my glass, 1 whom never even speaks, but the popular kids r always like: "yeah, hes cool"

meanwhile the most bullied kids are all manlets

 

[dancs]

well if you do it enough your brain patterns will eventually change to it, can literally force yourself to smile all day and you'[ll feel happier than you would otherwise jfl

but yeah, can't just do sigma grindsets unironically and become a chad

honestly fake it til you make it is never gonna work. you can try act NT or cool but doing so will only embarrass you if you aren’t just it. No matter your looks level

 

[dancs]

height

i have tall guys in my glass, 1 whom never even speaks, but the popular kids r always like: "yeah, hes cool"

meanwhile the most bullied kids are all manlets

Kind of true. Height does give you hella respect I think. It’s rare you see a 6”4 guy being disrespected

 

[UnderCovrN0rmie]

honestly fake it til you make it is never gonna work. you can try act NT or cool but doing so will only embarrass you if you aren’t just it. No matter your looks level

can absolutely learn to hide your tics and whatever, to everyone i meet irl i'm just a normal guy with good hearing (i don't have good hearing, just sensitive to loud bullshit because autism)

the actual social skills need to come from practice though which is hard to do if you're starting from literally the ground up

 

[dancs]

can absolutely learn to hide your tics and whatever, to everyone i meet irl i'm just a normal guy with good hearing (i don't have good hearing, just sensitive to loud bullshit because autism)

the actual social skills need to come from practice though which is hard to do if you're starting from literally the ground up

I have decent enough social skills. I obviously try hide my autism and relax. I have a girlfriend and a social circle. I just think your doomed if you even have to work on social skills.

 

[UnderCovrN0rmie]

I have decent enough social skills. I obviously try hide my autism and relax. I have a girlfriend and a social circle. I just think your doomed if you even have to work on social skills.

oh yeah absolutely, was lucky enough to get a huge circle of friends as a kid which gave me a lot of experience with it, would've roped by now if i hadn't tbh

 

[Gonthar]

I’m 178cm, white , 18, still in school, work part time in a shop, I’m relatively associated with people my age and go out frequently enough. I have a 95 percentile muscle. I’m high IQ in school but fucked EQ socially I think. I’m awkward but nobody gives a fuck as you are a background character to their life

What's a 95 percentile muscle?
Usually if you are tall and strong and look like you could easily beat the shit out of anyone, you'll get respect from people.
At 18 however it's still kinda early to get 'respect' from people of similar age, many still act childish, acting NT and fitting in with the crowd could get you to be more easily accepted.

 

[R@m@]

you dont care if you get respect

 

[dancs]

What's a 95 percentile muscle?

Usually if you are tall and strong and look like you could easily beat the shit out of anyone, you'll get respect from people.
At 18 however it's still kinda early to get 'respect' from people of similar age, many still act childish, acting NT and fitting in with the crowd could get you to be more easily accepted.

means I pack more muscle than 95% of men. Especially my age. I am around average height. Yes these childish people though get way more respect. Yet when I act childish it is frowned upon

 

[Blackgymmax]

You dont look masculine/dom. I dont either but my gymcelling makes up for it

 

[Blackgymmax]

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means I pack more muscle than 95% of men. Especially my age. I am around average height. Yes these childish people though get way more respect. Yet when I act childish it is frowned upon

Youre still skinny dude lmao

The average normie thinks a good natty physique looks fraile and pathetic

 

[CFW432]

Literally looks.

For guys: Look like you can get girls because then theyll want to associate with you cause it will increase their chances of them being able to meet girls that hang around you.

For girls: Obviously looks plus be the alpha leader of your friend group and clearly the most popular person in it.


This is why im a loner outcast

Im ugly sub 5 curry and dont look like i can get girls so no guy wants to form a social friend group with me. Girls also see me as objectively ugly, plus they notice im an outcast with no friends therefore no status amongst men, therefore unworthy of respect from women.

 

[hebbewem]

Your looks and your need dom behavior

 

[dancs]

Youre still skinny dude lmao

The average normie thinks a good natty physique looks fraile and pathetic

I’m kind of otter mode muscle but most guys where I live don’t workout. Most of the NT popular guys are skinny fat

 

[dancs]

Your looks and your need dom behavior

I don’t know. What exactly is dom behaviour. I really don’t get it. Bully?

 

[Gonthar]

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means I pack more muscle than 95% of men. Especially my age. I am around average height. Yes these childish people though get way more respect. Yet when I act childish it is frowned upon

Shouldn't this be then 5% percentile, if you are in the top 5%?
Anyway, if that's your body, your frame looks pretty average, nothing that would impress people especially when wearing regular clothes.
Back when I was in high-school many people still acted childish, always talking shit, teasing each other, pulling pranks, etc., you needed to be very NT, to think and talk fast to keep up with them, respect is a more mature concept, I think right now you're simply in the wrong crowd.
In college people were more mature and most of the bullshit from high-school was also gone.

 

[dancs]

Shouldn't this be then 5% percentile, if you are in the top 5%?
Anyway, if that's your body, your frame looks pretty average, nothing that would impress people especially when wearing regular clothes.
Back when I was in high-school many people still acted childish, always talking shit, teasing each other, pulling pranks, etc., you needed to be very NT, to think and talk fast to keep up with them, respect is a more mature concept, I think right now you're simply in the wrong crowd.
In college people were more mature and most of the bullshit from high-school was also gone.

Honestly I don’t get it. Just tired of always being left behind in conversation, when I try to speak I get interjected and what I said is forgotten sort of thing. NT people bully tf out of you socially

 

[dancs]

Literally looks.

For guys: Look like you can get girls because then theyll want to associate with you cause it will increase their chances of them being able to meet girls that hang around you.

For girls: Obviously looks plus be the alpha leader of your friend group and clearly the most popular person in it.


This is why im a loner outcast

Im ugly sub 5 curry and dont look like i can get girls so no guy wants to form a social friend group with me. Girls also see me as objectively ugly, plus they notice im an outcast with no friends therefore no status amongst men, therefore unworthy of respect from women.

True. I have a social circle though, and I have access to people, just always left behind. Maybe I just care too much and this happens to NT people except they don’t give a fuck