How to Actually Make your life good/worth living

[Insomnia]

I believe happiness and sadness exist and can be felt by everyone, but the baseline emotion of someone ‘depressed’ would be that of misery, their only ‘happiness’ being fleeting and forced, inevitably returning to that baseline misery built in through the countless moments of negative reinforcement throughout their life (= depression).

Acting as if that constant built up psychological damage can be willingly undone by just choosing to be happy is ridiculous. Like I said previously about trauma, you can’t just tell shell shocked troops to forget about their what they’ve seen in the war, because their experiences have been ingrained in them, they carry them everywhere, much like someone with depression.

I didn’t mean to say that a depressed person who’s been raped multiple times can have a really good life just because they try to be optimistic. Sure, they can maybe try, and make their life slightly better, but this thread applies to people with lighter issues.

 

[gymceltard]

I believe happiness and sadness exist and can be felt by everyone, but the baseline emotion of someone ‘depressed’ would be that of misery, their only ‘happiness’ being fleeting and forced, inevitably returning to that baseline misery built in through the countless moments of negative reinforcement throughout their life (= depression).

Acting as if that constant built up psychological damage can be willingly undone by just choosing to be happy is ridiculous. Like I said previously about trauma, you can’t just tell shell shocked troops to forget about their what they’ve seen in the war, because their experiences have been ingrained in them, they carry them everywhere, much like someone with depression.

Idk bro, every animal on earth doesn't have this issue, animals watch their kids being eaten in front of them and mourn a bit then move on.

If you believe humans are animals (atheist belief) then you should do the same as any other animal. Just keep going and shit.

If you believe otherwise then you believe in a spiritual realm and the devil is trying to get you to rope so you join him in eternal torment in hell. So just pray to got to remove the evil spirits, or if you don't want to do that then learn about Buddhism and meditate.

 

[ybuyhgui]

I didn’t mean to say that a depressed person who’s been raped multiple times can have a really good life just because they try to be optimistic. Sure, they can maybe try, and make their life slightly better, but this thread applies to people with lighter issues.

Ah ok in that case I pretty much agree with you, where the positive mentality concept is limited to those suffering on a small scale

 

[Insomnia]

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[Foreverbrad]

Yeah just move on with being poor, loser and incel.

If ONLY the problems were in my head but life reminds me of them every day due to the brutal treatment I receive from foids and normies and my inability to escape wageslavery due to shit pay and always choosing wrong stocks.

 

[Insomnia]

Yeah just move on with being poor, loser and incel.

If ONLY the problems were in my head but life reminds me of them every day due to the brutal treatment I receive from foids and normies and my inability to escape wageslavery due to shit pay and always choosing wrong stocks.

Thing is, you can probably change those things. I know you say to yourself ,,I’m too old and i can’t do shit anymore” but that’s false

 

[Foreverbrad]

Thing is, you can probably change those things. I know you say to yourself ,,I’m too old and i can’t do shit anymore” but that’s false

It’s not false, you need time to make money either through compounding or investing in yourself to have a good career. My life is finished because of my bad decisions in my 20s and there is no way I will ever catch up with same-age normies because even if I do turn things around now they will continue rocketing skywards on the compounding of everything they’ve already achieved.

Looks could have been fixed but if you fall behind in money it’s truly over.

 

[Insomnia]

It’s not false, you need time to make money either through compounding or investing in yourself to have a good career. My life is finished because of my bad decisions in my 20s and there is no way I will ever catch up with same-age normies because even if I do turn things around now they will continue rocketing skywards on the compounding of everything they’ve already achieved.

Looks could have been fixed but if you fall behind in money it’s truly over.

Don’t compare yourself with others. Just because other people got rich at an age younger than you, that doesn’t mean you should give up on trying. Also aren’t you 30? You still have time

 

[high_ltn]

Since you’re here, it’s fair to assume you have numerous problems, mental illnesses and a list of things that make your life hell.

While these problems may or may not be true depending on the person, the average user only chooses to focus on his flaws & things out of his control, which, leads them to being sad and ,,miserable”.
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It might upset a lot of people, but the truth is, you are miserable because you choose to be. You like being sad, it’s comfortable and easy. You don’t have a will to improve yourself because being sad is easier than actually doing something.

Like I said in the beginning, some people have actual uncontrollable problems that hinder with their lives, but that doesn’t mean you should give up everything.
It’s like killing yourself because you had a bad day. Yes, your day was shit, it’s okay to acknowledge that, but you shouldn’t let that day change your whole week.

I’m not saying you shouldn’t vent about your problems and whatnot, I’m saying you should: acknowledge your problems, talk to someone about them, and move on with life.

I know that getting out of bed and doing what needs to be done is truly hard, but if you’re able to do something you hate, then you’re almost guaranteed to succeed.

Hopefully you read this and found it slightly useful

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amazing anologys and good positive life fuel

 

[Foreverbrad]

Don’t compare yourself with others. Just because other people got rich at an age younger than you, that doesn’t mean you should give up on trying. Also aren’t you 30? You still have time

I don’t have time because at 32, in even just ten years I’ll be 42 and completely oldcel. There is no time for compounding or career change, it’s set in stone.

The whole of society is just a competition where you’re compared to others so it’s nonsense not to compare yourself to others unless you are going to just go live as a NEET hermit (which tbh is probably my only option now but seems quite pointless)

 

[Insomnia]

I don’t have time because at 32, in even just ten years I’ll be 42 and completely oldcel. There is no time for compounding or career change, it’s set in stone.

The whole of society is just a competition where you’re compared to others so it’s nonsense not to compare yourself to others unless you are going to just go live as a NEET hermit (which tbh is probably my only option now but seems quite pointless)

This is what I’m talking about in the thread. You still have time to make your life worth living, but it’s much easier to say it’s over and not do anything about it.
I’m not saying this to be mean, but complaining 24/7 on forums won’t make your situation better.

 

[Foreverbrad]

This is what I’m talking about in the thread. You still have time to make your life worth living, but it’s much easier to say it’s over and not do anything about it.
I’m not saying this to be mean, but complaining 24/7 on forums won’t make your situation better.

Giving up and not subjecting myself to the continued humiliation ritual of wageslaving and trying to interact with society would make my situation better. From a rational and logical point of view it does seem better to say it’s over and not do anything because I will at least not be tormented every day. The pittance I make from wage slavery is utterly irrelevant.

Because of my money problem I will always be seen as a loser and because of compounding I will never not have a money problem. Every 30+ normie is maximally grinding and there is no way I can catch up.,

 

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[WrothEnd]

My life is finished because of my bad decisions in my 20

I’ve seen you mention this a few time...

Mind if I ask what exactly you feel went wrong/regret doing?

 

[Foreverbrad]

I’ve seen you mention this a few time...

Mind if I ask what exactly you feel went wrong/regret doing?

1. Bad choice of career. This is the main one.
2. Failure to identify root cause of inceldom (face) and get surgery.
3. Wasted 5 years (1.5 + 3.5) being NEET due to Hopelessness.
4. Risk averse investing, failure to invest in winners (bitcoin, AI, quantum)

 

[hanukkah]

i dont feel happy living, and honestly i dont really see the bad on just killing myself, in my opinion it will just be a huge sleeping time and i have nothing to fear, i just want my suffering to end and if killing myself means that will happen id love to do it, in fact the reason why i havenr kill myself before its bc the idea of suicide and knowing that at any moment i could js off myself and feel nothing was what kept me alive but atp i really dont want to even try living another day but instead js end it so i dont have to live in this unconformity anymore

thanks for asking

Find a reason u would die for e.g your grandma and then live for it